Then I would wish her all the happiness in the world and leave.
Call me old fashioned if you wish, but there are lines I won't cross, even if she's got an OK to continue being a provider. If I'm in a committed relationship, then she's the only lady I'm interested in. So that's why I wont cross that line if she is.I personally do not think hobbyist should take their wedding ring off even during a session.
Obviously it is up to each person to do what they feel is best.
I can't imagine any provider giving a client less of a good time because the client has a wedding ring on, like so why bother taking the chance of misplacing it?
BUT for some reason providers either are expected to or feel they should not wear their ring to extend the girlfriend fantasy all the way through a "date" from the few ladies I have discussed this topic with.
When I was a dancer, I knew some ladies that did not have a partner but would wear a ring so guys wouldn't get mad when they would turn down offers of dates or get obsessed with them and plenty do not wear their wedding ring while providing that are indeed married.
One lady told me she always wears a ring checking into hotels which I guess can't hurt.
It is absolutely each ladies right to decide for herself what is best for her business so this thread is not to question the right or decision of any provider.
I am curious if your ATF suddenly had a new rock or band on her hand, do you think you would feel differently?
Would you feel because she has the ring on so she is not hiding anything - would you, ask or feel it OK to ask if she just got hitched?
Or maybe do you like the idea of knowing you are nailing another guys woman!?
Or would it make you annoyed you are paying for what somebody else is getting for free!!!
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The client should put it in his pocket or leave it in the car.
It would make no difference to me at all ! I would admire the new ring-tell her how great it looks and how great it looks on her, etc...just like anyone else I was doing business with !
I would be glad she found someone who she desires to share her life with. I am married so who an I to judge. Besides it between them.
My wife doesn't were her wedding or engagement ring to work. She leaves them home. She works at a legal brothel and she finds they negatively affect getting picked in the line up and invite prying questions and judgement from her clients.
cum in the setting. They are a bitch to clean!
Then I would wish her all the happiness in the world and leave.
Call me old fashioned if you wish, but there are lines I won't cross, even if she's got an OK to continue being a provider. If I'm in a committed relationship, then she's the only lady I'm interested in. So that's why I wont cross that line if she is.
easier to tolerate a wedding ring than nipple rings or clit rings. Just my opinion.
Fucked the wives of several guys that I used to work with and their rings didn't stop me then. I kind of felt bad one time I fucked one of my co-workers wives and then a week or so later he was killed in an auto Accident. Not worth thinking about.
........ so the providers don't get any idea about making me their own. Haha!
As to the provider wearing a ring, I really don't care. One of my favorite ladies is married and I send her SO my thanks on a regular basis. How they work out their relationship is none of my business, unless she brings it up. My relationship is with her, not them.
My moral values, when it comes to sexual endeavors, pertain to my behavior. It's not my place to make a judgement on the provider. Wear a ring, don't wear a ring. Meh.
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...but I would probably ask her to take them off so that any delicate body parts don't inadvertaly get nicked during some of our more vigorous activities. IRL I've been scatched a few times unintentionally and it put a damper on our enjoyment.
I don't know if the boyfriend or husband is real, or if he cares, but for me having sex with another guy's woman is breaking the "guy" rules. I know it sounds stupid, but it's the way things were when I was growing up. You just didn't make any moves on another guy's girl.
I had a provider tell me that she wore a ring just to keep nosy hotel clerks off her case. She would also get a second key since her "husband worked in sales and wasn't getting back until late at night". Smart move, and sometimes a ring is just a ring.
IRL, I know several men & women who wear wedding rings just as decoys.
I can't imagine myself feeling any differently. I might ask about it, but being that I follow her on twitter and instagram, there might be a chance I would know if she was married or engaged.
I know one provider, not my ATF, I saw last year is in a relationship with another provider. I find that hot as hell. I'm pretty sure she tweeted about it once and I asked her about it in person.
I'm pretty sure I wouldn't notice. Just like I don't notice what brand of shoes she is wearing or if they went out of style last season. You know, one of those kinds of guys.
Yeah, I am one of those kind of guys too.
...I think I'd know her well enough to know whether she was married or in a relationship; and especially if either of those was a recent change.
Most of the providers I've seen on a repeat basis and where we have gotten to know each other, that sort of info is something we talk about at some point -- but usually only if she brings it up.
One of my ATF's wears her wedding ring. She is [or convincingly presents herself as] fun, totally into the moment and really comfortable in her own skin. And to the extent the wedding matters at all, it adds to the experience because 1)she's sharing part of her life by wearing it and 2) makes me feel like I'm with an adult who's really happy with the choices she's made. However, I'm sure if she were hesitant, apologetic or even seemed not 'into it' the wedding ring would probably intensify that vibe a bit, make me feel like I wandered into someone else's mistake, and enjoy it less.
FWIW
I wear a ring on my ring finger. It was my mother's ring and has a special engraving on it. I wear it because it is the only finger it fits on. Literally no other reason. I suppose that it is a good idea to wear one while checking into hotels though. Just because you have a ring on that finger doesn't mean you are involved with a man but overall I suppose people assume that. I have been asked about it before but it really doesn't bother me because the ring is more important to me that what someone may assume about why I'm wearing it. If it turns anyone off, sorry about that. Lol, now you know why. 
When you've never even taken the time to look. I mean, generally, I know the majority of the guys I see are married, but it's not something I'd be concerned about in the first place. As far as wearing a ring, I doubt I would in the first place, let alone "on the job", though that would be more so because of it getting all nasty, not because of some associated meaning.
...well,for me-i've only had one appt w a provider that i knew was married-when i found out,i wanted the husband there for a 3some,which was amazing...if you make that "big step"....i feel you should share everything....
Personally, I do not have a issue with a client ever wearing a wedding band. It is not my business to be asking nor would I ever want to ruin the mood if he did or did not take it off.
So, I don't concern myself with such things.
The arrangement is, I get a specified service, for a specified length of time for a specified amount. Everything outside of that specified amount of time is her business and my business respectively.
I have no dilutions that there is anything other than the arrangement, and that in itself is beautiful.
I'm fucking everyone else in town too? lol
I personally do not think hobbyist should take their wedding ring off even during a session.
Obviously it is up to each person to do what they feel is best.
I can't imagine any provider giving a client less of a good time because the client has a wedding ring on, like so why bother taking the chance of misplacing it?
BUT for some reason providers either are expected to or feel they should not wear their ring to extend the girlfriend fantasy all the way through a "date" from the few ladies I have discussed this topic with.
When I was a dancer, I knew some ladies that did not have a partner but would wear a ring so guys wouldn't get mad when they would turn down offers of dates or get obsessed with them and plenty do not wear their wedding ring while providing that are indeed married.
One lady told me she always wears a ring checking into hotels which I guess can't hurt.
It is absolutely each ladies right to decide for herself what is best for her business so this thread is not to question the right or decision of any provider.
I am curious if your ATF suddenly had a new rock or band on her hand, do you think you would feel differently?
Would you feel because she has the ring on so she is not hiding anything - would you, ask or feel it OK to ask if she just got hitched?
Or maybe do you like the idea of knowing you are nailing another guys woman!?
Or would it make you annoyed you are paying for what somebody else is getting for free!!!
****I do not know if this has been discussed before but I did look back a couple of pages and do not see anything- so if it has- sorry for the repeat question!
Please do not private message me responses.
With that said, I'm not annoyed that I have to pay for something he's getting for free because ain't no free pussy out here to begin with. And besides, I'm probably hitting it more often than he is, and at a cheaper rate at that. Just one wrong move and his house and half his assets are gone, she has him by the balls and he knows it, and that's not someone I want to envy, I love my freedom too much, and that's why I do this hobby in the first place.
As far as actually seeing the ring is concerned, I am morally opposed to sleeping with another man's wife, and seeing the ring would just ruin the moment for me. I would like to maintain the fantasy of her being a potential girlfriend, which means that I need to be able to get the impression that she's still single. So if it just so happens that she's married, or seeing someone, that's something she needs to keep to herself.
To know their life situation better, and what's going on, than I could. and would like to think that other providers and clients alike do the same and it isn't much relevant one way or another if they are.. or are not.. wearing a ring.