I understand why you're disappointed, but it probably isn't as bad as it seems.
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If you run ads on BP, there's probably a number of guys with you on their list but who are afraid to TOFTT. Now you have a review here, one from a very experienced reviewer. Personally, if you'd been on my want to see list, I probably would now. But that's because I look past the numbers to see he speaks fairly highly of you, and as was said he gives out relatively low scores across the board. I don't think everyone reads that closely, but it is what it is.
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This review would pretty much convince me you're not a cop or a ROB, and I know that beyond that almost everything is relative and subjective, YMMV, ETC. If I had a good feeling about you from your ads, I'd take the chance now. Just saying you may see an uptick in business by TER members and get more reviews soon which may well be better scores.
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Somebody said it already, but keep in mind that 7 is your maximum for what it appears you offer. Hopefully that's a different perspective.
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I agree with BP, you really should use report a problem and fill in the missing info on your profile. Get rid of the "don't know's" with whatever you would like mongers to know about you. To me, the most important item is the $90 disparity between what I saw on your tumblr and the review. It's probably related to which services he partook in, but it seems shady. You might have more info available about your rates. If you have a site, other than the blog and SM, which lays all that out, you might have that added to your profile as well.
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Good luck.
Is it weird but I feel like I was reviewed by a very particular man and the fact that his review stands alone kind of bugs me. But I wonder what is your reaction to a 6
He has a lot of reviews, and scores every one of them within a range of 4 to 8 for looks. By normal TER standards, that 6 seems stingy, but maybe he just has super high standards for giving out a 9 or 10 for looks. His performance reviews are on a similar narrow scale, so I don't think that he intended to give you a poor score, that's just his range. For what it's worth, a 7 is a pretty reasonable performance rating for a massage here, given the current rules regarding services provided and maximum performance ratings.
The highest score the reviewer could have given you for performance is a 7. So relative to that and the services you offer, 6 is a good score. As for appearance, I pay more attention to photos and reviews than numerical scores there, and the reviewer was complementary about your looks relative to your photos.
I gave a 6/6 to a massage provider once and I had a great time. For what she offered, she was exceptional, and a very sweet, kind woman. Most of her reviews are in that general area. But her reviews speak highly of her, and she clearly has many happy clients.
I wouldn't worry about this if I were you.
A 10 is just a 6 with four million dollars. It's all relative to the big picture.
Yes, the guy that reviewed you rarely gives out scores much higher than what he gave you, but he also sees mainly women who average lower scores as well. It's not so much that he is a tough grader, it's the caliber of women he sees.
My reaction to his review of you wouldn't be so much the numerical scores, but the fact is that even after reading his review I am still a bit unclear as to what you offer, your only review is full of "don't knows" so there is not a lot to go on. From what I can tell, he got a halfway decent massage, got to play with your tits and got some kind of release, most likely a HJ. I have to say "most" TER mongers are looking for more than that, but for $160 hr in NYC, I don't suppose you can really expect a lot more at that price point.
Hopefully your next reviewer will fill in a lot of the empty blanks your first reviewer left in your profile and prospective customers will have a better idea about what you offer.
But to answer your actual question, my reaction to your review would be to move on to the next girl after reading it. Hopefully your next review will be better.
...You should click the 'Report A Problem' tab at the top of your profile to fill in the blanks.
How far up GaGa's ass do you have your melon? I think it's all the way.
I understand why you're disappointed, but it probably isn't as bad as it seems.
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If you run ads on BP, there's probably a number of guys with you on their list but who are afraid to TOFTT. Now you have a review here, one from a very experienced reviewer. Personally, if you'd been on my want to see list, I probably would now. But that's because I look past the numbers to see he speaks fairly highly of you, and as was said he gives out relatively low scores across the board. I don't think everyone reads that closely, but it is what it is.
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This review would pretty much convince me you're not a cop or a ROB, and I know that beyond that almost everything is relative and subjective, YMMV, ETC. If I had a good feeling about you from your ads, I'd take the chance now. Just saying you may see an uptick in business by TER members and get more reviews soon which may well be better scores.
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Somebody said it already, but keep in mind that 7 is your maximum for what it appears you offer. Hopefully that's a different perspective.
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I agree with BP, you really should use report a problem and fill in the missing info on your profile. Get rid of the "don't know's" with whatever you would like mongers to know about you. To me, the most important item is the $90 disparity between what I saw on your tumblr and the review. It's probably related to which services he partook in, but it seems shady. You might have more info available about your rates. If you have a site, other than the blog and SM, which lays all that out, you might have that added to your profile as well.
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Good luck.
I am a new hobbyist, former sugar daddy. I will not write a review unless I can in good faith give the provider at least 8 for beauty. I understand the importance of reviews for other hobbyists; I also understand it could damage or ruin a girl's business. Maybe it's just me, I can't put down a 6/7 for looks, I would rather not write a review. Yes it is a business but we are dealing with a real human being. Kayla stay positive, you seem like a very nice and genuine girl.
Is it weird but I feel like I was reviewed by a very particular man and the fact that his review stands alone kind of bugs me. But I wonder what is your reaction to a 6
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I think your pictures don't show you to your best advantage. The lighting is dark. What I look for? I want to know what she looks like sans clothing before I walk in the door. While it need not be explicit... I'd rather it wasn't totally... the photos combined effect is as stated.
You adverize domme, massage & escort... which earn different possible scores. Some gals have different stage names allowed for differing service packages. FBSM is not a bad thing... I like to use is as a sampler with new to me gals.
Don't worry about the scores. The general written text of your meeting is positive.
All in the eye of the beholder.
Ones man's 10 is another's man's 6. One mans six is another man's ten, No matter for performance, looks, atmosphere, attitude.
Don't read too much into it. Get a few more reviews under your belt and build your reputation. Nothing hinges on one review. If You disagrees with a reviewer prove them wrong with your next appointment with the next guy.
Try not to take things personally on here or any review board. Learn from things, but more importantly, market your self the way you want to be viewed and deliver the performance of a lifetime.
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I've never seen a product review on Amazon that didn't have some negative reviews. It could be 90% likes, but there is always that 10% or so that give something just one star.