The rage in Adult Entertainment today is anal sex.(Porn by Websters is obscene and, therefore, illegal by definition.)I find more and more providers offering it which I believe is a spill over from the $3 billion industry. No judgement whether that is good or bad, just what's the true sexual value for a women, hobby or not?
I am guessing the spike in the number of providers offering greek services is a result of them trying to accommodate or fill a niche for their client. I personally dont offer it and could never imagine it being done strictly for pleasure
Your dislike is probably related to your dislike of enemas as a child.....lol
It is the last forbidden fruit. Therefore very desirable. I personally love to take a woman that way and have been with several women who state they have an anal "G" spot. Which gives them large orgasms when coupled with clitoral stimulation. I am not a female, butt, when she requests it I am there.......
Definitely one of my very favorite activities and nothing but sheer unadulterated pleasure for me!
I've posted about my first experience before, but I got lucky with my first boyfriend and my first sexual experience! The sweetheart showed me the pleasures of anal and regular sex right away, and for quite sometime I thought that was what everyone did when they had sex. When he went off to college a year or so later, I was very distressed to find out that it wasn't what everyone did!
kisses
Suzanne in San Diego
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young innocent bride who was asked by a nosy neighbor why she didn't have a child yet even though she's been married for over a year. "Oh," she says, "I tell you that sex is just one big pain in the ass." "No Wonder you are without child," says the neighbor. "You're doing it all wrong!"
Ba-doom
the mother who warned her daughter, who was marrying a greek man that day, to run home if he ever asked her to roll over during sex. Eventually he did ask her to roll over, and when she protested he said "I just thought you maybe you wanted to have children someday." Ba da boom!
This is an act of sodomy and God would punish by bringing on a deluge on SD! would you still like it?
San Diego is already a barren cultureless wasteland, just ask MrSelfDestruct, he'll agree with me at least! A deluge would be the best thing that could possibly happen to this excuse for America's finest city... something like the second cuming of Noah and his Ark would work for me!
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but I see at least one person and have dated (long ago) two civies who enjoyed it so much that they insisted on it.
Myself, once the issue of taboo is sated, don't find it much more interesting than vaginal sex, however, the excitement of seeing the woman so enthralled makes it worth while.
Over all, I'd say that doggy-style is more satisfying.
I have been surprised how many civvie women I have been with enjoyed it, but I think it is something that has enough of a degree of difficulty that it takes a combination of sensitivity, emotional involvement and role playing for "most" women to truly get into it and enjoy it. As such, only the most devoted in this business offer it openly, because it just isn't something that you can offer with regularity unless you a serious fan of it.
many providers charge extra for it, because they don't like it. I have seen several providers who offer it but I could tell they were uncomfortable doing it. If I sense they aren't really into it I don't bother with it even if it's available.
However I have seen a visiting provider from Detroit named Ms_Honey_Pot, who actually demands it. She is into the BDSM thing. After the session she told me she loves anal sex more than vaginal sex. When I asked her why she said It's because it's considered taboo, and is equated with dirty sex which is a turn on for her. And to tell you the truth it was a turn on for me too. I love a lttle nastiness.
This subject keeps comming up and so I decided to comment.
Now ya gotta remember; I'm gettin' to be kind of long in the tooth but a few decades ago, my gal pal had become..well, lets just say; unable to use the pill for a bit....So we're thinkin': "Let's try it in the poop shoot!" Damn! I guess I was just to "big'an'wide!" Never could get it to fit but a few daze later we were back at the clit with a perfect fit.
It can hurt a lot if not done properly. Even so it's not an activity that everyone is built to enjoy.
It's definitely true that tastes in porn seem to dictate the tastes of most men that see escorts and that's not such a great thing for escorts. Pornstars work with the same people over and over again and there's the magic of editing. You can't just stick it in and start pounding away like a piston and expect her to like it.
I've seen ladies who do it but don't want it in their profiles or reviews because they say a lot of clients can't follow instructions or be gentle enough to make it a pleasant time.
Here is a review from Amazon on "The Surrender" an erotic memoir by Toni Bentley:
"Sodomy has never had such a voice since perhaps the Marquis de Sade took quill to ink. Ms. Toni Bentley unabashedly gives a detailed and explicit exposition of her submission to her sexual need to yield to the will of men--plural. For her, rapture in submission was achieved in the ultimate subjugation: From giving up her ass for the pure and unadulterated use by a man. "
If the subjugation was role play and she really enjoyed it, then OK. I really don't want my practice of this hobby to degrade women.
I agree with the porn editing and working with each other. However, it was a porn video that prompted my original question. "F to the A" by Vertigo, directed by Martin Del Toro. The anal in this video was so hard I almost turned it off at the start. But after five scenes and five different woman "wanting it" that way, it was hard to believe they were doing it for $1200-$1500.
Porn actresses take Vicodin before their scenes so they can't feel the pain. Several providers I've become friends with are starting to do the same. I think that's really sad and it's not a turn on for me to be with someone on painkillers.
I've read Surrender. It was very erotic but it's just one woman's experience. I wonder why you copied and pasted that blurb?
I personally, do enjoy anal sex. It is a combination of mind fucking and visuals that go on in my head that get me to climax.I prefer photos of porn over video anyday.Leaves more to the imagination.But,The thought of some man pleasuring himself at my expense,feeling his member so near my kitty but not in it.Makes me kindda throb.Tip for the gentlemen..."Before your thumb finds its way,alittle lube or some spit please". kisses,'dirtybabygirl'
Personally, Anal is abit obscene and violating to the women. And I support that kind of behavior.
kisses,'dirtybabygirl'
Tip...'alittle lube or some spit please'