Have an outcall appointment scheduled for 2 weeks from now at the hotel I will be staying at. Hotel website mentions $20 a day for parking. What do most people do? Reimburse provider for parking expenses or don't mention it and let her deal with it as the cost of doing business?
I emailed the provider and let her know about the parking situation and offered to reimburse, but I wanted to see what other people would do.there's free parking four blocks away on the street and an easy 15 minute walk in her FM heels to the hotel. If she's wheezing a little when she gets to your room then the magnanimous thing to do is let her catch her breath for five minutes before you shove your dick in her mouth. It ALWAYS pays to be a gentleman. Take it from a guy who knows.
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there's free parking four blocks away on the street and an easy 15 minute walk in her FM heels to the hotel. If she's wheezing a little when she gets to your room then the magnanimous thing to do is let her catch her breath for five minutes before you shove your dick in her mouth. It ALWAYS pays to be a gentleman. Take it from a guy who knows.
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I would give her a head up in advance. I have a client who comes in twice a month and he knows that when he stays at this one particular hotel that I have to pay to exit the garage. He always adds the fee to my donation. I have another client who just gives me his spare room key card and that can be used to exit the parking garage as well and then you don't have to worry about anything.
If so then, isn't the reason you are paying her a higher rate is to compensate her for her travel costs? You are also assuming that she doesn't have a driver or isn't taking a cab in which case you a compensating her for costs that should be included in her outcall rate.
We also don't know how long your date is going to last. If you arranged a multiple hour or overnight stay, I'd be a bit put off if the lady quibbled over twenty bucks.
Her incall/outcall rates are the same but there is a travel fee for places 20+ miles away, which I am. 90 minute date. I've got no problem with paying for parking and I will, just wanted to see what board opinions were
Probably to both sides. You already mentioned that you would pay for parking. If she brings it up, pay it. If not, don't. You are already paying extra for travel costs and those fees might have been included.
Outcalls for me are about convenience when I travel. I assume that a lady's travel costs are all in and I just want to know how much it costs to provide that service. I don't need the itemized bill, just give me the total.
If you usually tip, I would think that amount would be more than enough to cover parking expenses. If you need to keep the amounts separate between parking and tip for service, maybe let her know the breakdown. However, be prepared for a strange reaction.
First, the additional fee many of us charge for outcall is for time. It takes an additional 20-30 minutes each way to get to you. That's up to an hour extra for us to come and spend time with you. For providers like me that includes payment to the driver.
I have never paid for the parking at a hotel when I did drive. I would valet and put it on the room I'm going to. Not paying for parking would be a sure way to have a bad provider reference imo.
You earn serious brownie points for offering to pay! Those points will most likely benefit you if you ever ask for a reference from her.
It's been a while, but at the times that I've stayed at in-town hotels with expensive parking and requested outcall, the gals would most often have a driver or take a cab, so parking was not an issue.
I suppose had she asked I would have offered to cover parking.
So wouldn't expect extra compensation as it's my responsibility to check on parking or transport costs before accepting the job. Occasionally I've agreed to a booking only to find it's an hour from where I'm staying. It's more the time taken out of my tour day to get to outcalls that makes them often financially unviable rather than parking etc. a two hour outcall can take four hours if it's too far away 
What's the big fucking deal about paying for parking? Yours or hers. I'll never understand how a guy will fork out 300, 400, 500 or $1000 and worry about $20 for parking. Not necessarily you, but this isn't the first time this has been discussed. If you bring a $30-50 bottle of wine do you think twice or ask her to split the cost?
You obviously don't live in Boston or NYC or you'd be moaning about the $30-50 it costs LOL
Suck it up and OFFER to pay her parking up front. I guarantee she'll appreciate it and suck your cock ...
And if you're driving and have to pay to park ... DO NOT ask her to knock it off her fee! Yep, NO blowjob!
....people ask the provider to shave any parking costs off of her fee?
No, really.....who does that??????
If I have to go to an incall in downtown Minneapolis, I automatically just take the bus so I don't have to worry about parking fees.
Just sayin ... could be the same guys that complain about parking? I wonder if Jack has a course for negotiatong incidental fees. Cheap Bastid 101 lol
Pay her own parking, you won't get a blow job.
From a provider's standpoint I consider parking fees to be a business expense. That said, it is always greatly appreciated when a gentleman extends the courtesy of reimbursing such expenses.
Majority of men who see me as OC pay for my parking. Take a look what she charged you in terms of her travel expenses… If you feel like the rate was high then I would say it's probably probably part of the expenses. But if she waved it or she has a very minimal charge and she's traveling a good distance, definitely pay for it. Remember you reap what you sow.
Makes up for my big gut.
Be a gentleman.
Personal opinion though. Providers should know some hotels charge for parking...and should be prepared. It's a business expense.
Then again there is uber/lyft.
Firstly , I make sure the lady is aware that there will be a parking fee. But I also assure her I'll expect to reimburse her for that cost.
However , I've found that most the ladies I see for outcall tend to politely refuse the reimbursement . Mainly because they charge a little extra for outcall and consider that extra fee sufficient for parking cost.
Another thing that can be done. Many hotels have a system that require you as a guest to pay for self parking in their lot. It is included in your hotel charges. Your room key will open the gate anytime you need to go somewhere.
If that's the case just be sure to ask for a couple keys when checking in. Now you have one you can give your lady after your little rendezvous . She can then easily and with no cost exit the parking lot.
If you fear the lady will wait until the middle of the night then sneak back in your room and bludgeon you to death in your sleep so she can steal your credit cards ........simply go back to the front desk and claim to have lost your key. The reissue will be completely different than the original.
Ingenious ! Yes , I know.
to pay for her parking. To me it's the decent thing to do and if I were seeing a provider and there was a parking fee I'd cover it. That being said I wouldn't require it on my end. I would just appreciate a man who was decent enough to do it.
....in my outcall fees
If the gentleman offers to reimburse then it's a bonus and explained as such
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I'd mention it to her (not that I would ever stay in an upscale hotel that charges for parking) so that she can decide in advance whether to drive or to catch Uber or Lyft or something -- which ever is most economical.
I usually take a Uber from where I need to be, but if there is some sort of parking then the client usually will cover for me. But what you did was the proper thing to do and very nice of you.