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John_Laroche 1910 reads
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Recently, I was at an outdoor cafe drinking vino and chatting with a provider OTC. Soon we turned to people watching (mostly about other types of women that either of us found attractive). The common thread for her was whether or not the woman had really nice hair. Now, I like a nice head of hair, whether short and stylish, long and straight, or sexy curls, but I never really thought it influenced my opinion of how attractive a women is.

 
So during a P4P session, do other mongers have a preference? Personally, I find a pony tail cute, and long hair pulled up to accentuate a beautiful face sexy, I also like the feel of running my hands through her loose hair. I had a civvie GF with long silky hair that danced along my stomach while she gave head. In P4P some providers seem more concerned about their hair getting messed up ( including cummed in). That takes away some of the GFE for me.

 
Also, if you book a provider based on her looks with long flowing brunette hair, and she shows up with a chin-length blonde bob, do you care? I just noticed a new review of a provider with +100 reviews, all her ad and website pics have long (mid-back) hair, but her P411 profile says chin-length.  

for short hair.  I know that puts me in the minority among hobbyists, but its what I like.  When I say "short" I'm referring to anywhere between shoulder length and just a little bit on top of her head with a neat taper on the sides and back.   I'm trying to talk my OTC girl into shortening her hair and see how her customers like it, but she's reticent because she has always had long hair for work.  

 
To answer your question about ad photos being different, I have been disappointed the opposite way when a girl's photos show short hair and when I get there, it has grown out and is half way down her back.  I saw a girl in Vegas once who had photos of long hair in her ad, but then a caption underneath that said "hair now short,", so I booked right away.  

I too am particularly fond of the short hair. Specially, the edgy and unusual partially shaved side and longer hair on smaller sized women. Harlowe Dahl used to have that, but now sports the almost shaves look, which works really great on her.  

Also have been disappointed by grown out, or extended hair, when I showed up.  
Doesn't mean that I don't like longer hair, it fits some women perfectly.  
I also get excited by shades of red in hair. Whether all burgundy or red highlights, it seems to excite me.  
Sigh, their all freaking gorgeous.

Long, short, curly, straight, redhead, blonde, brunette, or black. They all have their appeal and I love them all!

While I have nothing against long hair, shorter hairstyles and long hair pulled back in a ponytail showcases a given lady’s eyes, ears, facial structure and neck and shoulder lines.

 
With my two Providers, one lady has it real short & sporty and the other has a kind of bob; I find both styles to be very sexy.

I think women can and do look sexy with different hair styles, but without question long silky hair gets me the most revved up. Especially when the woman adds glasses, and has long slender legs.

..... when she puts her hair in the ponytail as preparation for that wonderful BBBJ!

Darlin', give me a head with hair, long beautiful hair
Shining, gleaming, steaming, flaxen, waxen
Give me down to there hair, shoulder length or longer
Here, baby, there, momma, everywhere, daddy, daddy
Hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it, long as God can grow it, my hair

That is for the head only

I like all colors and all lengths when properly and attractively coiffed. I even like the new, unnatural trendy colors, if well done. Kind of like on this beauty.

The only style that I think I would have some trouble with is the spikey punk styles from the 80s, but those days are long gone.

I like long hair pulled up. A ponytail really gets me. I also like the Christy Mack type hair.

I like long hair and am especially fond of red heads.  I like having the ladies drag they hair over my naked body.

If you cut your hair,  photos and profile should be uodated.
Today  I'm having a good Hsir Day💋💋

And sometimes someone gets caught in the middle of a drastic change before a new photo shoot is done.

I've had different hair all over the spectrum, and have spent a lot more money than I should have had to, had I kept a similar "style" all along.

Sarted blonde bob with bangs, to very short, short pixie blonde, (fried the hair,) to pixie brunette, to pixie raven, to chin-length red-head, to shoulder length raven, to lower back (extensions) raven... then tookthe extensions out and was raven upper back with bangs, now to wavy/curly medium "dark" brunette with longer bangs that look like layers.

Then body changes with all of that too, including going from "DD's" to C's with lots of weight loss/toning along the way

Holy shit - photo shoots add up. lol!

The point - A few of the clientele I was seeing 3, 2, 1 year ago are still seeing me now, despite the changes.

But when it came to blonde vs. brunette? I do not have the same clientele. When I went from blonde to brunette everybody dropped off, and I got an entirely new client base. (However, I did move to a different city, so that could be it too. lol.)

But short to long? Didn't make a difference to some. 165-170# to 112-115#, DD breasts - C breasts, big ass to smaller ass... still seeing some of the same people due to connections that were made.

I am noticing, however, the Raven black hair seemed to be very popular... problem - I'm very "porcelain" skin tone now, used to be pretty tan - and unfortunately, I just don't want to risk skin cancer and aging anymore. So I have to weigh my options.

The point?

I have no fucking idea what the answer is, but that's my experience. It all just depends on what the person is looking for - a connection, or the actual, specific "look" - or both. Blonde to brunette/brunette to blonde - that major of a change, I would probably tell people & send a current picture if interest came in before pictures were posted of the new "look" (voluntarily, never upon request).

On that note, I am told often that I try to be too perfectly accurate, and it does cost a shit ton of money and work - I think - more than just keeping things simple and the same.

I just took a quick peek at your website. If I were you I wouldn’t change a thing. My 2 cents.

Courtney, Your hair color & porcelain skin tone are gorgeous together!  
My half-penny's worth is to keep doing what you're doing.

souls_harbor32 reads

That main thing about hair that becomes a turn off if it looks like it hasn't seen a comb or a brush in the last 7 days.  I'm not talking about hair that's been mussed up hair by recent, err, activities.  I'm talking about neglected looking hair.  If you are going to neglect it, keep it short.

No mustaches or beards for me.

...so that when she sweeps it back and ties it out of the way, I know that she's getting "serious" and it's awesome 3BJ time!

clip it back, then the ends get all wet,  and as she moves, she paints your legs and stomach with her saliva.  Lol

Echoing some of the other comments, it's changes in color that get me. I'm a sucker for brunettes. I saw one provider who had recently (post-pics) gone blond and it affected my experience, since I had been psyched for a brunette. There's another woman whom I decided against seeing when she went blond.

On the other hand, P4P has helped me shatter all kinds of other prejudices in terms of what I thought was ideal - body type, size, etc.

Then again, as a child of the 80's, I will always have a thing for big hair!

I love to dress up & role-play!  I put on wigs for some of my photo shoots.  My hair is naturally long & curly, but sometimes I like to be a blonde, or have black hair.  I have never had any issues.  I do not mind jumping in the shower, or getting wet during a date with my real hair.  I stopped dying my hair because it is damaging.  If I want a new color I throw on a wig it's fun to me.  I can be anyone I want & this is why I love this hobby.  I always keep my profiles updated to be accurate.  I think I am beautiful regardless what color my hair is at any particular time.

Happy Friday to all my TER friends.

Hair is like an accessory and is an overall part of fashion. A woman's hair style can change each day, depending on what she is wearing and what she is doing. I personally don't like short hair on a woman and would never date, or pay to be with a woman who has a pixie haircut. That is a total turn off to me. (No offense to women with short hair). I dated a woman who owned a hair styling salon a couple of years ago and some days her hair was up in the back, sometimes it was long and curled. Sometimes it was straightened. She changed her style (not length, cut or color) but how she wore it every day to match the look she was wearing, or to get it up out of the way when she was busy. I loved that she looked different each day and it always made me look forward to seeing her. It was exciting and it added a lot to how I felt towards her sexually.  

On the other hand, I have friends who are with women that don't wear makeup and could care less if they ever do their hair. I always referred to that as the granola look. Unremarkable, not erotic, or sexy, just plain and sometimes even masculine looking, not feminine at all. Sexually speaking, yes, when a woman takes the time and puts in the effort to dress and look attractive every day (even if just going to the gym in a cute outfit with her hair up) it gets my attention. The other women who look plain, and put in little to no effort to look sexy, are invisible to me...I don't even notice them. A nice personality and a basic connection is necessary for me to even have a platonic friendship with people and spend time around them, so sexually speaking, looks matter.  

If a provider has pictures showing her with beautiful long hair and I arrived to find she cut it all off, changing her look completely, I would be very unhappy just like if she posted pictures of herself 15 years ago, or 20 pounds ago and showed up looking totally different . You can't market yourself one way and show up looking totally different?

I prefer woman with longer hair. I don't like it pulled up, that gives a biz feel to it for me.... that " I don't want to get any in my hair" thing I guess. Never been a fan of bob cuts. And to give away my age....I came from a time when women had big hair! So, I guess I'm set in my ways. Loved the curls and length of my heyday. It's a different time though....dead straight seems to be the trend for most women these days.

... only to grab a handful of extensions and worry about accidentally pulling them out in the throes of passion :D

I would love to grab a stripper's head while she's DATY'ing you.  Say when.

I pulled off a gal's wig while she was going down on me.

She was good, and didn't miss a beat.   Took it really well too.

I was visiting a young lady a few years ago and as we got more naked and more energetic, I noticed that a large part of her hair was coming loose. Looked like it was going to fall right off, and then I realized that it was an accessory (yep, took me a few minutes to figure that out -- I was otherwise occupied).

She didn't say anything but her hand kinda crept up to the top of her head, as she began to hold it in place. That worked for a couple of minutes but when I got to full speed in mesh, it was all she could do to keep in in place with BOTH hands! I damn near started laughing out loud and was distracting myself to the point of not being able to finish!

Fortunately, I accepted the challenge, closed my eyes and visualized me crossing the finish line -- and I did!

Do they still make bobby pins?

Tippecanoe34 reads

I just want your hair to be a reasonable facsimile of your photos.

Had a provider advertise with photos of platinum blond, pixie style hair cut. Shows up with dark brown hair below the shoulders.  WTF? She had also lost a tremendous amount of weight and wasn't curvy as pictured either. If she had advertised as such, then not a huge problem. But if you order Vanilla ice cream and somebody gives you chocolate, then a problem.

There is a provider who posts a lot here that I did want to see. She changed her hair style, now I don't want to see her. Went from light blonde short hair to the usual long hair. Sometimes you want something different, and she was the only one that fit the bcusedill. I guess better to market to the masses, than be too narrowly focused.

Arden_James46 reads

I have long brunette hair that I wear wavy or straight, depending on my clients' preferences. I consider it one of my best tools. Great for running over my clients' bodies, especially the lower regions. :-) And I don't mind if they cum in it (I offer full GFE).

....usually long and almost always wigs.  No complaints yet.
I usually wear my hair down but I pull it up and back in a ponytail or bun when necessary.  
Usually wear brown or deep auburn (or dark honey blonde) color hair....most exciting it gets is a little ombre or streaks lol.

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