I encourage new friends to tell me up front if they are limited to only one cup of coffee & I am cautious not to get "the best" of them to quick.....

I encourage communication & expectations
...kisses ~T

Pace out your appt and let her know.. She is the pro and she will teach you how to last longer- I have a client here in Buffalo that would last all of of 1/2 a minute.. 4 years later- he lasts 30 minutes or so during hot play and intercourse...

Stop the flow while peeing.  Eventually you'll have better control.  

Most guys that are quick on the draw, need a little down time then right back at it again.  

I've seen some release 6 times in 2 hours.  Rare but something to strive for

I had to hold when I was a young man. Now I keep pumping and pumping and pumping. The final moment gets better and better and better, from one date to the next.

That reminds me. If you will excuse me, I gotta make some phone calls.

Your refractory period, the time between pops or ability to pop, increases with age.  Sometimes dramatically.  Viagra can help with this. (a recreational use).  The other advice is good.  Determine your refractory period, and about that many hour before the visit with your lady, take care of business yourself manually.  This will help

I learned this from a guy I know in the business.  (I live in the valley).  Pull out when you're getting close, and smack the head of junior.  I'm talking about a good smack to the side of the head, but YMMV.  Don't worry, you won't lose your stiffness.  I've tried this before.  It will numb you for a little bit so you can continue.  

The girls will think it's weird, but you're not there to impress anybody.

Cuddle.

Re:How can I last Longer???

Heard this on some syn-dick-ated sex therapy show (can't remember her name - not Dr. Ruth)...just as you are ready to ejak, using thumb and index finger grab shaft at base and squeeze - hold until urge goes away.  Resume activity.  Repeat as needed...

It works.

FF

Why worry? Just come once and reload for the second cup!

One thing that can delay the "moment" is the drug Zoloft. It's FDA approved as an anti-depressant but it's investigational use is for early ejaculation. It does increase lasting performance.
Now the drawbacks. While a very few percent have a reduced libido most don't also you can go for the whole hour and never finish because sometimes it can make it that difficult. Everyones body chemistry is different so you won't know until it is tested. Oh yeah and it's prescription only.