Double entendre aside, is it rude and/or bad etiquette to ask a provider for a picture without a blurred face? Even if it isn't, are they just going to tell me to fuck off anyway?
I've been with a couple of providers now and a pretty face is kind of a big factor in my overall experience and I would prefer to know exactly what I'm looking at going in. Any and all feedback is welcome.there's a reason why!
Why you think you are so special for us to show a pic of our face?
Read the reviews, guys usually post about it, who she looks like, if she has a pretty face or not. etc.
30$ VIP isn't that bad if you want to know these type of things.
but you will probably not get the answer you want. As Veronica stated, there's a reason why some providers don't show their face in pictures.
Its just stupid. Last time I checked, selling sexual services is still illegal in the US. Many of these ladies do this part time and have a day job where the other employees may not appreciate the convenience of having an escort working in the office. (Mostly women are the unappreciative ones.) For a lot of them, their families do not know that they do this kind of work and they go to great lengths to keep it UTR. If you find a provider that will give you a face photo prior to meeting you the first time, then either she is already "out" as an escort, or else she's also stupid. How does she know what you will do with the photo once you have it?
I don't know what the percentage is of all the women listed here but it's substantial.
already gone public that they're a provider, then there is no reason to blur the face, but I don't think the OP was referring to those. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.
Even if it isn't, are they just going to tell me to fuck off anyway?
Actually, my assistant answers most of my email these days, and she can be counted upon to be far nicer than I am... which is a big part of the reason I have her. 
When I get PMs or DMs asking for face pics, I usually just ignore them without replying.
If she wanted to advertise her face, she would. Now menu items... Once you are BCD then COF is a question, but not before, unless advertised.
It is no wonder why women see hobbyist as saps and worthless men.
Why the need to jump into a fight when YOU ARE NOT ASKED TO
It seems these women are able to stand on their own and not need a pathetic sap of a guy like you to come and chime in for them.
Do you feel masculine and manly because of this? Cause guess what, you only make yourself a fool to these hookers.
They do not need or want your comments, they only want your money. So quit this stupid "I'm coming to THE DEFENSE of a lady thing"
treat a hooker like a hooker and treat women who don't turn tricks with respect
whether it be from a provider or hobbyist.
"treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen" -Wilson Mizner
“Call a jack a jack. Call a spade a spade. But always call a whore a lady. Their lives are hard enough, and it never hurts to be polite.” -Patrick Rothfuss
CEO, when did you stop beating your wife?
After all, is there anyone you know more pathetic than him?
Probably the same reaction I had when I was asked for a copy of my photo ID - No fucking way!
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it's a pretty stupid thing to do if you don't want her hanging up on you thinking there's something suspicious about you. How does she know you're not a cop who's phishing around for incriminating evidence to use against her in a court of law? I know because there's this one bp ad in particular where the provider is always requesting the man's face pic along with his dick pic, and she's not a bad looking specimen herself,
but everytime I see it, I decide I'm not going to call her because how do I know she's not going to either; (a) turn my pics over to the police as evidence, or (b) oust me as a john by posting my pics on facebook where my family could see it, or both? You can either take a chance and do a cold meeting with her hoping she's at least half way hot, or you can read her reviews where her facial qualities will be described in detail. It's best to have a blurred face, (and perhaps it's even fun trying to guess what she looks like) than for her to post a face pic and it turns out to be a photo of someone else entirely.
Even with review scores in the 8-10 range for appearance, I was somewhat disappointed in their face about 50% of the time, and VERY disappointed about 15%. Now I only see providers who advertise with unblurred pics. Better, yet are selfies, and the best is video.
If you can't resist an escort's ad that doesn't provide these, ask if she has a meet-n-greet option or 1/2 hour rates. The less you invest (time and money) in an ugly provider, the sooner you can get back in the game.
If you can't resist an escort's ad that doesn't provide these, ask if she has a meet-n-greet option or 1/2 hour rates. The less you invest (time and money) in an ugly provider, the sooner you can get back in the game.
- doing this can go sour really fast and is often looked at as a waste of my time. Once a client starts talking meeting in person/ half hrs, I think (A. he's cheap and is a time waster (B. He's an asshole out to waste my time. (C. This is a request that doesn't come by often so it's fishy. (D. Client is probably on some set up/cop shit. Either way, I'm never thirsty enough to see a gentleman so I'll comfortably refuse especially since I don't offer half hours
-If you're a newbie and this is your request, LMFAO! You can just simply go find a sugar baby. They meet in person and show their faces.
-Now, my gentlemen that have been with me the longest and have become special in some way or another get face photos. New guys? LMFAO. I don't think any of us that blurr our faces are that hard up to meet this way.
but it is a great way to land on her DNS list.
I think a lady with all kinds of blurred face pics out there is rather unlikely to provide "oh special, special you" with an unblurred pic, eh?
No, not rude. In this case, it is foolish - or perhaps stupid to ask if your intent is to see said lady.
That’s the problem with face shots LE and Hotel management can spot you a mile away . And possibly the person asking for the headshot is the management of the hotel or LE. So when you say is rude I don’t think it’s rude as much is scary because it makes us think you’re a problem. LE. So rude I don’t think it’s rude that’s the wrong word. Everyone’s trying to stay anonymous here we use funny names and we don’t interfere and each other’s lives .
I don't meet with a provider if I don't see a face photo. On the other hand, a provider who does not offer a face photo does not want her/his face associated with this hobby, so I just skip them and select from those who do provide what I prefer, which is a face photo. It's okay to ask, to answer your question, but those who don't have their reasons and I wouldn't expect a positive response,