you are a hobbyist, there is a budget limitation whether it be per date, per month, or per year. I prefer per year because my P4P tends to go in spurts with occasional months seeing no one and then a month when multiple visits; mostly dependent on when I can get away.  

That and the whole money thing. I guess if I was a bit younger and/or getting paid for it, things would be different. The ladies can discretely add some lube and fake it (or just gobble that goo) as long as she can keep them lined up at the door. Nice threAD.

If you renege on your commitments to others, and are unable to afford necessities, or you find yourself doing something out of a compulsion rather a desire, then that's when you need to go see a therapist, or something like Sexaholics Anonymous.    

 
For most of us, we can afford to hobby, if maybe by scrimping on other things here and there, but otherwise not causing anyone much harm.

 
Nymphomania, by the way, is a medical condition where a woman has great sexual desire, but is unable to  achieve orgasm.  It's a sad condition.   It is not to be confused with normal healthy functioning where a gal may want to have a lot of satisfying sex.

but then after I starting going down to Latin America and started having sex four, five or even six times a day for days on end I found out that for me at least, there really was such a thing as "enough" lol

 
Now that I am pushing sixty, "enough" is more like once or twice a day, and I am afraid as I get older my number is going to continue to drop, but I don't see "stopping" until my dick either falls off or stops working.

Thanks for the "wonderful" threAD!

I'm a Nympho!

I'm a Nympho! I think I picked the right profession!

I once briefly dated a girl who told me she was a nymphomaniac.  After having sex with someone, she would become completely obsessed and unable to think about anything else.  The only way to satiate her desires was to have almost constant, increasingly wild and kinky sex with that person.  In the past, it had gotten to the point where it dramatically interfered with other aspects of her life, making it difficult for her to devote the necessary time to work, studies, family, etc.  For this reason, we agreed to take things slowly at first.  We would lie in bed making out and exploring each other's bodies, but we would always stop ourselves short of sex.  This went on for a few weeks and, despite the obvious frustrations, I was having fun.  I really liked the girl and was willing to wait until she was ready.  Of course, that day never came before she broke up with me.  It was misadventures like this one that helped drive me to the hobby.