So why do hobbyists go all out when they are "paying" for the hour? What's your take on this ladies? Is this the prevalent attitude among hobbyists that you see? One gentleman said he's only there to "beat it up" and would never go down on a lady that he's paying for... What's your take?
Same as us ladies... Men arent only into certain things.
Some dont even like to daty in "real" life.
Some men do not even have intercourse with us..
There are many that dont utilize our full services-
Its their own beliefs .
Ive heard many times-
" I feel its cheating if I have intercourse"
Believe it or not, I dont open my mouth and give my opinion .. LOL...
Funny you should comment on it- I say that on my site-
I had a gent call me this weekend and ask me if I was full- satisfying session ? I thought that was a great way to word it.
I take their lead-
If there are things they dont do such as daty, I never tell them to do it or suggest it. ( mainly, men will ask if they feel the urge to do so ) or theyve already read reviews and know its allowed but just wanna make sure...
If I feel them getting to the breaking point during my oral to them.. i say- want to put a condom ? or for me to slow down.. and they let me know that way.. as well, in that manner.. i let them know it is allowed without saying " you know, you can fuck me if you like " hahahahah
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but giving a nice backrub, doing the sensuous licking and FS usually takes more than an hour or it might feel rushed. I have to time it just right and it usually always runs over the hour. I'm not a clockwatcher by any means, but a lot of men take advantage of our services and think they can stay all night. I usually find a way to encourage what they would prefer and concentrate on that, but still give them a little bit of everything. Men will always ask if they want DATY. Gentlemen: If you really want a true GFE, then you need to book at least two hours, but I have no problem with one-hour appointments, but don't expect the world in one hour (although I've gotten pretty good at those dates too). Wink!
Hugs,
Ciara
At the rates today, being so low, I am happy with a rub and tug.
I think alot of gals UNDERrate themselves
As I have had sessions where I was the clock watcher - thinking "what was I thinking when I booked an hour!?" On the other hand, I have also had sessions for 1 hour where I thought - man 1 hour was a mistake.... cash in the stock and ask this gal for a week! so it varies...
There have been times when the gal has advertised full GFE and when I show up, she takes a antiseptic towellette and wiped me all over.... I thought that was a little excessive.... Oh - and you can bet there was no kissing there! best sessions that I have had though have just been where the provider and I clicked.... enjoyed each other and then went our two separate ways... then got back together again later.... very nice.... and in those instances it did feel like a Girl Friend.
So, my experiences have been very variable - and I have to say - with the exception of one, I have enjoyed all of them - for various reasons... not all of them due to sex.
I cannot say that I am into getting back rubs though... prefer cuddling and kissing.... go figure.
gets the engines going!!!!!!!!!Then what ever happens go...with the flow.
I've had sessions where the guy has just laid there barely moving or touching..I like to get those over with ASAP....just not fun!!!!
I hate asking what do you want to do? Boring!!!!
I'm looking forward to that time, let me tell ya!!!!
kisses till then
Terri
but when it doesn't - well each tick of the clock is like a nail in my head.... I gotta say , I think that I have been incredibly lucky with the ladies that I have seen - most of them are kind, considerate and really sexy...
get in a 15-20 minute backrub (which relaxes him), then lick all over, starting on the back which really gets him going again. Men have always complimented me on my time spent, but hey it's the client's choice as to what he wants. I always ask him if he wants a backrub first then I leave it up to him. Wink!
Hugs,
Ciara