I have said more than once someone has to be a fool for a date to ever happen. I will give real info as I am a fool, but giving up real informationand review information is even t o foolish for a moron like me. I think it is far to risky for a lady to see any guy without real information. To do so would be an extremely risky choice on their part. I will give my handle as screening, but then they will not get an once of real info other than my first name and what is in my posts. I think that is far less useful than what I currently provide.
Something I've been thinking about and would love to get some thoughts and feedback. I've seen a variety of girls in this hobby from total unknowns with no reviews all the way up to the rockstars who are at the top of this business. Do you think providers look at the reviews I've written or will write and make judgements about who I have been with?
I'm curious about this from 2 angles. Do the highest end providers look at reviews or whitelists / okays and make judgements if you have also seen or continue to see mid-tier (for lack of a better description) ladies? Conversely, do mid-tier ladies make judgements if they reference check you and you're giving them or seeing an "ok" by a top 10 provider in the world.
The latter is probably a positive for that provider since she's "dating up" (again for lack of a better way of saying it) but I could see once you've seen top providers then maybe now you're in that "club." Are you stuck in that club? Meaning, if I saw the #1 provider in the world, then hit a few backpage girls (amplifying this example for simplicity), would the #2 provider in the world that I would like to see next (or their assistant who is booking me) make judgements about that and not want to book me?
If I've worked up to racing F1 Ferraris then go down to NASCAR for a bit, can I still go back to racing F1 or will my sponsors drop me? lol...
-- Modified on 5/31/2012 12:13:50 AM
And it can be for the good, or the bad. I'm using an alias because I have seen a provider who is known to be "Bat Shit Crazy" so it would be obvious who I'm talking about if I posted under my handle.
To answer your question, yes it's been used against me, like for example, "OMG you saw So and So"? "What were you thinking"?! And to answer their question, I simply say, I was new and didn't know any better. We all have those on our resume if you will lol
But I have a few top 10's to my name that I can brag about, so I dont mind 
to this site. I have seen them get upset if someone gives them a bad review, but some of them tell me they never read their reviews. And none of them recognize me by my handle here, or have ever commented on anything regarding this site. And unless I directly question them about the reviews I write for them, they never mention it.
Maybe some are different, but the ones I know are not in tune with what happens on this board at all.
I once noticed that someone who reviewed me also happened to have reviewed a transvestite. It was a little weird but I didn't think too much of it. I like to look at the reviews a future client has written so I can have a better idea of what he likes and what he doesn't like. I don't really pay too much attention to the actual providers he has seen.
infact I just checked yours and nI am impressed by you, When a guy has seen that many high end ladies, they are easy, they shoot you an email with thier refernces and the date n time n know the drill, i notice guys with none or two reviews thst maybe also dont have the luxury plqay money like some you have, and I noticed those are always always,,,, for me the ones that have to talk mto you for threenmonths before scheduling, pm you every day, . i like gettn the ones that reviewed the pricier ones they are easier to schedule with and tend to not pester you, and like tryan dbe your new friend , li like bein fr9end woth my cliejnts but at first when you have toi sed three emaios back n firth just toget the infoyou alrady request on the site,it gets toiring, i had a guy get mdn tell me i just lost a gold hobnbyit or something to that effect, i get tired oftypingn and simpky wrote ,references n sent it, i nguess i shoulds , say "ok ncool, so references/} maybe that bwoulda been more polite, ,, I wrote in my site to hve all the info oif you ant an aoot, sometims io just delete the ones that dont rspoind with refernces its easier, than goin thru 50 emails and tyoing to each one helklko hi baby can i please get a refernce cu i dont wanna get pinched or killed, but so far the guys i gotn reviewed from all automtically respojnd with it n its so much easier to not have to type to every email thst, i cant wait for new 1,200 dollar web site itl have thqat included in contact form! my site now is a chepo temporary one n doesnthave that.,.. he was like you just lost a gold client , i was like um, I dont care how much money you have its never enough for you to tryn make me nfeelm like two cents. i type sometimes abbreviated ton get it done n, i am defientkly not rude , and i was just in 8 weeks physicaltherapy he can ask dirk atlas whio drive me whidden for none the seesions, so people ca n jumoto conclusions ajd ay oh well you just lost what coulda been good clientlk ts like com in dude, give me a break, i just ha issues tyon so i abreviated. why do some guys feeo the need to be so mean and aggressive, when nthey dont known i=us, is nit some built in woman hatun thing? i just get shocked sometimes cuz si far i had akit fun n met aot coolk hibbyist but you get aj occasional sour apole, i guess, oh well . i def have had better tims with the experienced hobbyists, myself, they fuck better too they must be getn tips from the top 100 giros they see no doubt. or maybe they oic up good moves aongway from the akl, I think my panties get wet just thinkn botu an experienced hobyist that fuciks allthes high ehd nmodels, and tens, oh but i also hafe the guys that pm from the alias sayn i gotta get back t ee yu, or theyl let me know they seen me but hadntvever let me know this aloias, so nits kinda a mystery
before they see them. They also read your posts on the regional and national boards. I'm like the OP, I see well known top rated providers and unknown non rated providers. I've never had an escort say anything positive or negative about who I've seen.
I did once, however, have a curvacous lady ask was I sure I wanted to see her as we were setting up our date. I had given her my TER handle, she checked my reviews and she saw that my last few reviews were of spinners. I asked her why she would ask that. Then she said "well I thought you liked spinners" I replied, I like all women! don't worry I know exactly how you look!
1. They want to know if you are a tough reviewer. If the highest you've ever given out is an 8 and she averages 9.5, you might not get the date
2. They want to know the type of women you are used to being with so they know how best to manage your expectations
3. They want to know what you are willing to spend for a roll in the hay. If all you see is $100 BP girls that offer 15 minute sessions then you might be cheap.
4. They also want to know about your attitude toward woman, size of your cock, whether you fuck for 59:59 or if you like to be romanced or just about any little detail you include in your reviews that will give them a better idea of who they are going to meet.
They filter the BS in the reviews the same way that the hobbiest filter the BS in reviews that we read. They try to read between the lines just like we do. Some do it more than others, but you can bet if she asks for your TER name she's going to be doing a little reading. With that said, if your money is green and you're not too much of an asshole either with your reviews or when communicating with her, it's likely you'll keep your sponsors.
I'm curious about this from 2 angles. Do the highest end providers look at reviews or whitelists / okays and make judgements if you have also seen or continue to see mid-tier (for lack of a better description) ladies? Conversely, do mid-tier ladies make judgements if they reference check you and you're giving them or seeing an "ok" by a top 10 provider in the world.
The latter is probably a positive for that provider since she's "dating up" (again for lack of a better way of saying it) but I could see once you've seen top providers then maybe now you're in that "club." Are you stuck in that club? Meaning, if I saw the #1 provider in the world, then hit a few backpage girls (amplifying this example for simplicity), would the #2 provider in the world that I would like to see next (or their assistant who is booking me) make judgements about that and not want to book me?
If I've worked up to racing F1 Ferraris then go down to NASCAR for a bit, can I still go back to racing F1 or will my sponsors drop me? lol...
-- Modified on 5/31/2012 12:13:50 AM
Unless, you only see one level of provider, shill in you review, and want the exact same session with every lady you meet. I see no upside to giving up your handle on any review site.
do you think it's wise to put us even more at risk by continually suggesting we know NOTHING about you? You prefer giving your real info. vs. your handle, but that is far from what most of the guys here want to do. If I don't know something about a guy, I am not seeing him. He is at more risk providing personal info. than he is a damn handle that lets us see his pattern of hobbying and what he enjoys. Are we supposed to ask him what he is into? I think not. So if a guy is not willing to provide real name and employment and you are suggesting he also not give out his handle, exactly how is he supposed to get dates?
-- Modified on 5/31/2012 10:06:49 AM
I have said more than once someone has to be a fool for a date to ever happen. I will give real info as I am a fool, but giving up real informationand review information is even t o foolish for a moron like me. I think it is far to risky for a lady to see any guy without real information. To do so would be an extremely risky choice on their part. I will give my handle as screening, but then they will not get an once of real info other than my first name and what is in my posts. I think that is far less useful than what I currently provide.
In 4 years I have never been assaulted or raped, but yes I have been ripped off a few times...once where he did provide his real information...solved nothing, as I still never got the money. I don't bring men into my personal home, don't allude to where they can find me, so I have no need for more than refs other than to avoid running into someone I might know.
My point is many women do not ever require personal info, and their ONLY course of screening is your hande that has your reviews and references attached. Suggesting that every provider start requiring personal info. and every guy provide it, is not going to happen. Too many women would lose money, because the guys would see someone who only requires a handle.
What you are suggesting is more risky on the guy than the provider, and I probably should agree but I don't. This business works two ways and without guys willing to see the women, we have no business.
-- Modified on 5/31/2012 11:15:18 AM
But it is your risk to take as you are an informed adult. You are right getting real info does reduce your bottom line. There is no way I would want anyone I gave a damn about taking the risk for money though. I guess I would rather be the one taking the lesser risk then asking someone else to take an even greater one. I know many with more to lose do not feel this way. Many some of the things that has happened to some I know not ever happen to you.
Half the guys who see me are scared I will kick their azz...I am not for the timid. If there is ever a reason I feel funny with the info provided, you can bet I will ask for more. My point is, I can find with an email and phone number what most don't realize is out there. I only require personal info. IF I am unsure about what was provided or if I am at home. I don't take risks for a dollar, but I am smart enough to know ways of screening without asking for a guy's life history in every case.
Thanks! That was the perfect answer and you are a perfect example....based on your reviews I see (like me) you have seen a variety of providers and given a variety of ratings which definitely (in my opinion) adds to your credibility from a hobbyists perspective.
You've seen Edrianne Cole who is a very top provider but also some local and/or less pricey or known talent. I just wanted to see if I could get a sense of whether "snobbery" exists with providers at the highest levels. Doesn't sound like there are attitudes like, "I only see gentlemen who see $1K/hour providers etc."
btw - I like your taste too!
the smart ones always do..they will read the reviews of a certain client that they might be interested in seeing..if the guy matches their motif [ rate he pays..scores he gives..who he sees ]...they are definitely interested..birds of a feather always flock together..they can tell your style..likes..and dislikes..by reading your reviews..this is a business..not a grab bag...
hell yes..you fit my style perfectly..hot..busty..and oh so sexy..besides i love small vaginas and outspoken women..perfect fit..
I had one email me that two of the gals I'd seen were known to be sexual tigresses and that wasn't the way she rolled, and she didn't want me to be disappointed so perhaps we shouldn't see each other. I reassured her that I liked all different kinds of experiences and was sure we'd have a good time. We did.
the kind of date he expects. I also check for extra risky behavior that I want no part of. I can't prevent the risks 100 percent, but I can limit them by not seeing certain people. I know many girls who will not see guys who are not gracious with review scores...anything under an 8 gets a pass for them. I also know women who won't see guys with a ton of reviews, as they feel he is a higher risk. Funny how that happens.
Oh yes, Whether you tell us or not, we know if you are a member of TER, trust me we know.
Yes everyone knows about this on classic TER:
http://classic.theeroticreview.com/reviews/searchWhiteList.asp
Any idiot can get around that. I have several business emails, a personal one for friends, a porn and hobby site email, a spam email, a contest email, a email to give on the boards,and a few hobby emails. Unless you know my porn and hobby email it well not link you to TER. It is not linked to my real name so good luck with that method.
Blacklists would only have that info if you gave it out. I doubt I am blacklisted. The references I give I have not reviewed or reviewed under alias. My P411 and DateCheck account are on one of my hobby email use for those ladies. My only chink in my armor is ladies I trust, My friends that hobby, and my wife. Yes I am trusting them not to betray that trust, and I guess if they are not trust worthy you can get it that way.
I am done being blackmailed over reviews and I am not going to get blacklisted because of a board post with my real info. I am done being manipulated. Ladies have abused my trust. They have turned me jaded. I will give real info or my review boards info, not both. That is giving you far to much power. Some have proven far to dangerous to trust, I am sad to say.
Sorry to have outed your trick, not.
and wont be knowing whos coming any more so if they breview itl be a surprise,