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English as a first language for your provider, important?
Tippecanoe 2169 reads
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How important is it that your provider speak English as a first language? Does it affect the rate you will pay?

Noticed K-agencies charge a lot less than other agencies who have "American" girls. Same with the Russian agencies, lower rates. I know having lived in Paris, the land of phenomenal cuisine, that sometimes you just want a Big Mac and fries, something familiar.  

Its often a chore trying to communicate and is taxing. I realize this after a string of K-girl dates. I then see an English speaking native, and its great to have a 'real' conversation with a woman who speaks English as her first language.

Is this another immigration thing? Foreign workers taking business away from Americans? On the whole, American girls charge a shit ton more than foreign based agencies and girls (using TER advertising by providers and agencies as a basis). A couple of our agencies in the DMV are sourcing a lot of their talent via South and Central America.

For you do you care? Is it "I'm not here for the conversation - I'm here to fuck"?

..and the less capable they are the less pleasurable the overall experience.

Had a great time with a girl from Montreal.  Her only English was "you like?"

Hand signals work fine with K-girls and Russians as well.

Make America great again!  Can't have too many beautiful women.

It should make no difference what their first language is. However, like with any other important exchange between two people having a common language which both parties are fluent is important.  
 Communication is key....

Download Google Translator as I`m sure she has and you can have some real fun here and learn too. Wouldn`t  want this scenario every time but "When in Rome" as they say. Sometimes the Translator can put a varied spin on the translation which can inspire some real spontaneous  laughter which in turn can help make for a great session.

Tippecanoe46 reads

Russian girl I saw had something where you speak into her phone, and it translated into Russian. I don't know if it was Google translate, but I'll have to investigate.

Google translate was a LIFESAVER in Mexico. Knowing little to know spanish was able to negotiate with the girls on services rendered. They really liked using Google translate and was actually kind of fun conversing back and forth. That was only fun because it was unique, if I had to do that all the time it would really suck.

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Clarification, meaning I spoke into it verbally (like any smartphone), and it verbally spoke out loud to her in Russian.

Suck my cock.
Deeper.
Spread your legs.
Doggy style.
I'm coming.
Get out.

Me love you long time.   (My personal fav)

 
in any case, 90% of communication is non-verbal.   I spent a few lovely weekends with a Korean gal whose English was just so-so.   Where there's a will, there's a way.

My favorite is “you too much beaucoup” 😉

"Me so hawny"  

Quiz Time:
Ok gang, What was the name of the song and the artist playing in the background while Mathew Modine is negotiating the price?  Winner will receive a dinner for two from a lunch cart in Ho Chi Minh City, my treat. Does not include hotel and airfare.   DO NOT Google the answer or you will be disqualified. DHS will be monitoring this contest.

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In Mexico I learned from Google translate.

I am staying at "insert name of hotel"
How to count from one to ten.
How to say one hundred, two hundred, up to a thousand (room number)
How to say thousand then the above (prices in peso)
When will you get here
Cum more than one time
Kissing? With tongue ok?
You stay for one hour.

I already new Vamanos ariba, ariba, from Speedy Gonzalez/Bugs Bunny. Cartoons are educational.

Understanding the answers took a bit of effort, but it worked out.

Posted By: JakeFromStateFarm
Re: There are very few English phrases I require her to know. They include
Suck my cock.  
 Deeper.  
 Spread your legs.  
 Doggy style.  
 I'm coming.  
 Get out.

Jake,

 
English not my first or even second language, but I do know all those phrase in 4 language.  

 
Christine

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"England and America are two countries separated by a common language." -- variously attributed

I connect more with people by their demeanor than by their spoken words.  Ice breaking chit chat is usually pretty inane, not really something that's going to reveal much about their character, their life, their dreams, etc.

I'm won over by a smile, wistful eyes and a calm temperament.  My ego hopes it is a reflection of my own mood.

Language spoken at a session has been essentially irrelevant for me.  

Therefore, communication is extremely important to me.  I've had sessions with women who I couldn't understand, and it sucked.

... to communicate on some level, lol.
But I have been to enough AMPs to learn enough Mandarin, Korean and Vietnamese to communicate what i want with my Asian hunnies.

Tippecanoe40 reads

Yes, knowing a little bit of the language goes a LONG way for a better session.

"ko som mira" Thank you!

but fluency is hardly a prerequisite to having a great time with a woman.

 
If I was able to pick up non English speaking women in the civvie world, how hard can it be to enjoy yourself with a woman who is a "sure thing"

 
I am surprised there aren't more guys who were in the service and who were shipped all around the world chiming in here. I remember scoring with a bunch of German/Italian/French/Russian girls when I was stationed overseas and very few of them were anywhere close to being fluent in English, I think it was part of the allure.

I like both. Seeing K-girls makes me feel like I'm on travel. American girls, the smarter ones, I enjoy the conversation. The dumb as rocks ones, not so much.

but you are more of a "guy" than most of the sissy, whiny, "sensitive" men on this board. You are just a horny dog, just like me (well not JUST like me, but closer than most of the men on this board)

 
I agree completely and I have dated enough Chinese, Korean, and Vietnamese women, not to mention a slew of Spanish speaking chicas to get over this whole "language barrier" issue

 
it is said that 93% (not a made up statistic) of all communication is non verbal. I actually enjoy being with people where communication is not quite as easy, it's fun figuring out how to communicate with each other, as long as the chemistry is good, language barriers are easy to knock down.

 
It is a bit ironic that as my Spanish has improved I find myself pretending NOT to understand stuff I really do understand. Call me a male chauvinist pig, but sometimes I am really NOT in the mood for "girl talk" now matter what language it is in. lol

..... that's why I play with mostly American speaking  women.
I still have to translate what these Yank babes  say into my native first language,   Strayan. But it turns me on.

As a provider who english is not even  2nd language much less first maybe I can share a few things.

 
I would think that if you are seeing Independent, then her language is least passable. Mine is good, but obvious an accent.  If you are going AMP does it really matter for the visit?  

 
I think I moan pretty good English. If you are DATY then for sure I moan good english.  

 
Any decent provider and even most civi girl can tell when a guy is cum. I dont need you announce it in any language. Cum in the cover, pull out, pull off cover and mark your spot, or perhaps just make it my afternoon cocktail. Language has never be a barrier there.

 
As for fee being more or less I think you maybe not all entire correct. In relation to many providers  I research, I see my rates a little higher some american girls and a little lower than some. But of course I am more than an AMP, or K-Girl on average. I am more because the sheets you fucking on are not used ten times a day, or because I am fucking you in your bed or because I do speak better english than some. I am a simple average GND provider who like sex. Not a super model at 1000.00 hour plus or a Kgirl at 250.00 hour.  

 
Pick and choose what you want. There are many who will not see me because sometimes my english not fast enough. Or perhaps because I cannot express some thoughts on some US current event. Its ok, I dont blame them its a lost opportunity for me that will only improve as my English.

Since I only understand English, I require her to speak it at least at a conversational level. Communication is important to me when being sexual.  

I don't care if it's her first language but she must understand and speak it at conversational level.

I like to be able to communicate (beyond "spread your legs" or "get on top"), but that doesn't mean English has to be her first language.  I've had very nice times with native speakers of other languages both in mongering and in civilian encounters back in my traveling days.

 
But it can always be better, which is why I'm slowly learning Korean.  :-D

Yeah, I have found it to be.  I need some sort of compatability in order to have the best sex.

Did you just say "Foreign workers taking business away from Americans?" about the hobby?!?!  

I'm DYING from laughter! 1) Migrant folks are not the only ones who charge low. 2) Different folks prefer to work in different settings and have different financial goals and therefore, charge differently. 3) Ever wondered why this is the oldest profession?

In the same manner, folks hire different providers for different reasons. No matter what my competition charges, I am not worried about anybody taking away my business.  

Afterall, isn't America "the land of the plenty"? Certainly true about the plentiful dicks that needs some lustful attention. . .

For the Hearing Impaired 👂    😅   Happy Holidays 💋💋

Not at all important that it be even first or second, but there is a certain level of basic communication I need in order to fully enjoy our time together.  I don't expect her to discuss the 3 trillion dollars Trump's early policies has added to the economy, some of which landed in my 401K, but I do expect her to understand and speak the words and phrases that come with being a sex worker.   Communication becomes more important if she has aspirations for an outside relationship.

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