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priyarainelle See my TER Reviews 216 reads
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As long as she is a legitimate provider, you should be okay.  

If you are concerned about neighbors and privacy, specify what she should wear and do upon arrival.

Make sure your place is clean and have fun!

If you were single and lived alone in a 1br/1ba, would you do an outcall there? I've only ever done incall, and am curious if people ever do outcalls to their own homes?  I found a provider I'm interested in that is outcall only. I could do a cheap hotel, but then it costs just as much if not more than an incall provider I've already seen before and enjoy seeing.

I'm just scared to do an oncall at my place is all. How do people get past those nerves?

check her twitter for her personality, is she discreet? is she dressing appropriate for the location, time?  
you can learn a lot of a lady but looking at their social media.

She has no social media or website posted on her TER profile, just a phone number, email, and a P411 page. Her review situation seems pretty solid though.

You'll get over the nerves as soon as she puts your dick in her mouth or dining on her sweetness.

Appropriate dress is more important in the daytime for obvious reasons. However, you're allowed to have sexily dressed company visit you. It's your girlfriend as far as anyone knows. I had a regular show up on a sunny summer afternoon only wearing panties I bought her as a gift and a halter top ... and a million dollar smile. lol.  She was sooo fucking hot ... aside from agency gals, 90% of my friends visit me at my place. I'm NOT married.  

If I was, I would NEVER ...  

A tip ... If you have frequent visitors, you can leave with your company on occasion and have them drop you off someplace mutually convenient. That might make her seem more like a "regular" date if you have a snoopy neighbor.  

Some may say I'm paranoid, but I see it as careful. I've had a lot of visitors at my home. A lot.  

You're allowed to fuck gals in your home. Enjoy it.

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No worries about it, if her reviews are solid... you should just let her know that the incall is at your place and you will like to see her show up in jeans and sneakers, or gym attire.  
When I go to gentleman's home I usually have very discreet clothing, gym clothes, pony tail, soft make up.  

To outcall in hotels.. well it depends of the weather, the hotel, I prefer to look like another "tourist" / "visitor". or business like attire.  
Jeans and nice top it's appropriate.

But only with reputable ladies.  

Bkingb173 reads

Probably only a good idea with a provider you have an established relationship with. I've read a couple of nightmare stories about guys getting baited and switched and then the woman making a big scene when he tried to throw her out. Or, God forbid, a robbery.

how many bedrooms and baths you have impacts whether to see a provider there or not.  Many providers work out a dedicated incall that has one bed one bath, which is just an workplace, not where they live, and there is enough space for anything you would want to do, so I don't know why you think it would be an issue.

I mean it less about the space and more about the comfort of using your own home to host an outcall. Am I weird to be scared to use my own home for an outcall?

You're not weird. I've never done it, and wouldn't ever with an unfamiliar.  

You are a little weird for bringing up how many bedrooms and bathrooms you have, considering it was beside the point.

to my home when we were OTC, but have never had an issue with them knowing where I live even if the relationship ended amid a little drama.  If the girl is well-reviewed and has a permanent website, she has too much to lose to cause you any problem from knowing where you live.  You should avoid touring girls and low-end providers from BP and CL.  These girls are more about a quick buck than building a reputable business.  Many low-end providers have pimps, which poses a threat of assault, robbery or blackmail.  

It might even keep you out of trouble. A reputable provider doesn't want to draw unnecessary attention
to herself either. As CdL infers below, pick reputable providers.  

Maybe you should start with someone you've already seen at her incall. Build rapport and trust and she'll most likely entertain visiting you. You'll be looking at your watch anxiously waiting for the knock at your door.

If you are not used to entertaining just regular friends or close family at your place regularly it would feel awkward for you to have a complete stranger in your pad  and all up in your comfort abode.  

This is how I used to feel because I rarely invited anyone over but I am used to it now since I entertain a lot.

I live in a luxury 5th wheel trailer in an over 50 community RV park. But, I've only had ladies that I've known for quite a while come to me. When I first met them, I went to them.  
I've done plenty of hosting in hotel rooms when I'm in different cities.  
If the lady has pages of good reviews, not just 5 reviews, I would be comfortable in hosting. i have sent pm's to some of the reviewers asking what they thought about the ladies. Sometimes, I get positive answers, sometimes negative answers and sometimes no answer. It's all good.

If i do host,  I just make sure that the things I am concerned about losing are put well away.

The best is when my 99 year old neighbor comes out when the lady has just left and he gives me a round of applause and a thumbs up.

Just getting the audio or did you set him up with a CCTV feed?

Now THERE'S an idea. Set up all the geezers in the community with a video feed and charge them by the month.  If a guy over 70 is still married, he'll be willing to pay double.

If i'm still here when i get to 65 (I'm 56 now), I get to join the Park Swingers Group.  I hear the ladies are always excited when there is new young male blood to add to the Saturday afternoon play day. Of course it's over by 8pm.

Zzbottom2215 reads

If I lived alone in a 1 bed/1bath place my concerns would be bigger than if I should or shouldn't host a hooker.  I would save all my money and get a grown up home:) Just kidding...mostly.

Not if he was living in Manhattan ... maybe he prefers to spend his money on pussy instead of an empty bedroom.  

He's pretty young, so he better have a good payimg job if he likes to hobby a lot or he may have to move into an efficiency ... lol

JakeFromStateFarm151 reads

But only those whom I already knew well.  Then there's LV, where the game is almost exclusively outcall.

In my early days in the hobby, I was single and living in an apartment with 1br/1ba, and I always did outcall. I felt more secure on my home turf, didn't have to deal with driving and directions, and could set the tone with some good music. The only precaution that I ever took was to hide my wallet and car keys.  

On a couple of occasions, a provider would show up with a female friend, even though I didn't request a double or have extra funds on hand for that kind of upsell. One time, the extra girl just relaxed in my living room and read some magazines. The other time, the extra girl watched us, and that was hot.

I can't host these days, due to the unpredictable work schedule of my live-in girlfriend, so I always do incall now.

RevEJones136 reads

better than Matt Foley's living quarters down by the river...

I had an agency I used to call for years.  They would send a provider down to my 1 br 1 bath apt in Queens.  Never had a problem.  My neighbors were old and deaf.  Since I was the first of my friends to get his own apt, my place was a hangout for all my friends male and female so no one ever said anything about an occassional female visitor.

Would you invite a young lady you met at the local park to your home?  
 It's more difficult doing quick  screening on a civilian than a TER Gal.  
  I could write a book about some of the civilian Gals I thought were sane until I invited them to my home and they over extended their stay or worse.
  I would never worry about a reputable TER reviewed Gal visiting my home with the 99.99% probability  she won't try to overstay her welcome or go crazy on me.  
   
 

Posted By: redsox2017

If you were single and lived alone in a 1br/1ba, would you do an outcall there? I've only ever done incall, and am curious if people ever do outcalls to their own homes?  I found a provider I'm interested in that is outcall only. I could do a cheap hotel, but then it costs just as much if not more than an incall provider I've already seen before and enjoy seeing.

yes, description fits me (single and lives alone) and i have done outcalls with ladies from a reputable agency

Seems like you're overly concerned about the size of your place.  Unless you live in a really shitty neighborhood, or your place is a pigsty, you'll rarely have an issue with a well reviewed TER gal coming to your place, no matter the square footage.  She's not gonna arrive with a sign on her back advertising, so let the neighbors think all they want.  Straighten the place up a bit, have a sparkling clean facility, put some fresh sheets on the bed, and enjoy.

I wouldn't ever do an outcall to my place.  

To me, the act of going to see her is part of the entire hobbying experience.  Every appointment I've had has been in a nice apartment with sexy accoutrements  all over the place really setting the sensual mood.  My bedroom is messy, too familiar, and, heck, that spot on the bed right there is where I jacked off last night in anticipation of the next day's visit.  

I would always rather go to the girl to get the full effect of the experience.    

2timesanalias205 reads

If she has good reviews and a P411 she's likely a very good choice. I live in a 1/1 in Atlanta, we have code entry doors that lead to inside entry doors. I've had so many girls visit me, that my single 53yr old female neighbor asked if I was making enough money from fucking these girls, invited her down for coffee and banged her brains out one evening, had another hot young girl that noticed and same result with her. I personally don't care how they are dressed when they arrive, they always leave looking like they were rode hard and put up wet.

I have done this before about a dozen times, but that was years ago.  All of my experiences (except for one) were positive.  My thoughts:

1) Most of the time I only did this with ladies that I had seen before, really liked, trusted, and had strong rapport with.
2) I did it a few times with ladies that I had never met because they had very strong reputations via online presence (nice websites, outstanding reviews, etc.).  
3) Right now, however, I would be very reluctant to invite a lady over to my house (which I own).  By contrast, I might invite a lady over to my apartment (which I rent).  Since there is security, I would have to buzz her in.  In short, most of my concerns are mitigated.

All of my experiences were positive except for one: I let my guard down too much and a lady stole a very nice watch that was in plain view when I was in the shower.

But it only takes one.

As others have mentioned certain locations lend themselves to outcalls whereas others don't.  All that folks here can do is to give you factors to consider.  

As long as she is a legitimate provider, you should be okay.  

If you are concerned about neighbors and privacy, specify what she should wear and do upon arrival.

Make sure your place is clean and have fun!

As long as your place is situated in a tasteful location, easy to find, and your place is clean and private.

...I have had a provider to my place (a 1b/1bath at the time) for overnight sessions.

The caveat is that we had met before, had a couple of sessions and had gotten to know each other a bit so that we were comfortable in each other's space (I'd been to her place, as well).

Of course, this was years before the internet and review sites, so current advice would be to do your research, stick with well-reviewed providers, get screened with her and then talk about the situation. Perhaps that will allay your concerns.
Be careful but enjoy!

Do you have nosy neighbors?
A front desk or access controlled bldg?
I'd say NO if you answered yes to any of those questions. You can get thrown out of your bldg for lease violations. I got thrown out of a small apartment in DC because I built a motorcycle inside. Maintenance saw it while they came in one day and turned me in. I'm sure you lease has a no hookers clause in it. Why risk it? I do it, but I own my home and don't care if the neighbors watch me.

3 or more years to be exact. But until that day comes, we're going to have to continue building a rapport by having the encounter at her incall location. The sad truth is you just can't trust people nowadays, and the last thing I want is to be fretting that she gone tell Pookie and Ray Ray and 'em where I live so they can all plan to burglarize my house the moment I board my flight.

Even though I'm single and own my own condo, I prefer to do incalls.  It's just one less thing to worry about in the long run.  Although, the only exception I made was when an ATF was visiting from out of town.  I picked her up at her hotel, we went to dinner, then back to my place.  Everything worked out well, but I would only do this with a provider that I know very well.

...then hide it and don't do outcall.   Obviously, we all have something to hide in one way or another, but if it's a matter of not wanting anyone to know about what you're doing, probably best to avoid the situation entirely.  If you're nervous about a "sketchy" provider coming to your home and causing ill will, then good, be nervous, you never know...

I just find girls who offer In call. I don't really want hookers at my apartment. They could talk to someone who is with someone and it raises the possibility of getting robbed. Not worried about anyone thinking anything about women showing up. I don't want to clean up before she comes or do bedsheets after. In all is easier

Not sure if you meant something else, but when you say "I don't like to clean up", pretty sure that's expected of all us hobbyists

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