I'm relatively new to the hobby that is to say I've been playing for the last three years. One problem I seem to be encountering is providers getting impatient with me if I don't climax within the first twenty minutes or even sooner. I mean I am paying them for at least an hour and even longer. Before I started hobbling and of course when I was younger and even now I have stamina. When I was banging civvies that was viewed as an asset. However, now that I P4P my stamina seems to be a determent. I have had providers cut me short and even refunded part of my fee because (I guess) I wore them out. What do you ladies think? Is it unreasonable to expect a full hour or even longer of play time when I paid up front?
Top shelf girls don't give you the bum's rush. Perhaps you should see fewer girls at a higher rate.
Kind of like 'life lock' does for identity theft? One of my staff made a huge mistake of sleeping with someone who was rather viejo, gordo y feo and now he is the laughing stock of the office. I told him not to write that review. 
just tell him to give her some khakis.
...and all this time I thought they liked those red soled shoes. 
I agree with the statement top shelf providers give you more. I have dont doubles with 2 girls that were relatively cheaper they charge about $200 an hour and they clearly are not GFE, I have done doubles with ladies that charge more than me $600 an hour and you can defielty tell they go the extra mile. I would consider myself high end at $400 an hour and alway do anything and everything i can ( as long as its safe) to make sure I satisfy my clients.Lol I once had a 4 hour appointment and I thought we would probally get dinner or drinks but turns out his appetite was for non stop sex and you know what I didnt complain once not even when my legs were about to give out from being spread open and being in top for so long my jaw hurt from all the oral and it was like running a 10k marathon almost haha I did it because I was getting paid well over 1k and for that amount of money I made sure every penny counted.
I’m /really/ new to the Hobby (couple of months; I’ve got total of one review), but already I’ve started looking for Providers whom I find attractive AND have a lot of reviews that describe them as being nice, laid back and relaxed... or at least patient.
I want to enjoy their company as well as their physical charms.
Jake makes a good point — what price point are u typically at? I don’t think u have to go high end. Just not low end.
Also what is the session like? Do u just start pounding away for 20 mins at the outset? I think for most guys there is some warm up and usually bBBJ which ought to put u half way there or more. (Way more than half way for me. I am slayed by good DFK and BBBJ) I am not usually even starting FS until 20 mins in but maybe that is just me.
Ah - now that /is/ a good point.
I’m like that too; I wanna talk to ‘em, hug & hold ‘em and run my hands over their lovely bodies for a while before we begin working toward the “main event”.
Edited cuz of grammar. 🧐
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Jake does make a good point of the price of admission. I did recently up my budget and her service was much better.... However, even when I solicited lower priced (With a good reputation) provider, I still wore her out. I mean I'm just an average guy. I don't think I am unusually endowed however my last civvy girlfriend said I was the biggest she had ever had.
........ banging the shit out of them, of course they are going to want to stop or slow down. There are some ladies who are energizer bunnies but most ladies have limits to how much their wonderful vaginas can take. These are human sex workers not machines.
Perhaps, learning to be a lover and not a fucker will help with their want to.
Perhaps, lay back and enjoy a great BBBJ for a while, then please the lady with some DATY or even DATO. Then when she is nice a ready, have at it . That's way more fun to me than just banging for a full hour. Yeah, I'm one of those that takes an act of congress to get me to cum. I could bang for hours, if I had the energy, (I do sometimes).
But for the ladies to want to cooperate, it's got to be fun for them too.
Now that I've got myself all horned up............... I better do something about it.
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Yo Mick! I do what you mentioned, However, I can't help myself to note your comment was thigh slapping funny!!!!!
I think you'll just have to find some who are okay with your style. Maybe slightly bigger gals.
You'd be surprised how nice a provider is if you don't pay her upfront. Even your expectations will be satisfied. She wants money upfront just walk out on her.
if you never want to get laid.
It is probably great advice for the heauxs he sees. There are no generalizations here. He might be seeing less than honest women.
The opposite is correct for me and the women I see.
I probably wouldn't be playing with the ladies he plays with.
... especially wrt first dates with providers. Almost all providers I know of are clear they'd like the donation given up front. Not doing that risks making them nervous about it, which doesn't bode well for a satisfying session.
Funny! Wow that is a first thanks for sharing I enjoyed the laugh this morning. I thought that is why you paid a PRO...
I cherish my playtime, and would never book appointments back to back on the same day. I only see one person, so all my attention goes in to providing a top notch service. Intermission is sometimes needed to catch our breathes, but the fun goes on. After the chit chat the session is pretty much nonstop erotic adventure. Are you well endowed? Maybe that is a factor. IDK. I would say that maybe they are in the wrong industry, or they had more appointments that day.
If your well hung & that is the issue maybe you should take up a second job in the adult entertainment industry. I always see posts inquiring about having a male join. You get have lots of sex. lol I do not think anyone will complain about a man who has stamina. Loco. Hilarious. Thanks again, for the laugh this is unbelievable.
Happy Holidaze!
It works for me. I've never had a problem not paying upfront. You want to pay upfront and get shorted on service and time or worse cash and dash, that's your problem.
Never had the problems you are concerned about. Different people different levels of trust.
Or are you just stupid?
Not too stupid, just must be stuck having car dates. Sounds like a really great time saying to the ladies, I'm sure you are going to short me on a service or leave, so I'm holding the cash till you finish me.
I'm sure that goes over really well.
Not so much. Unless you're ROGM. Of course, he also buys his hookers groceries and Pampers and does BBFSCIP with them. If you believe him, that is.
is usually confined to the low-rent hookers. Ladies with their own websites that are building their brand rarely pull scams and ripoffs. If the higher-rent ladies give you the bum's rush, its most likely because they thought you were an asshole.
There are certain hobbying contexts where not paying upfront is acceptable or even the standard procedure.
For example, if I scoop up a SW on the Are or the Ave in Detroit and we go to a side street for car date, we would be negotiating specific acts for a specific fee and payment would follow me receiving the services. Hopefully we aren't interrupted by Uncle Leo!
Also, if I'm getting "extras" in a strip club VIP room, that also involves some specific negotiation in advance, and generally payment afterwords.
At AMPs it depends. The house fee is always paid upfront, and the tip is almost always negotiated with the girl (unless I'm repeating at the same place with the same girl). She may want the tip in advance or wait until we're finished.
In an incall/outcall context where I'm seeing a reputable provider, the fee is almost always expected in advance, and I'm happy to do that. I haven't had an experience where a performance was significantly different from what I'd expect from reviews.
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I’m older and often have trouble climaxing. The vast majority of ladies are patience and do not hurry me at all if I am with the time. Many of my independent regulars have given extra time based on on long relationships. Older providers are particularly patient