There were probably other fat people dining there that could stand to lose a few pounds. By letting her in, it might have ruined the appetite's of a few of these, causing them to eat less for a few days and lose a pound or two.  Ruining the appetites of the thin people would have been unfortunate collateral damage, but sometimes you have to thing of the greater good. Even though I disagree with you, I don't think it makes me a snowflake.

They put up with enough, it won't kill you to have to look at them a bit, or avert your eyes.

 
But, I'm a big fan of pregnancy.    
The bigger the better, but that's I.

..... she's not fat. She's prego!  
And I'd like her TER number and donation for a 3 hour session.

If in fact as the bartender and waitress said, anyone in a crop top no matter what size their stomach is would be denied access, then they were correct to say what they did to the preggo lady.  

I guess the test would be to send in a hot lady with a great midriff to see if she got the same treatment! BTW GaG did someone piss in your cornflakes today, lol?

Steph XO

She's carrying 2 human beings inside of her bod lol. And for her to wear something like that, to me, says she's damn proud and more power to her. And that's about it. She probably didn't think "twice" about it. No pun intended.  

As for anyone who has never carried a beautiful lil creation inside of them, I suggest you zip your lip lol (which is probably 97% of this board). Pregnant women are some of the most beautiful women on the planet. They have a glow about them that can't be beat, not all but most. It's just one of those things.

Steadily, a collective notion of propriety is being consumed by a militant sense of autonomy, with social media fueling the fire. How ironic that a technology with the power to unite us has only made us more tribal.

Is there a chance you could show us a pic of what you look like, so we can see exactly how a man is supposed to look.  I mean surely with all this criticism, you must be one hot GQ looking dude in his early 20s.

BASTARD!!

Had to trick me into looking at the photo board didn't you? Now I'm ruined ...

was tasteless and without class, whether she was pregnant or not. Just my opinion.

Definitely not the first or last time any of us will see something like that.

I say to each their own, and let opinions remain opinion. We don't need others to shove their own opinions down our throats, or use them to police us.

I frankly don't give a crap !   Let her wear whatever she likes as long as her other kids don't throw a fit and crawl all over the place.  

  Now on the other hand.......some restaurants hire servers with rotted teeth, dirty hair, big asses and guts, etc....now that is just plain stupid on the part of ownership/management and is a definite turnoff to the place! (Happens too often in fast food, Waffle House, and other lower priced places....)
(But.....managers at all levels tend to hire in their own image...)

Or your way, either GaG...

I call foul...

-e

It is probably not the best choice of shirts when going out to a restaurant....but that being said, I have a definite thing for pregnant ladies and find the look pretty hot!...would love to see the rest of her.

Either way who wears a crop top out in public when you have pregnancy stomach? That's not public indecency, that's just terrible style. Even big girls dress a crop top better than that. She could have pulled off the look with high-waist preggo jeans or jogger pants.

So if I have bad hemroids I can walk into a restaurant with assless leather chaps, because it's more comfortable for me and because I have a legitimate medical issue? So many people don't give a shit anymore about how they appear in public and that's fine, but when you go out to eat to a sit down restaurant, you should at least try to dress like you give a shit. Probably some white trash that thought she would go a step up from the McDonalds in her local Walmart and got called out. I'd tell her to go back to the trailer, and get a maternity outfit that covers her up so she doesn't look like two pounds of meat stuffed in a one pound bag in the dining room. Rather than wearing a half shirt, some old sweat pants and her hair thrown up in a lose tail like she's running the garbage out to the curb, she could actually dress in something nice to go out and eat.

I go thru this with my friend over and over who goes clubbing in Scottsdale wearing gym shorts, a muscle shirt and cross trainers. Then he gets mad because they won't let him in over the dress code. I'm like "are go going out to the club to meet women, or to play basketball?" WTF

More Meat To Love

OHH LALA

I have run into situations,   somewhat like this girl's.

I have been asked three- very memorable- times to "Cover Up or Leave"
It appears some take offense to the size of my boobs.
I thought I was looking good, in those tops, for those occasions.  

 
I actually thought the Harley Store was kidding, until they had a cop escort me off the premises.

1. Flanigan's Seafood Bar, Ft. Lauderdale
2.  Harley Store, Baymeadows Rd, Jacksonville
3.  Don Cesar, St. Pete Beach

Be as fat as you want,wont make any difference to me. I will enjoy my meal just fine.  If you don't like what you see, just don't look.
 Here's where I draw the line, I was at the gym the other day and a very big gal  250+,,and I were in a small room, no problem til she walked by me and the stink hit me like hurricane Irma.  No excuse for this.. Be as fat as you want, but take a damn bath.

As a mature provider, I may not attract clientele who prefer the look of the younger, phenomenal beauties on TER.  Having said that, however, others may find my 2" inner labia something they want to experience regardless of my age.  If someone said that I should not be a provider because I am too old...it would be hurtful but more importantly, I would ask what someone commenting on that on the forum has to derive out of it.  My personal mantra:  for every person I am not suited to, there is another I am.  I'm sorry some are offended by my age, others' weight, etc.  but I'm not sure why it is important enough to bring attention to here as hurtful and unnecessary.

I've watched...

and tried to support my SO giving multiple births. Men who have children look and appreciate women who are are pregnant. Very rarely is anybody mean to a pregnant lady and most pregnant ladies tend not to show their belly in public.

There's a good chance she was a self centered, arrogant BITCH/CUNT to the server. I think it's a fairly good assumption, considering it takes a lot to kick pregnant lady out of a restaurant. IMHO.

would this girl be denied service?

a real fucking tool..

As long time columnist Miss Manners aptly notes, standardized manners lubricate social interactions with people from diverse backgrounds.   With a minimal set of widely practiced manners, interactions can be smoother, with less risk of the need for bloody duels.  

Dining at a restaurant is still regarded as somewhat of a formal public affair, and therefore certain manners are expected -- including minimal dress codes and loudness of speech.

To quote from Judith Martin (Miss Manners) “You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life.  But if you behave in a way that offends the people you're trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you...There are plenty of people who say, 'We don't care about etiquette, but we can't stand the way so-and-so behaves, and we don't want him around!' Etiquette doesn't have the great sanctions that the law has.  But the main sanction we do have is in not dealing with these people and isolating them because their behavior is unbearable.”

The irony, of course, is GaGa complaining about someone else's manners.