I notice a list of providers who have been delisted or removed for various reason
Anytime I check Eros and email a provider who respond asking for references when she has no references on TER, I ask her why should I provide references when she herself has no references. If a lady want references make sure she provides her references as well ( TER ). Stand up for yourself and put shitty ladies out of business for good !!! If she want references ask her why she has NO references on TER, and see if she can give you a answer to thatbut I agree, there is an element of risk to watch out for.
She should, perhaps, be asked for personal info first.
ways other than TER to verify a woman's legitimacy. Referrals from other known provider friends is one example I have used in the past. There are review boards other than TER, you know! Finally, if you know how to do it, you can meet anyone safely (in terms of LE avoidance); you just may not know what kind of experience you are going to get with no reviews or other provider references. I've done all of these, and had some great experiences with ladies who are now well-known and respected providers. Not having TER reviews is very, very far from being synonymous with a "shitty lady".
I wish you well in your quest to become a better, not-shitty client.
Looks like my PSA already got one guy into a frenzy
Men look for references from other MEN
Women look for references from other WOMEN
You don't see women asking you for references from other men do you?
I client who takes no shit because he is paying is one who gets respect, you on the other hand likely a doormat 
to have sex with the women. My approach gets that done, and safely.
Yours, on the other hand, doesn't seem to be working out well for you.
Good luck with that.
This not make sense.
There are providers on EROS even and other boards with no reviews.
OP says he email a provider from EROS and she has no reviews. Then why fuck sake he email to begin with. Nice picture, stupid guy. He did home work and knows she has o reviews, then email her anyway. Then cry why should he supply references if she has no references, I assume even he means reviews.
Perhaps she is a scam, perhaps she does not want reviews, perhaps she just start.
Op should do exactly what I tell my teacher in class today, STFU!
same thing. If all she has is an ad, and he can't find her anywhere else, why waste time emailing in the first place. The reason I could think of would be a timewaster that likes to fuck with providers.
Totally agree.
Just remember, I warned you that if you spent enough time here I would start rubbing off on you. lmao
As for the rest of your post, Yep that sounds just like what I would have said although I would have thrown a little extra vulgarity in, just for effect of course.
Gag,
Yes I did say it. And he deserve it. And I would say again.
Christine
Don't worry Christine, your real friends will still like you even if you turn into a female GaGambler. lol
it's too late for me. GaGa already rubbed of on me many years ago.
TBH I didn't even know how to respond to this post. Why is he trying to meet someone knowing she isn't reviewed and yet is all bent about giving references? Just sounds like he doesn't want to do screening. Plenty of fish in the sea. If you don't feel ok with giving screening, move on to the next.
I wouldn't give my information out to someone that's not established in some sort of way.
and you are right, that was a pretty dumb post by the OP.
Or maybe he just phrased it very badly, I can see how other provider might not feel comfortable being used as a reference and expected to have to talk to a fellow provider who is a complete unknown and who could be an undercover cop for all she knows.
But somehow I don't think that was the point he was trying to make.
and I am sure just about everyone will agree with that. lol
that would be considered "damages", but I think if GaG was in front of a jury with his story, he'd be a goner. Lol
If Gag is going rub off on me, there will for sure be fee to consider.
But if its him do all the work, I would extend a discount since he seems usually has very good advice.
Christine
he meant THAT KIND of rub-off. Lol
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Mean is that you're not bsc and know how to wash your ass.
There nothing about your kissing method is less to be desired bc you slobber like a dog, you have no sense of coordination so advoid x postions... I'm going to be nice and stop here.
A lot of men don't want to admit reviews are subjective. It's my fault that I didn't kiss you but you can't sit and ask yourself why. But of course it's my fault that you clearly don't care about oral hygiene and I should be graded accordingly.
I love when a man ask for a bbbj and I just wished there was a way for me to bring his dick to his nose.
But then again the premise of your post... Let me bitch about providers with clearly no ter presence on ter. Majority of the men we see are not on ter or want nothing to do with it...
Maybe I'm too logical... Stick with the ladies with ter Ids. If she doesn't have one either oblige or move on.
sometimes i see reviews where a client didn't get dfk and was sad, even though all her other reviews have dfk. and you know the reason is because they had bad breath or bad kissing technique, you can see it in all the reviews they've written.
or recently, a client wrote a bad reviews about a friend of mine who'd previously received all 8s and 9s, in the review he calls her a germaphobe for using baby wipes to try to wipe him down. The funny thing is i knew about this client even before he wrote the review, he had refused to shower when coming in, and she had to wipe him down because he smelled that bad, to even get close to him, then he had the never to get offended she was wiping him down and left.
and then there's the clients who complain in reviews about receiving cbj, when the lady offers bbbj to others. again, these guys probably had a really smelly dick, or something that signified they might have an std issue, but the provider wasn't positive enough to throw him out the door.
moral of the story, when every one else had a great time except you, its probably you.
However i don't agree with only seeing reviewed ladies, there are reviewed and unreviewed ladies that are great. looking through her website, the way she communicates, her twitter or blog if she has one are all indicator.
...... the hooker world doesn't only revolve around TER. There are several other sites in different places that I've found reviews. Of course the members of those sites tend to think the hooker world revolves around those sites. Ignorance is not an excuse.
Personally, I have only once played with a lady that had no reviews. But, I got answers from mongers on the local board that knew her well. And I got exactly what they said I would get.