I hide mine for a simple reason. I got one a few years back from a gal unsolicited after a session. She used to be a good friend of an ATF. My ATF was perusing my WL's one day, saw I had seen her and went BSC. It was rather uh unpleasant for a period of time. Just such a waste of time and energy. I've blocked mine ever since.
I think I asked years ago but the topic just came up again a few minutes ago so I need some fresh answers please,
why do you hide your whitelists if you have any?
To MY understanding, a hobbyist has the option of hiding their whitelist.
1st off, is that true?
Secondly, if true- why would one hide a reward for being a good hobbyist?
When I first started screening using whitelist counts by good girls- I was kind of surprised that some clients had reviews for many top shelf ladies but NO whitelists- during that time I was declining to see hobbyists if they had a lot of reviews but no whiteliss in fear of they were terrible clients.
Please do not private message me regarding this.
Nah you don't but I hate to be told NOT to do something so maybe I will send you a PM afterall. lol
One thing you will find out around here is that most of us HATE to be told what to do. It's like asking a question in an OP and specifying who you want to respond, or more importantly who you do NOT want to respond to your post/s.
As for your OP, yes it's an option for guys to hide their Whitelists, and no I have no idea why a guy would want to hide them unless maybe he has a bunch of TS WL's and doesn't want to admit to the public that he "walks on the wild side" lol
I don't use my TER handle to make appointments. If providers don't know who CDL is, then I can write an HONEST review without fear of blowback if the provider doesn't like the review. That's why I don't use whitelist. Other guys may have other reasons.
50+ indies I've seen over years can't whitelist me either because they don't know they saw CDL.
I saw the thread above where some guy's ATF got cool on him after she saw all his likes on P411.
I guess some gals don't like guy-sluts, so maybe you should hide it in some cases.
Hence, I don't have any. I also never asked for one, kept reading here that they were fairly useless. I have OKs on P411 which is much more widely accepted.
Now you know....
As for the OP, I have no idea why. Could be they want to hide some of them like GaGambler suggested, or they just want to keep it private to keep people guessing.
but that didn't stop several women from giving me WL's. ironically only one of them have I ever met.
I wouldn't hide mine coz then what's the point of having them?
I hide mine for a simple reason. I got one a few years back from a gal unsolicited after a session. She used to be a good friend of an ATF. My ATF was perusing my WL's one day, saw I had seen her and went BSC. It was rather uh unpleasant for a period of time. Just such a waste of time and energy. I've blocked mine ever since.
...by another provider. I don't write reviews but she knew I was seeing other providers because of my whitelists. I don't ask for whitelists but I'm not going to tell someone NOT to whitelist me. ATF? More like WTF? We weren't in a committed relationship; I didn't hit the ceiling when she got a new review.
LR posted something along the same lines a few years ago:
http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=589253&boardID=12&page=#589253
... the only people who should care about my white lists are providers who need to screen me and wish to see them for that purpose. And in that case, I gladly make my white lists visible. But I haven't had any provider ask to see my white lists for a few years. I have many P411 OKs and can provide references beyond that (including providers who've white listed me) if needed.
For all others... it's really none of their business. Is it?
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But I've never asked for a whitelist. I know one provider, now retired but still has her TER profile, whitelisted me 3 years ago. I would consider myself a good client. I can provide valid references that date back 12 months. I'm not a timewaster, I don't NCNS, I show up showered, or take a shower when I'm there, don't play games with the donation, don't overstay my time, and don't suggest unsafe activities. And I've repeated with 3 of the 10 women I've seen, would've repeated with 2 others but due to their own circumstances I was unable to.
I would hope you would look at all the facts involved and not consider me a bad client