Do you want to fuck or marry this woman??

Seems extreme.

Next thing she'll want is SS#, blood type, banking account numbers and next of kin.
Then, a legally binding contract.

TER & P411 don't count for anything???

I'm all for safety and understand a providers need to play safe, but that's a whole lot of info to provide to someone that you want to meet.

Do they ever give any of their personal info??
(For real, do they?)

Good luck.

-Full Name - No, but my first name is in my P411 profile.
 -DOB - No, but my age is in my P411 profile.
 -Cell #  - Yes, after I've been screened, if it's needed to communicate with her.
 -City & State of Residence - Yes, that's in my P411 profile.
 -Picture ID or a Website with Your Photo on it - No, although I might provide a body shot if the provider is looking for a certain physique.  
 -Any On-Line Verification Service memberships - Yes.
 -Either two provider references or your employment Info (Name of Company - Website Address - Your Title - Main Phone#) - Yes on references, although usually my P411 OKs are sufficient.  
 - Day/Date of Booking - Location of Meeting - Time of Meeting - The # of Hours/Duration  - Yes, unless it's a pre-screening request (which I rarely do).

 
I respect a provider's right to ask for any info she thinks she needs to do screening.  If I don't feel comfortable giving her all of it, I won't waste her time (and mine) and will keep looking.

I would be clicking on the next ad without delay.

to make sure you will always remain LOW VOLUME, . . . . . . maybe even no volume.  Does that answer your question?

I kind of feel that TER is OK.. but far from definitive.. P411.. they know who you are.. and the OK system speaks for itself.. even with old OK's.. it's valid.. If she won't take that.. move on..

not listed such as street address and marital status.

DOB is pretty excessive.  Maybe she's into astrology however.

 
Some gals want references plus employment info.

 
Some also insist you give TER handle so they can check out your reviews.

If she is going to ask for that level of personal detail, she might as well ask for proof income as well, to verify that you can afford her.

Just out of curiosity, what is her basic hourly incall rate? Is it high, medium, or low for the market in question?

Tell them what you are willing to share.  If it's reasonable, and the last three are pretty standard, and you seem like a well established guy, there's a really good chance she will waive the requirements.  

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1-Full name- Is she giving me her full name, or her escort name? We all lie about our identities, so why would I ever agree to give my name. I wouldn't give my real name to my most trusted atf.  

2-DOB- Only if she's offering a free hour on my birthday, otherwise tmi.

3-Cell #- If I use a hobby phone, that's absolutely fair. The fact is, I don't. For many ladies, that's a deal breaker, and I completely understand. I'll kindly move on to the ladies who don't require one.  

4-City, State-Since we're telling lies, here's another. I'm from the city over, or two cities over. Close, but no cigar.  

5-Picture ID- Nope!! Nuff said.

6-Online verification- I've already been banned, so who cares? But just like the picture ID, nope.

7.Two provider references- That's perfectly fair, and that's what I've been doing since the advent of internet companionship. Except for the first one, but she said her sixth sense told her I wasn't LE.  

8-Session info- Without it, there is no date.

I believe the consensus is that the screening is excessive and pass on the lady.
With P411 and Whitelist, a lady should be able to easily verify you.  There are a few ladies that I have not met because she wanted my full name...it's non-negotiable.    
Remember, once you pass your information, you do not know she may or may not do with it.  
Pass and find another lady.

After reading this...

I realize my screening is a little excessive. I'll have to modify that. Thanks for opening my eyes!

...and needed to jump through a hoop or two in order to see a provider. I gave her my name and referred her to my LinkedIn profile, where she could verify that I was who I said I was. I looked to her specifically because she was a low-volume advertiser that had good reviews on a local board where I had been a member for a couple of years.

She was satisfied that I was a good risk, as I was satisfied that she was also a good risk. We met, had a great session and I wrote my first review in a couple of years. This served as me re-introduction to the local p4p community and has let me build my "portfolio" so that I can now maintain a good hobbyist profile.

It can work out for you with the right provider. Do your research and listen to the inner voice.

-Full Name;   NO
-DOB     HELL NO
-Cell #     Well of course
-City & State of Residence;        If ya really want to know, sure
-Picture ID or a Website with Your Photo on it;     Typically No but since I am a provider, sure. Not like you can't find googling my number

-Any On-Line Verification Service memberships     Certainly.
-Either two provider references or your employment Info (Name of Company - Website Address - Your Title - Main Phone#)                    Of course
- Day/Date of Booking - Location of Meeting - Time of Meeting - The # of Hours/Duration            If it is my place or incall, you don't get that til just before. General area is fine

 
Yes I am speaking about being a client. I give as much as I would want from any guy who contacts me. Only time you got to show ID is if you look young! Age verify.

Of course I wouldn't book with any lady I felt I couldn't trust! Yes I back channel and contact reviewers. There is perks to being a verified provider for a very long time. I have been willing to give up RL info but did not need to. I am an exception.  

I fully support ladies asking for anything they want. They have right to do so and give up business if guys won't. I just make it easier and truth be told, not like I can't find that out myself.

If I could use Facebook as the website with my photo on it or use my old college ID, I'd be willing to submit to her screening

is pretty much my take. If she's getting the business she wants with those requirements that's good for her. If not she'll adjust in some say.

Much more discussion about it is largely a waste of bandwidth or a situation where some monger is hoping to publicly shame or browbeat the provider into changing their business model to suit the person complaining.

Might as well go ahead and throw your full SSN in there.  Hell no, pass.

applying for a fucking job!  I pay and use p411 for verification.  If that's not enough....NEXT!

Asking for date of birth is a little much, but I think the rest is reasonable. While I don't require it, I know a lot of ladies ask for full name and ask to see a driver's license when the guy shows up in addition to other screening and they have no problem getting appointments. I'm thinking of doing this myself.

 I don't trust whitelists. There is a guy who wrote a review of me who I have never met, and I was unable to get it taken down. He has been whitelisted by tons of girls. I don't know if he offered to write a good review for them in exchange for a whitelist or not, but they don't mean anything to me.  

Plus there are a lot of guys who let their buddy use their P411 handle or TER handle when booking a date-it happens more often than you think.  That's why I'm thinking of requiring full name and picture ID-I want to know that the guy is who he says he is.  

as it's not your body on the line. Heck, using race as a screening parameter is a practice lots of people are totally fine with when they never have to consider being on the receiving end of profiling. Personally, I may feel 1,001 different ways about that. But a back and forth discourse about whether any individual companion should be compelled to meet anyone they don't want to never really goes far.

At least the above stated policy is universal. Whoever doesn't want to provide that information can just move on.

Two recent references who have recent reviews. I've never had an issue

This is a classic case of too much information...
So for me:
1-No, but please chose a alias I can call you without gagging (hint: avoid BigDicks69)
2- yes and no,I do ask the age as part as my screening as I have a age threshold (I won't meet below 40 gents) but the exact date is TMI
3-Yes if and only f we agree to a meeting and that is when I'll give you mine...
4- Just because I am interested to share the funny story that happened to me when I was in your town  
5-Never , I do not show my face or send pic ,what is good for the goose is good for the gander, I actually cringe when people send me their Linked profile,again TMI
6-Ideally P411 OR
7- One provider I know that match my style is enough
7-Yes of course,I need to know the when and the where...

I have never......lemme repeat myself, I have NEVER provided my name or anything more than my P411 references and my TER WhiteListings........again, NEVER, NOT ONCE have I ever done more than that...and I've been w/3-400 TER ladies

Only 2-3 times in memory have I been turned-down by ladies who wanted more info

Just sayin

The things she asks for tell me she REEEAALLLY wants to make sure that you will be compatible for one another and that you both will have a good experience. She can ask for whatever she wants. If you are uncomfortable with what she is asking for just move on to someone with screening standards you are more comfortable with.