I've never been late for an appointment with a provider, but providers have often been late with me. From comments made here at TER and on some provider websites, I have noticed a double standard regarding lateness.
When a client is late, the appointment is often cut short, based on the idea that the appointment started on time regardless of whether the client shows up at that time. When a provider is late, the appointment starts when she shows up, if the client is lucky. But if the provider is on a tight schedule (like back to back appointments), it's possible that the appointment will still be cut short even though the client didn't do anything wrong except maybe book the wrong provider. This isn't something that I have experienced recently, but I am pondering it while waiting to hear back about a scheduling request. I always figure in reasonable travel time when I am scheduling an appointment, and I wish that providers would do the same.It's only a "double standard" if the same provider does both things. You can't hold one provider responsible for the acts of others.
I will always try to accommodate a client that is running late but I need to be mindful of my schedule as well. I have only been tardy a couple of times due to traffic and I have always notified my client ahead of time. Communication is the key!
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Abbey
Whining about the tardiness of anyone will absolutely put them in the mood to happily suck your dick.
Get over it.
Yes I know this fall on deaf ears. Yes I know you feel you must protect your ability to "fairly" score and review.
Here is what I say, if your going to bitch, cry, and whine. Do it like a man. Or do it like a woman. not like a troll ghost.
Let the op say who he reviews under, then let the board see if in his review he has ever experience this and did he say it in review to warn his friends. If he has "fair" reviews, then he should have reviews and name names where this happen. If not then just another troll.
I do not say these things dont happen. I have been late once to a client by 10 minutes and my time did not start until we start. Sometimes cant control traffic. I have had many clients late to me, and still there time not start until we start. And I have NEVER had a client show up and him have to wait for me.
Quit complaining and show us how many times you did a "fair" review when you were impact like this.
Just my .02 cents
Christine
Once again one of the girls has more balls than many of the guys. lol
So Rando, she has a point. I understand there are some valid reasons for hiding behind an alias, but "whining" isn't one of them.
For the record, I have been late more than a few times, one of the hazards of living in cities with lots of traffic. I would say in 90% of the cases where I have been the one who was late, I still got the time I paid for, (with a tip for being understanding that was MY choice, not hers) I of course have NEVER been late without remaining in touch while stuck in traffic, That's only common courtesy and most providers who have shown up late to see me have also shown the same common courtesy of keeping me up to date about their ETA, I have to say I have wasted a lot less time waiting for hookers than I have waiting for civvy chicks. lol
percentage by scheduling to see a provider at her incall rather than an outcall to wherever you are. As you say, there is always the possibility that she has another appointment after you, but very unlikely that you have scheduled an appointment after her to fuck someone else. That's not to say YOUR time isn't important, too, but you have to be realistic about what's going on. It is what it is. In LA traffic, I'm 5-10 minutes late about 20% of the time, and I KNOW its on me and comes off of my time, but most of my sessions are two hours, so its no big deal. Very rarely, a girl at the incall won't be quite ready at the appointed time. In that case, they will usually add the time delay to the end, whether they have another customer afterward or not. If your providers don't do this, then you're seeing the wrong kinds of girls. Its not a double standard if you're seeing girls with integrity in the way they run their business. Although Christine says she even gives back the time when the CUSTOMER is late, that's above and beyond what I would normally expect. If I'm late, its on MY dime. If she's late, I expect to get my full time, or else add it to the NEXT time if she is booked shortly after me. Everybody involved should understand shit happens and be reasonable.
I have only one provider ever try to cut short my time when she was late. I never saw her again because I was insulted. It’s the market at work
See what comes to fruition. I am a long time hobbyist. I have had to change my alias numerous times for my protection n who I know...n who knows me. I have seen so many that think that they're privileged just cuz they 'paid for the hour'. Just cuz u paid doesnt mean u own them. Life is about unforseen circumstances and being able to adapt. Deal with it. If she doesnt take that into consideration, dont see her again. It's really simple. Why do you feel the need to whine? Under an alias. Like a little girl. You think every experiemce is a 10/10??? It isnt...but thata life in a nutshell so deal with it. If you dont like the experience dont go back. Simple. Just cuz someone on ter gave a girl a 9/9, doesmt mean u will see it the same way.
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are very much like my plumber. When the job is finished, my pipes are completely cleared out.
Since time is the commodity involved (at least that is the story), it would make sense to adjust the fee. If less time is spent for whatever reason, the charge should be less. IMO any losses sustained are a cost of doing business. Of course I am sure everyone will find something wrong with this, but it is the real issue.
I try my best not ever be tardy to an appt. Outcalls are the ones that usually make me tardy (hate outcalls cause of that) but when I'm doing an incall I am on point on time. If your paying for an hr, you should get an hr...
Idk about back to back appointments cause I usually want an hr or more intermission to freshen up & clean up any surrounding messes. No one wants sloppy 2nds.... Lol
Just my .02
When gents are late without calling it bothers me immensely. I may be low volume but, I do have a life. Regardless, I think as adults we should all respect eachothers time boundaries. "She's not a clock watcher" does not mean you are welcome to way overstep that time boundary either. It simply means at 5 til the hour she won't be pointing to her wrist and eyeballing your jockeys.
So, what about "No Show's"? I say we get a freebie when a girl is a "No Show"...like today for example. We discussed a time and a "General Place". Showed up at 10 AM, texted and called. Waited for 30 minutes and left. No response from her at all.
This happened to me once with a "high end" provider. Though, it turned out worse.
She posted on TER a few weeks ahead of time. I contacted her and got verification out of the way. We set up a meet for Monday I believe. She was suppose to arrive in town Saturday. We were in constant email communication Friday and Saturday. Sunday comes and she emails me saying she never came to my town because a few people "cancelled" on her. I'm thinking...we're suppose to meet tomorrow morning and you're telling me you didn't even come to my town?
There I am waiting for 5-6 days for Monday to arrive and she never even had the courtesy to tell me she never made the trip! Oh, well. In this industry the women hold the power. That's how it is. That's how it works, so while I was a little upset it wasn't something I was completely angry over. I just took care of myself and that was it 
This is why I am a low volume provider and leave a very generous buffer between appointments. Life happens and I would never want to short anyone time and activities!!
xoxo