Something like that should be included, especially if she is advertising incalls.
It's quite different if she advertises outcalls only and the guy requests she get the hotel. I see a guy on my off days near my home. He normally gets the hotel because it isn't my area that I work in. I got the hotel this past time and he paid for it because it is so much easier if I get it so we can meet in the early morning hours. That is an exception. It is something I don't offer and was making it easier on him. He always got it prior and knew that since it wasn't even a little close to my incall (for either of us on my off days). I always feel everything should be included in the rate. Anything else is an upsell. Yes, Greek is an upsell for me. I don't advertise it though. A guy who books with me knows it is not included.Really should be part of the posted rates especially when advertised as an Incall provider on some of their sites. IMO. Here is the kicker. Just wanted to know how much this would be added to our fun. E-mails now turned over to her assistant who wrote back $100-150. I'm not cheap and was booking 90 minutes, but 150 plus her rate became almost $1,000.00. I just asked this assistant if I could have her call me to talk about this. Her answer, "She nor I do not talk on the phone and it now appears you are not a good fit". Opinions? Thoughts? I moved on btw.
I responded with the following locally and would like to see how others have had like experiences:What's going on with some providers? These can't be the same women. The same thing happened to me last week. Brand new pretty provider advertises one rate for Incall-Outcall as many do. Jumped through hoops for three days giving everything asked for. Made a mistake by even giving a copy of my license. Have never ever been asked for that before meeting. (Please don't yell at me) All done via e-mail. Was accepted and told I had to pay for the Incall.
Really should be part of the posted rates especially when advertised as an Incall provider on some of their sites. IMO. Here is the kicker. Just wanted to know how much this would be added to our fun. E-mails now turned over to her assistant who wrote back $100-150. I'm not cheap and was booking 90 minutes, but 150 plus her rate became almost $1,000.00. I just asked this assistant if I could have her call me to talk about this. Her answer, "She nor I do not talk on the phone and it now appears you are not a good fit". Opinions? Thoughts? I moved on btw.
I wouldn't have requested to "talk about this." I would have bailed. I understand making me pay for the hotel, but that really should be built into the incall rate, unless these are somehow special circumstances. (They're suddenly spraying for bugs at her place?) Or, if they're traveling, they should post a special traveling rate.
Not posting anything about it in ads or on websites, waiting to tell you until after you've gone through the screening process, is dishonest.
in moving on. Your only mistake was not doing it as soon as she said "by the way, it'll be an extra 150 for a room..." Suggesting talking or negotiating was pointless. She should not be advertising an incall and then asking for extra donation to cover it.
(You're welcome for not bashing you regarding providing a picture ID to a hooker.)
to discuss rates or sexual activities with a new client. That's how LE baits providers. $100-$150 is not a lot for a decent hotel room. You're probably only paying part of the daily rate, and the rest will be divided among her other customers that day. If the girl is well-reviewed, then you have enough information to know if its going to be worth it. If she has no reviews, it sounds a bit steep for a pig in a poke to me. If the photos are fake, it could end up a poke in a pig.
Giving your license information was just plain dumb. Now you have to worry about ID theft. This is what happens when you are making appointments while you have a boner. If all that blood was still in your brain, you wouldn't have done it.
That's a fucking upsell, plain and simple! Springing an up charge on someone after he went through screening and set everything up, is pure bullshit. If she advertises incall, the fee should be in her rate or clearly stated upfront that there will be additional charges.
That's why SHE shouldn't be upselling and talking about rates before the session. If it wasn't on her ad or site up front, she shouldn't have brought it up and it's bullshit she waited until she had him screened to do so.
"If she's well reviewed then you have enough information to know if she's worth it"? That's not the issue. It doesn't matter whether she's "worth" the NEW total. This is no different than if a guy passed screening and then said to her "hey, will you take 150 less than your posted rates?" I'm sure we all know what you would say to that guy, and you'd be right.
I would say the OP dodged a bullet except for her having his ID.
Maybe he was so fixed on the REALLY dumb move the guy made in sending a copy of his DL to notice that this was a DEFINITE case of upsell.
I agree he dodged a bullet. It would have probably been another upcharge of fifty bucks for a condom, twenty five bucks for towel rental, a fifteen dollar surcharge for soap and the water used showering etc etc etc.
This is CDL's hump day. The blood is flowing to the other head.
Yes, I was fixated on the DL. I missed the upsell red flags. But as Andrew mentions, less than an hour later, I was getting blown by a hot young Asian girl. Since I blew the post, but she blew me, isn't that a wash? Or am I still down a point?
Don't forget about sheet rental. You can save big on that if you can get the guy before or after you to agree to hot bunking.
HouseHasWheels can fill us in on the finer details of that process.
You are all correct. Thank You. I'm a Newbie pretty much still, and she has no reviews yet, but had good references which I checked out.
is not well-reviewed by experienced hobbyists? This is SOP for newbies.
You were very lucky you escaped this upsell situation. RIght call is bailing. Hope the DL issue doesn't bite you in the a$$.
Advertised incall rates are just that rate and nothing more, this sounds like way too many hoops to go thru and a lot of BS.
Just move on to someone else.
Something like that should be included, especially if she is advertising incalls.
It's quite different if she advertises outcalls only and the guy requests she get the hotel.
I see a guy on my off days near my home. He normally gets the hotel because it isn't my area that I work in. I got the hotel this past time and he paid for it because it is so much easier if I get it so we can meet in the early morning hours. That is an exception. It is something I don't offer and was making it easier on him. He always got it prior and knew that since it wasn't even a little close to my incall (for either of us on my off days).
I always feel everything should be included in the rate. Anything else is an upsell. Yes, Greek is an upsell for me. I don't advertise it though. A guy who books with me knows it is not included.
Really should be part of the posted rates especially when advertised as an Incall provider on some of their sites. IMO. Here is the kicker. Just wanted to know how much this would be added to our fun. E-mails now turned over to her assistant who wrote back $100-150. I'm not cheap and was booking 90 minutes, but 150 plus her rate became almost $1,000.00. I just asked this assistant if I could have her call me to talk about this. Her answer, "She nor I do not talk on the phone and it now appears you are not a good fit". Opinions? Thoughts? I moved on btw.