Last night I had a double session with two lady's Both were very attractive. I contacted one of the ladies prior and she gave me the name of another lady who she enjoys doubles. Both ladies have excellent reviews.
Without going into details, the session was terrible. one of the ladies never even kissed me. The other lady only provided a light kiss. They didn't interact with each other. At one point, one of the ladies looked liked they were texting on their phone. After the session, one of the girls texted apologizing and asked that I not do a review. Should I do a review? I would hate for another guy to go thru such a miserable time. Thanksbut if I did doubles, then I'd appreciate knowing about this.
I'm not sure you owe her an answer, but you could toss back the question to her and ask why you shouldn't write one. Her response would be enlightening.
I take it that you had not done a one on one with either of the gals prior. That's a mistake if true. You want to be sure that you have chemistry with at least one of the gals before entering a situation with two. Good chemistry tends to be contagious, but so is bad chemistry, as your experience seems to bear out.
Did you? Did you have a singles session with the provider you first contacted?
Should you write a review? How much info do the providers have of you. Any RL info or TER handle? If they don't have much info, I'd write the review. If you're concerned about repercussions, You can always wait awhile (3 months) and use an alias to write the review.
Try to keep the tone factual and objective so you don't sound whiney or vindictive. The fact that she asked you not to write a review is her acknowledgment that you didn't get your money's worth and yet you were not offered anything (a discounted future session, or a partial refund) to compensate you for your loss.
is to see well-reviewed ladies. Advice given regarding doubles is to have seen at least one of the ladies in a 1 on 1 session and ask her for a recommended doubles partner who she is comfortable "working with".
Bottom line: You were short-changed if not ripped off. In fairness to others write the review.
Now, if either lady has info that could come back to haunt you, i'd wait (allowed 90 days to write a review) a few months and then post the review, possibly under your alias.
If the provider threatens or attempts to blackmail him in any way for writing the review, he can report it to TER, and she might get delisted. Usually, telling a hostile provider this is enough to get them to back off.
I think the community deserves to hear about the pair and their poor performance, but like it's been said before, make sure it's factual an objective.
I also think it would be cool if you asked that provider why she doesn't want a review to be written, not so that you can post the reason up here, but so that you know that she acknowledged what was wrong.
Sometimes these things happen. Once I had a 2 hour doubles session booked, my provider friend had been up late partying and was off her game - she actually fell asleep for the second hour!
It wasn't my fault but I felt so bad - I offered the client a free session with me or a half price doubles session with a different provider.
Sounds like this girl is only apologizing because she doesn't want you to write a review. Not very sincere in my opinion.
All great advice here so far.
Jot down some notes now, as you will remember less in the future.
Also, there are ways to tell the truth without being mean or too harsh. Remember it is YOUR review and opinion.
It sounds like you have real reasons to be not satisfied with the session. Others may have different views of how they want a doubles date to go, so factual info can help. (Good or bad)
It's easy to say "Do it" when you're not in the hot seat and may be worried about repercussions.
My doubles opinion: I've had about 5 doubles with my ATF and she brings a new gal each time. We hardly did any kissing and no real girl on girl action.
Those are not a big deal to me. I figure they are on my dime and its all about me....lol (selfish bastard, I know).... We did however, do EVERYTHING that I requested and more. And each session was phenominal!!!
Good luck!!
In the past, I have wondered why escorts would offer doubles if they aren't into each other. Honestly, even if they had an understanding y'alls threesome was more FMF than FFM, it seems like they didn't even provide that experience.
I would want to know which ones to avoid. Nothing like dropping double the fee for half the performance.
When you think about it.
I had a regular provider that I really liked pull a shitty double on me. When I put 2 and 2 together, I figured out that she was using me as an ATM for one of her friends. It's tough not to be angry when you realise that you have been scammed. You can either write a review and deal with the blowback (and there will be blowback) or back channel the info. It's up to you and you alone because you will have to deal with all the BS alone. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't, situation for you ... give it some careful thought.
It's nice of you to consider, but it's ridiculous for her to ask you to not write one. Providers should have absolutely no say or influence on a rating/review. Seriously....what's the point of these reviews if people aren't honest?! You don't have to be an asshole about it, just be accurate. If she has other great reviews, makes me wonder how she got them...or if they're even legit!