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"Learn to play nice around here or become the board piñata."
MiMi See my TER Reviews 6149 reads
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This gem of whoreboard irony was recently penned (well, typed) by one of TER's reigning champions of balderdash.

In fact, the vast majority of TER users do not either play nice or become a pinata.  We smartly sit back and use the board as a helpful tool in the safe and happy navigation of the business of sex.

For those trying to bludgeon or cow new board posters with their tens of thousands of previous posts, you might want to consider that years of incessant posting may make a person look more foolish than wise.  

Let me state upfront that GaGambler can often be boorish and impolite and I disagree with him 90% of the time regarding matters political, but I think you are a bit off base and may be unaware of Sasha's previous posts. It was her, and not Gambler, that started giving bad advice regarding possible police tactics used in this illegal world of ours. When this was pointed out to her by several, she shot back with belittlement and a sense of superiority, which was quite shocking as she self proclaimed she was new.  
I still consider myself a noobie and thus I am always learning. I am gratetul to the education I received by reading perfectstorm's, gambler's, xyz's and others experiences and thoughts on the nb.  Imho, horrible advice needs to be challenged and confronted here, as it could place some in harm's way.  I just thought it was odd to take on Gambler on this particular issue when, by doing so, I truly believe he was acting in the best interests of people with my experience level and less, but there may be more to this and your post then I am aware.  Thank you for viewing this in a different light and through my perspective only.

Then again, so are most of the veteran posters here including Yours Truly.  We don't suffer fools gladly, less still arrogant ones who love to dole out mis-information.  And you are correct that bad info here can have serious consequences if not rebutted.  I don't contribute much to the NB anymore but the guys who do know the score.
BTW, all this applies to GaG on THIS board.  On the P&R Board he somehow loses what little intelligence and common sense he may have started out with.

Ha Ha. I swear Not a single ones of you guys have much intelligence on the P&R board. Who can outdo the other on stupid asses posts.

Great entertainment though and funny as crap. :D

I was actually, and respectfully, trying to "be" nice and to educate you on a few things you might not have been privy to. Your response, or lack thereof, to my post was disappointing but that decision is yours of course and I respect it. Enjoy your evening.

I am no one's b*tch. I was just trying to provide some background and be fair to Gambler. Good day.

I have dug to China already and made my around the world. The dirt tastes the same though. At least I built up plenty of muscle!  (sticks tongue out)

necessary, but if we limited posters to only what was "necessary' here, most of us would only be here two minutes a day and it wouldn't be near as much fun.  

However, spewing a bunch of derisive and self-aggrandizing rhetoric is hardly an effective way to "educate" or otherwise "act in the best interests" of people.  (Although Trump would obviously argue otherwise!)

I never gave bad advice . Lol once again , my experiences may be different from others . Who's to judge what "bad advice" is? Also again , being "new" to this site does not discredit my experiences and my response were not of superiority once so ever . I was talked down upon by Multiple hobbyist lol and that was their initial responses to me. A question was asked and I answered with MY answer. You hobbyist bash people when an answer is different from yours. Y'all might as well moderate all the dam discussion boards. It's sickening.

I didn't see you giving advice. You just told your experience and what you do. I am a fan of the review system. That being said, I can understand how you do things and how you go about showing you are legit. Seems fair. Is it the same as having reviews? No because reviews call out bad behavior. In your case, you go about proving that you are what you look like. You have a history of advertising for awhile. So you got that all going for you, in the way you go about proving yourself. I still advocate reviews because then we would know if someone Robs or doesn't deliver as promised. In all fairness, I personally didn't see any issue with your prior posts. You do got to remember that we all teach people to be safe, utilizing reviews, which cuts down on being ripped off. I see you have a review now. That is a good way to go. Are reviews the end all to being successful? No. Do they help both the Hobbyist and Provider? Yes.

I am a little late to the game on this subject. I thought it would be nice to hear that not everyone thought you were giving advice.

Which Sasha are you talking about? Sasha2cute always posts nice for you guys, which she is referred to as Sasha. She did not post what you are speaking about.

Sorry but sometimes guy and gals need to be told bluntly about themselves. Gambler is actually one of the nicer ones and overall, few guys are jackasses unless deserved. Overall, meaning most. Even Jake and CDL know how to play nice.  

You should clarify who the jerks are because few even fit into jerk of the year award.... and they are infrequent posters.

This has nothing to do with Sasha2cute.🤦‍♂️

Sasha2cute is cool.  We're discussing the new girl, SashaBenjamin that showed up last week on the GD board with some dangerous and reckless advice.  

GaGambler112 reads

Sasha2Cute and I are buds and I can't remember any harsh words exchanged between us.

 
This thread is about a new poster "SashaBenjamin" despite Mimi's claim to the contrary, this new Sasha reminds me a LOT of BSCTaylor. She is new, clueless, combative, BSC, and claims to be asking questions, but never likes the answers she gets, so instead of taking the good advice that she has been given, she just presses on convinced she's right, and of course the rest of us with decades of experience are the ones that don't know what we are talking about.

also keep in mind, I am not a "Jerk" I am an asshole and an asshole who has a low tolerance for stupid, especially when someone starts giving faulty and potentially dangerous advice if some other newb who might not know better were to follow her advice.

The OP simply took a few of my words (out of a million or so I have written" quoted them out of context and tried to make a case against me under false pretenses. This new Sasha doesn't have a lot of posts, so if you would like some proper context, use the "see her posts" feature and you can easily find the posts she made that I am referring to.

Tay.... I would have seen her for a few hours had her rates not been too high for what I will spend. I am not into dropping 6k for 4 hrs. Just not something I would personally do, unless maybe it was Taylor Swift or Eliza Dushcu.

I haven't been on much lately, I got to catch up I guess.

GaGambler111 reads

BSCTaylor should be about 50 by now, and that's just the age that she finally admits to.

 
Also her rates never came even close to approaching $1,500 an hour, She might have been BSC, but not THAT BSC. lol

 
The BSCTaylor I was talking about originally went by Taylor Steele, but she changed handles about as often as I change women.

Like a stick misses its Pinata.

To the uninitiated, the board can seem like an Orwellian place where all posters are equal, but some posters are more equal than others. Jake and GaGa are certainly unabashed pigs, but they are not the Squealer and Napoleon of the TER.

I was going to go with more 'outhouse' than 'Penthouse' but either way, a house divided is no fun when it rains lol  

My experience in this business is different from others as anyone else . For some reason when you ask a question or give advice from your own experiences or perspective . You're considered "not shit" , a "know it all" or "you have 1 review and you were born yesterday". I interact with different providers daily but this is the ONLY site where I come to , to learn and get advice and every time ... the same computer freaks try to bash me lol. It's odd and very weird. Especially being that it's men . I can't stress it enough that everyone hasn't been on this site for 10+ years. People will ask questions that may seem dumb but they're asked for a reason. To be angered and bash someone because of lack of knowledge is absurd then to disrespect someone and not expect it back is ridiculous.

You have two reviews and were born yesterday.  That makes me the reasonable one here.  

Just remember that he finds hus identity in how many women he can pay to fuck and how thats just fucking sad

JakeFromStateFarm156 reads

It really has nothing to do with new.  It has only to do with dumb.  A new poster who makes sense and has his/her head on straight won't get shit from me or anyone else.
But if you don't know anything and pretend you do, or if you give advice that's bad or even dangerous, you will get major flak.
And what's wrong with that?

Sasha is just flat out BSC. What other conclusion can you come to when board personas as varied as CDL, buffet, GaG etc are all in agreement that Sasha is delusional, incredibly argumentative and claims to be wiser than people here with decades and decades of experience?

 
She cant even accept the fact she gave "bad advice." Advice so horrifically terrible, if someone followed it, they could end up in jail. That is just a self serving idiot and a dangerous idiot to boot.

 
A bit stunning Mimi would WK for someone like Sasha. Did you see any other girls rushing to Sasha's defense? But maybe Mimi wasn't aware of Sasha's past performances so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.

 
GaG is an asshole extraordinaire to be sure, but he is ALWAYS on his A game when it comes to keeping people safe here, LE wise, a topic Sasha obviously doesn't give a shit about. Incredible...

your posts on the P&R Board. For sheer idiocy one must go to EuroModelsShown to exceed it.

Wouldn't run off with the advice than found on TER and not weigh it against their own instincts, or advice from some other source.

He'll if I gave a shit about reviews, I wouldn't only look at one source.

It would be hacky, and partisan, not to check all the sources available despite their position.

Nothing is gospel.

But "some" would. And THAT'S the problem. Not everyone here has the experience, street smarts or common sense or they don't have them in sufficient numbers.

 
A lot of people here have done some really stupid shit over the years. These boards are full of those stories as well as private convos one has with the gals and guys.

 
Sasha is far from the worst offender ever seen here, but her advice is dangerous nonetheless, and it needs to be called out each and every time she strolls down to the corner of Dumbass Avenue and Delusional Street.

souls_harbor73 reads

Humans tend to fall into certain common behavior patterns.

Some people live to brag.  Whether that means they are extremely confident, or conversely, extremely insecure, is left for you to judge.

There are, of course, two main ways to brag -- explicitly and implicitly.  Bragging explicitly is problematic.  People see it immediately, get tired of it quickly, and on an anonymous forum like this, begin to mock it.

Therefore the bulk of bragging in online forums is implicit bragging.  How do you brag about yourself without appearing to directly brag about yourself?  Simple, you put someone else down.  By implication you are better than the person you are deriding.  Most often the braggart would then go on to showcase his superior handling of the subject matter.

There is, in fact, no rational need to berate someone to correct misguided information.  Schools of all levels manage to educate students by the millions everyday without berating them.    

So pretty clearly anyone engaging in character assassination on the excuse of "educating" is actually merely attempting to brag implicitly.   The only real question is whether they realize their own motivations when doing so, or have they completely rationalized their behavior in their own eyes, as not only essential, but righteous?

You're one of the smart ones here.  (and BTW, your minimalist website photos are hot, very hot).  Please say you didn't know the backstory or history of this provider before you decided to take up her defense.  That way, you're off the hook for being the ONLY person on TER that thinks SashaB is not BSC.  

 
Several of us really tried to help her and all we got in exchange was attitude from a provider that has two reviews in a year with performance scores that are exceptionally low.  Many reviewers are like me.  If I can' give a girl a 7 for performance, then I don't write the review.  I don't want to hurt her business if she's trying but just stinks at her job, but I'm also not going to say it was good when it wasn't.  With her reaction on the previous thread she started, you have to wonder how much of these two low scores reflect attitude rather than service skills.  Most of us reviewers will take off on the performance side for a bad attitude.  

In my original post, I said not one peep in defense of anyone.  I was merely belittling GaG - speaking to him in his own language, if you will.

So, no worries.  You can still like me!  :)

But beware, I think the asshole likes it. You might just be turning him on. If your going to be turning him on you really should be charging him. Just sayimg.

The thought of him furtively jerking off to the the posts of an OTHB... just woohoo!

I just had this thought of my own of an OTHB sitting in a puddle of her own goo thinking about "me" of all people.

 
I found the thought kind of erotic in a disturbing kind of way, but it still doesn't make me want to start breaking my own rules about "no feas, no gordas y especialmente no Viejas" jaja

to be an avid Trump supporter, which is rare in NY, I will still like you.

GaGambler122 reads

Nah, why bother?  There are at least a couple of dozen posts on this thread from people who don't even like me who know where I was/am coming from in regards to our newest BSC newbie hooker.

BTW, doesn't Sasha remind you a LOT of how BSC Taylor used to act when she first came on the boards?

and lastly, you are going to have to be a LOT harsher if you really want to "belittle me" I have been belittled by the best, and your OP didn't even make the top 500 posts that attempted to belittle me. I do appreciate the effort though, but in the future if you want to "speak to me in my own language" you should try interspersing a few "fucks" into your post, strategically placed for effect of course. and yes, you can still like me too, but I won't be holding my breath. lol

At the very least, if by implication only,  you defended her for why else bring up the "for those trying to bludgeon or cow new board posters...?"

 
Sasha just happens to be a  "new board poster" and your OP re: GaG was in direct response to the Sasha thread and now you want to claim innocence? Puh-lease.

 
There were MANY other posts of GaG's in many other threads you could have chimed in with your thoughts about his posting style, but you chose the one in which he was actually looking out for the newbs so they wouldn't get into legal trouble by listening to the BSC rant of an unhinged, selfish and inexperienced girl.

 
You also had numerous opportunities to take a side against Sasha's dangerous drivel and you took a neutral stand on that.  People like Sasha need to be discredited here to protect others.  

 
I initially gave you the benefit of the doubt, as I assumed you did not know about the history with Sasha, but once you were made aware of that history, by several very different type of posting personas, you chose to remain silent on that front.

 
Shit, even Sasha took your words as a defense of her. Now maybe none of this was your actual intent, but it had the same effect in the end of backing someone who clearly doesn't give a shit about the safety of others and refuses to except one fucking scintilla of fault for any of her dangerous verbal diarrhea.

I certainly have ridiculed GaG in other threads - I even recall another Trump reference in there somewhere.    

The whole idea of "taking sides" on a whoreboard seems a little nonsensical to me.  I'll end it there, lest another Trump comparison slip out...

This is a dilemma for you?

 
And many of us have "sided" against db guys here asking how they can get "revenge" when an escort simply cancels a session, or when they tell us they are obsessed about a girl and are stalking her or when they consider outing the girl bc of some type of perceived infraction on her part.

 
"Taking sides" Mimi, keeps assholes and dangerous people in check to the best of our ability. This board used to come together, guys and gals, to point out the dangerous people.  Sorry you don't feel that way.

 
Let me know when you find the same courage to knock down an idiot here giving out horrendous advice as you seem to possess when you criticize GaG while he is in the midst of doing the right thing for the new peeps and the community at large.

HappyChanges92 reads

piñata on the P&R board. C'mon over.

You sound like one of those angry Hil-liar-y suck ups who cant get passed the election results. Your incessant yammering about Trump in this thread is making you look like a nut. WK for SB here makes you look bat shit crazy as well. Do you need a safe space?

several years (3 as best I can tell) and been around TER for about that long. Not sure about your business plan but you will not increase business by ranting about a BSC new provider who doesn't seem to care about nurturing the business.

Oh, I failed to mention your review scores seem to be going down a but (lots of 8's in the last ten reviews) yet you are raising your rates (P411 profile) next month.

And, the Newbie board is where we try to help other hobbyists and providers alike. Here in the GD board, you need to bring your A-game.  

I've been on and around TER since 2004, and I had several years in the business prior to my involvement here.  I feel quite confident of my grasp of both the players and the game.

The folks ranting about a BSC new provider are your fellow men.  Much to the ire of some of your peers, I have said exactly nothing about her.  

Not to be snarky, but I'd think that bringing one's A-game to this board would require actually reading it.  

you have a hemorrhoid older than him.  Its one of my favorite lines to millennials.  Lol

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