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Advice: Two separate dates or a threesome?
abloom3456 3253 reads
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I'm going on a trip soon and planning to hobby a bit while I'm away.  I need some advice though.  

I've never had a threesome, but I also imagine it's fast, big moment.  I'm not sure it's worth it, especially when I could have individual dates with each of the women.  

One way to look at it is I could have 4 hours of fun, or have 2 hours of fun.  :)

What would you do?

It depends on whether you want to check off an item on your bucket list (a gourmet dinner) or have the buffet.

... then IMO it's not a good idea to do a threesome on your trip.  I think it works better when you know at least one of the women already, and she knows the second provider.  Or you already know both of them.

I suppose it could work out if there's good threesome reviews on the two providers and you can get screened by both of them before your trip.

If you already know a provider in your town who likes doubling up, why not do your first threesome at home?

I'm planning on setting up a threesome soon, and I'm planning to do it with a provider I've seen a couple times now. She recommended me one of her friends, whom I haven't gotten to know yet.  

I want to date both girls separately before I go through with a threesome, just to make sure the chemistry is good, so if I were in your position I'd just do the separate dates and arrange a threesome with a couple girls that I do know. Unless you don't care about that, or if you already know both girls anyway, in which case have the threesome.

Either way, it sounds like you're gonna have one great ass trip. Have fun.

For me it really depends on how energetic I'm feeling. If I'm feeling horny and fit, a 3some with two women who know what they are doing and have chemistry with each other and with me is an amazing couple of hours.  I've almost always done 3somes or more with at least having done 1 on 1 with one of the ladies. i like having the relationship and in my mind, it's adding an extra woman to "us".  Just the way my mind works.

Some of my favorite 3somes have included some restraints on me, and the session goes in a way of the ladies using , and abusing (hehehe), me for their pleasure. Then we've switched to me using them for my pleasure. Ahhhh, so freaking great.
Some of the others have been wonderful, slow and sexy lust fests.

Damn, I like this!

 In reality, I have no advice for you. I can just pass along my experience.

Sounds like you have a great trip planned, which ever way you choose to play.

Its not a linear comparison of 2 hours of fun vs. 4 hours of fun. I've done a number of multi-person experiences over the years and they are standalone supernovas of sexual experience in which everyone should partake at least once in their lives.

Yes, they can be intense, they can be highly erotic and they can be physically demanding -- but damn! The potential for so much more feeling has to be experienced to be believed - -when all goes right. Thus the recommendation that you have played with the ladies before and are sure that they will play well together, as well as adding you to the mix.

and have her select the partner.  

Tell her you want both of them on you at the same time, not a tag team.

Speaking personally, there's barely enough of me for ONE, let alone two! There is no way I can "cover" two hostesses at the same time.  If I had plenty of time, it might be different, but I am mostly only have time for an hour at a time.  
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Even though I am paying 2X, I am really only getting 1/2 X + 1/2 X = 1X, not 2X.  I have done a threesome with two great gals but it was mostly a 50-50 tag team. Except for the obligatory side-by-side double bbbj.  And much of that was actually one at a time, not two mouths on one dick. I was doing left-left-left right-right-right left-left right-right-right-right (O! I can't ignore Left, she might think I don't like her BBBJ, so) left-left-left-left right-right-right ...  
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Even though they were friends and traveled together, there was no F-F mixing it up. I licked them both, but they wouldn't lick each other. If watching some real (not fake gay-for-pay) F-F action is on your agenda make sure that it is on THEIR agenda, too.
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Unless there is some real, strong driving force, I'd go with more hours with a solo than fewer hours with a duo.

Posted By: abloom3456

I'm going on a trip soon and planning to hobby a bit while I'm away.  I need some advice though.  
   
 I've never had a threesome, but I also imagine it's fast, big moment.  I'm not sure it's worth it, especially when I could have individual dates with each of the women.  
   
 One way to look at it is I could have 4 hours of fun, or have 2 hours of fun.  :)  
   
 What would you do?

TheApe26 reads

My take is that one can have more fun with two individual ladies on the same day.  One in the afternoon.  One late at night once you have properly recovered.   One on two is fun but to be honest, unless it is two women who are really that cool with each other then you can be selling yourself a bit short.    

on whether you want to check off a bucket list item. For a FMF double to be exceptional, both ladies must be bi and into each other. It also helps if you have seen at least one of the ladies previously and have good chemistry with her.

If you do the doubles, plan on a minimum of 90 minutes and preferably 2 hours.

Maybe you'll like it all..  At least you'll know which is Best For You!!     😚  KISS

If "bang for your buck" is the object and you are thinking about doing a threesome for 2 hours that is going to cost you four times the lady's individual hourly rate, why not do something much more memorable and schedule four separate one hour sessions with breaks in between?

 
Instead of getting a couple of hours of pleasure, doing it this way you could fill up  a whole day of debauchery. You could do something along these lines, one girl for breakfast when you get up, that should keep you smiling all morning, another one around noon, that should give you plenty of recharge time, maybe another one in the late afternoon, just before, after or during "happy hour" and then another one to round off your very happy day in the evening.  

 
For the record, i used to do this all the time, sometime for days on end when on vacation in Latin America as this is very easy to do when staying in a whore house.  I rarely see more than two or at the most three girls in one day when at home, but that doesn't mean the logistics are really that hard to do. Trust me, I look back on my days of seeing four or five different women in a single day a lot more fondly than I do most of the threesomes that I have done.

WICardinalfan18 reads

......I want to be just like you.  I am humbled by your creativity.  I may have to give it a try sometime.  I am a one and done person, as much as I wish I were not, so not sure exactly how this would work.

If you do "grow up" that very fact would make you very "unlike me" lol

 
As for being a "one and done" kind of guy, you need to space your sessions out according to how much recovery time you need. I too consider myself a "one and done" kind of guy too, as it's one in a hundred times that I can cum twice in an hour if even that often, but my personal recovery time between rounds one and two is still less than an hour, but I need more time in between rounds 2,3 and four and at my "advanced age" I could never schedule sessions back to back to back and expect to be able to perform each time without some downtime in between.

 
My suggestion if you want to try this is to time how long it takes you after sex before you get wood again after seeing or thinking about a hot chick. Depending on your age and libido this could be anywhere between 20 minutes or 20 hours, it is what it is. What ever your recovery time is, just make sure you allow enough to between session to "recharge"

 
Most of the times where I have seen several women in one day it was quite easy to tell when I was "ready" again as spend a lot of time in Latin America in places like the Del Rey where there are hot women hitting on you all day and night. If a puta started hitting on me and I got wood while sitting at the bar I knew I was ready to go again. if Junior didn't respond to her rubbing on me I knew either I wasn't that interested in her, or that I needed some more recharge time. lol

WICardinalfan33 reads

Thank you for taking the time and mentor me on this topic.  

One is to call out stupid people when they are being stupid.

 
The other is to genuinely try to offer helpful advice when I think I have something to offer.  Oftentimes I end doing both in the very same thread. lol

 
and I suppose thirdly I try to offer a laugh or two along the way. These boards are supposed to be fun, but some people take everything so damn seriously,

And being fairly new, I do appreciate your insights

souls_harbor32 reads

Three purposes really -- the top one being self-congratulatory.

You do know that people don't have to be one dimensional. I can blast one person for being dumb and ten seconds later try to help someone who is genuinely asking for help.

 

Why does it bother you so much when people say publicly that they appreciate my help? Are you really that threatened by me? For fucks sake, it's only a fuck board, not life or death.

souls_harbor22 reads

I've said it in private and I've said it in public... you have a lot of experience and good advice, and you are unnecessarily mean (bragging I can take.)

When I am mean, it's almost always necessary.

 
Take notsohot_brie for example, just take a look at her posting history and then tell me I should be "nice" to her. Only my respect for TER rules prevents me from saying what I "Really" think about her.

You are obviously fascinated by the idea so the best thing you can do it satisfy your curiosity.  If you don't feel it was worth the money you won't do it again.  I've done a handful of threesomes and they're OK but not the end of the world.  One good way to try it is to take a trip to Costa Rica, where you can do a three way for $80 for each girl, including a "LezbiOn Cho."

It depends on what you see as the role of the extra woman at any given time during the threesome. If you want to see the ladies having sex with each other while you join in, then a threesome is a great idea. If you just want the ladies interacting with you but you can multi-task, a threesome might still be worth it. If you just want the ladies tag-teaming you, then a threesome would probably be a waste of money for you, and you would be better off seeing them separately.

I have tried 3somes a few times. As others have stated, make sure you know the girls. The first time I ever did it, it was terrible. It was more like a tag team. The two were rarely on the bed at the same time.  
On the other end of the spectrum are sessions like Alexa and Gina Rollins which can give you a heart attack (I'm 59)

There were some decent one's in the middle.  

Generally, I feel it never matches what you see in porn. (which is what most guys expect will happen). With somewhat limited funds, I prefer 2 hours spread over 2 sessions, than 1 hour with 2 girls.  

Still, not a bad thing to cross off the bucket list.

HappyChanges35 reads

Satisfy yourself with the first provider. If your in the mood, book the second provider or go back for seconds with the first. Splurge and keep a third handy for safe measure.

It would really suck if your 3some flunked while on vacay without a backup. I'd take my chances with one at a time for this one.

Summer the One and Truly Taylor will answer that question for you together. As was mentioned to me, eat your Wheaties.

WICardinalfan20 reads

As mentioned above, my experience with 3 sums is they are not like porn.  

While my experience level is low, (3 different sets of provider, all of which I have seen twice) one thing stands in common.

Chit chat between providers, particularly if you are getting a massage as a mater of foreplay.  Chit chat at the beginning and after you have lost your wad.  I don't mind it, but it happens.  

That being said, the experience of one lady taking my load while another licking away in other places is wonderful.

If you know at least one of the providers and think she is great, then go for the threesome. Especially if she vouches for the other provider! However, if both of these providers are new to you, then definitely go with the separate session.

I have only had two threesome experiences in my life (to date). The first time was with a provider I had seen twice before and really hit it off with and her friend. They are touring providers, and I had noticed the one I had seen before would be in my area. Because it looked like she would be with a friend I texted her about the possibility of a double and she seemed genuinely excited by the idea. We did it, and it was hands down the best time I have ever had sexually. Both of these women were super hot, had great chemistry with me and each other... it was just a great time.

The second experience I had was when another agency had two providers coming into town, and their pics piqued my interest enough to inquire about a double session. According to the booker, they were game, so I scheduled it. Unfortunately, the whole experience was underwhelming, and I regret it. In fact, based on the experience, I am not sure I would have liked booking with either provider individually.

On the other hand, if you just have money to burn, then I say you have nothing to lose. But it doesn't sound like that is your situation.

Threesome, definitely! Always really fun and exciting!

As with any potential meeting, do some research before you commit a fairly healthy amount of money to it.  Check out various providers and you will likely find a number of them that will provide a great three way experience.  

I have had several threesomes...good and bad.  My first was with two providers who advertised together and separate and the session turned out to be a tag team act.  The saving grace was that one of the providers was a freak and her service was more than enough to make up for the lack of three way chemistry.

I have had a couple sessions with one of my favorite ladies and a third of her choosing.  These were a lot of fun, the girls worked in tandem on me and we all had a great time.  One lesson I learned with this provider was that women will often want a fresh condom on you after you were in the other.  This provider was very adept at putting a clean condom on, but it can still cramp your style, especially if you are getting into a rhythm.

My next threesome will definitely be with two women who have played together in the past and are excited to be WITH each other (i.e. "Really Bi").   There are lots of providers who include their playmates on their website and genuinely enjoy having sex with them and you.  This is probably as close to the porn threesome as you can get...and lets be honest, that is really what we are looking for...LOL.  

If you are planning a threesome I highly recommend you find duo accounts on here with great reviews. Chemistry between the providers can make or break your fantasy. Nothing oozes sensuality and beauty between two women who  truly enjoy each others company. I promise it's worth the search.

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