I feel it very satisfied when I get my ATF to the big Os point, but I found out from other hobbyists that she fakes out the orgasm, is there any way I could figure out that she is really into it?
...and accept it for what it is...
You are buying a fantasy, and she is providing a service to you...your goal is to feel like a king and her goal is to make you feel like a king...for that one hour you need to suspend disbelief and walk out of the room happy, and for that one hour she needs to make you believe it and have you walk out of the room a satisfied customer at will return for repeat visits...
If you are looking for anything more than that get a girlfriend...or a dog...
If it gives you pleasure to get your ATF to a big O, let her know that you'd love it if she'd let you know what she likes and doesn't like, orally. Have you asked her this before, or do you just do what you THINK she'll like? Every woman is different. Then, don't focus on whether she Os or not, but on doing what she tells you feels good to her. She may not always get the big O with you, but she'll appreciate your efforts.
Depending on your relationship with your ATF, you could also ask her to be honest with you about Os. That means she's not always going to "O" with you, but when she does it's genuine. I have that understanding with my long-time ATF. She lets me know if she's Oed-out. Fortunately, I usually see her early in the day when she has a lot of pent-up sexual energy. She's told me she has to fake it for a lot of guys because they expect her to O several times, plus they expect her to gush every time (she's a squirter). They get fake Os, and pee instead of squirting. (Cue the replies about "it's pee!" 😜 ).
A Sure give away..xoxo
Then on the other hand, just accept that it's real.
No wait, maybe she's faking. No wait, maybe it's real.
Basically, for her sake I hope it's real.
For your sake, you are now screwed. Having that stuck in your head........ until it's not.
Then on the other hand, you could ask her if she is having a good time and accept what she says.
Maybe, the guys that told you that she fakes it are shitty at giving her pleasure.
Have fun.
The magician doesn’t really saw his assistant in half.
If you’re having a good time, just suspend your belief and enjoy the show.
They all fake and you'll never know.
You are "probably" doing it right.
When she stops charging you for it, you are most definitely doing it right.
Aside from that, your guess is as good as mine, but my question to you is "why is it really that important to you?" Do you really need validation that you don't suck in bed that badly that you have to know if the hooker you are paying for sex is getting off while getting paid?
and reveals that she is LE, but will quit the force for your sake.
Of course this kind of thing only comes along a few times a year.
"Why is it really that important to you?" that it's important to the OP that his ATF has an O? He's the one paying for the session, right? If he wants to spend his money that way, what's it to you, and to the others who have ridiculed him here?
There is a chapter about A Synopsis of Female Sexual Response which may give you a clue. It said every woman's orgasm is different. There are other technical details in that book I have not followed yet because they interfere with my ability to pleasure her. I do it without thinking like enjoying my favorite food.
Don't overthink this if you feel very satisfied and have fun. Ask her what she likes if you have doubt and make this fun for the both of you. Instead of trying to figure out if she is really into it, figure out how to make her really get into it.
a heart monitor. An Apple Watch will do.
anything after that she is just faking it through... like faking any genuine emotion for you.
Her 2nd orgasm is when you finally leave or she leaves
Some people can make me release and some can. All in technique... My clients most know by the flood of waters released when my body tenses up and I squeeze their head with my thighs. The bodies natural response is one you cant miss.
Just my 2 cents though 