If I were to set up a Twitter account under my TER handle, follow ladies I had met or wanted to meet and retweet some of their posts, would this be a good way to establish my bona fides, speed verification, and win the trust of ladies or agencies in this community? When I contacted someone for an appointment, could I direct them to this account as a way of getting to know me? This account would be limited to the hobby. I wouldn't follow anyone outside the hobby with it or give the account handle to anyone else. If I set this account up, it would be my second. I have a Twitter account now, under a handle not my real name. I follow only one person, the President, and no one follows me. And don't worry, I won't retweet pictures posted by the ladies to the President, although I think he would look at them if I did.
Thank you for the input.Bennie Jett
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As far as SM is concerned, my position is well known: AVOID SOCIAL MEDIA LIKE THE PLAGUE THAT IT IS! Go ahead and start a "secret" twitter account and mark your calendar. Count how many days until you find the weird connections, possibly even to the point of getting outed, and let us know how long it took.
if you mean as a way to bypass each ladies verification then no. "winning the trust" is as simple as fulfilling the verification request of a lady you want to see, it doesn't have to be more complicated than that.
You already have 10 reviews, so why? If you want additional "bona fides" write more reviews and join P411. Twitter is worthless, except as a marketing tool for hookers.
Jake from State Farm you found me and welcomed me. Your twitter for some reason had me thinking you were a male provider. So sorry for the mix up and thank you for the sweet welcome. I am such an idiot.
...how a twitter account proves anything about you. If he were alive today Jack the Ripper could get on twitter too.
Twitter is a great tool for finding new providers and keeping track of your faves but honestly we're not going to use it as verification. I'm very active on twitter but it's a marketing platform for me. I use it mainly for advertising, not to chat with men OTC to build rapport. The best way to build trust with us is to simply send the correct info at booking, no twitter account necessary.
All it is is a place where guys can reply or like what we tweet. LE can do that too.
It's also a place where attention seeking timewasters bug us all day long. There are guys that flirt with every pussy. Anyone that will respond back to them. Yeah.
So no, I doubt any gal would accept twitter as anything more than knowing you see how we are and like what we post. You still got to properly screen.
If I see a guy truly cares about what I tweet and he seems to not be a timewaster, all he needs to do is screen and we can meet.
Guys begging for any sort of attention from anyone is a huge turn off, esp when he never books with anyone. I had that happen twice with 2 guys I met in IL and they are on my personal DNS list now. because-> Plus, don't dm ladies to speak about other ladies you don't like but then still do "I love you tweets". I for one don't want to hear about other ladies. See me and enjoy our time together, just you and I. Plus I don't like fakers/ not so honest people.
P411 OK's from P411 ladies you see. Until you get some OK's search on P411 for newby friendly providers. Search her on TER for their reviews. Establish a presence on TER y posting on your regional board. Ask the providers you see to White List you here on TER. Some providers don't use TER white list for references but many do. Even so it gives you some credibility.
Build trust by giving the ladies what they want for screening as long as it isn't beyond your comfort level. Some will want personal info. Many are fine with a certain number of P411OK's (or TER white list) and that is all they require. You have to decide what you are comfortable giving out. Do your research here on the Newbie board for information regarding what information is or isn't good to give for screening.
I'll add here I agree with impposter, stay away from social media.
sorry! ... but you can follow me!
When I ask how they found me and they say Twitter, I have found them to be exceptionally well mannered in word and deed. They routinely exceed my expectations, which have diminished in the short year that I've been doing this.
Twitter is like the modern day world wide watercooler. I really like the interactions from gentlemen. It's definitely and"assessment tool" in regards to personality and temperament, so I have certainly used it for that, just like the discussion boards. IT's nice to be able to "wactch" a person being who they are before you meet them. IT's one way you can sort of do that.
Regarding it's utility for screenings it can do a couple of things. IF it is work related twitter that you can verify by work email, or other site that has an associated email or phone number you can run a crap ton of checks on someone.
and can be fairly well assured that is who you're going to meet, and you can ask them to send a picture with some thing that allows you insure that. That's as no more risk and really even less, than if someone sells access to their TER profile. I run the same back ground checks on TER guys n having been burned too many times.
And, while we're on the topic of verification, please don't ask me to whitelist you unless I've seen you several times That's what it should be, in my mind, but with several visits, I'd be okay attaching my name.
And lastly while we're at it! Please do make sure your references know they'll be getting an inquiry and lastly only give out a provider's it it's listedl even to other providers because they may assume it's published and give to clients. In my case it helps me stay organized. Only cleared clients should have that number. Thanks!
you can use to gain a better insight into a gals' personality and potential compatibility (and her to yours). It does not in any way replace reviews or verification. She will still screen you the same. Sorry.