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Bisexual escorts
dipstick50 5699 reads
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I see a few ladies that are bisexual and they primarily date women in their private lives.  These ladies don't see women in their escorting business.  Is it difficult for bisexual ladies to see both sexes or do you usually stick to one sex in your escorting business and another in your personal relationships?

...i have found that providers with female partners or wives typically choose to not see female hobbyists.  Bisexual ladies, for the most part, are more open to seeing both sexes for sessions. I'm sure that there are exceptions, tho.

GaGambler131 reads

fucking men is just "business" while seeing other women could be construed as "cheating" for a provider with a female SO.

Not to mention it's not like she is going to take a huge financial hit by not seeing female clients. The headache she might get from her SO most likely is not worth the relatively small amount of money she will be missing out on.

...only to be told "my wife would get jealous". I never press it and pretty much commiserate with her about jealous wives, lol.  
I have also chased some strippers that caught my eye around the club only to catch them and be told that they promised their wife/GF that they would not dance for women. The last one took me 2 hrs to finally wear her down! ;)

I love females. I do not see female clients. Kind of hard blurring the lines. Either I really like ya and want to date you or not at all.

I see men and TS gals only. Much easier to keep boundaries.  

PS: because of the way TER use to have their rating system, the vast majority claimed being bi when they were not!!! They just wanted the extra point. I am sure Lopaw can back me up on that from the west coast.

Because of twitter, I have found many ladies who are bi or lesbian that primarily stick with seeing men business wise. I can't say much because I get it from my perspective. If I have a SO, yes it does feel like cheating, to me.

dipstick50129 reads

This may sound like a dumb question but I don't know.  This is why I ask and don't assume.  Is it easier to see male or female clients for those ladies that escort and see both?  I would think that it may be safer to see ladies instead of men but some of the ladies that I see have had some pretty violent personal relationships {controlling female partners] and I could how that could be a problem with seeing females as well.  I had to stop seeing one of the ladies because I left a pair of shades at her personal in call and her girlfriend found my shades and started smashing up the escort's apartment.  Believe me, females can be psychos as well.  Also, is there such a thing as a Lesbian escort that see men?

-- Modified on 6/19/2017 11:57:34 AM

GaGambler122 reads

Yes, there are some 100% lesbian providers who see men. I know a few personally and am drinking buddies with a couple so I know this for a fact.  

I do know a few women who most definitely "prefer" women, but who still manage to offer up a very convincing GFE. The outright lesbians I have no idea how good, or convincing their sessions are as I have never had any desire to have sex with them. I am not going to "turn them" and I don't have sex with anyone when I no there is ZERO chance they are going to enjoy it.

... love seeing men and woman clients about the same, as far as I can tell.  And they love seeing couples, and of course three-or-more-somes.  But most of their clients are men.  And to my knowledge, if these providers are in a committed relationship it's with a man.  But I know at least some of them see lady friends on the side, not p4p, with consent of their SOs--and sometimes WITH their SOs.  At least that's what they've told me.  I've only met one of these SOs, who confirmed what his partner told me.  

Male clients. I love love females. I just don't care to find myself posting a Thread on how I fell in love with a client. Actually I am more worried about seeing a female client and if I am not attracted, not being able to fake it. So there is two reasons I just say no. I have had several other providers try to set up appts with me (and female hobbyists). I just say no. I am more comfortable hanging with the men, even though women win hands down!  

It feels more personal for me if I am with a female.  

Guys are fun to be around. Yes, sorry ladies but I love the way men are and their personalities. Women tend to try to out do each other. Not all, but quite a few.  

I have and will continue to offer doubles with women. I have to have a lot of trust in her, know she is good at what she does for the guys & treats them well, and I got to be hot for her. I don't care if her pussy is made of money, if I am not hot for her, it's not happening. LMAO

I date women in my personal and professional life. Same with men. I do what makes me happy. My partners don't get jealous -- possessiveness is not sexy. :)

Because it means that they're more open to girl on girl action, and what straight guy doesn't like the sight of 2 hot chicks making out?

I date both women and men. I've had a few women hit me up as clients, but it is truly rare, like 1%. More common is that couples will hit me up.  

:)

I'm hearing from more and more of my local providers saying that they have been approached by female hobbyists, so I know that the numbers are growing. They are still small, but starting to be more vocal in seeking out female company :)

I am a true bisexual and see men, women and couples and encountered "fake pussy eating" and girls who are "gay for pay" and I personally think that unless you are willing to eat pussy for real and really get into it then you should not be doing it.  Guys are paying a lot for two girls and one of the reasons for wanting a duo is because he wants to see two hot girls really get down with each other.  Personally, if I was the guy paying and saw some "fake pussy eating" going on I would be pissed and eould feel cheated.  

I have ties to that community and I meet a lot of people that live a different lifestyle.

What I have seen in most bi/lesbian relationships is that the rule of thumb for women is:
"You can fuck any guy you want, but you need my permission to fuck another woman", if fucking another woman is even allowed.

My lesbian sister and her girlfriend went to a Mellisa Etheridge concert once and got backstage passes and met Mellisa.  Mellisa started hitting on my sister, her girlfriend got furious, it ended up breaking up their relationship even though nothing happened.

Hell, there's a bi/lesbian Ex Marine girl I work with and she says it would be ok for us to fuck but she'd need permission from her wife to see another woman.  Haven't taken her up on it... yet. 😁

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