So I had a recent experience with a visitor that I didn’t know how to feel about after, so I decided to share it with you guys! So I’m doing my due diligence by providing one of THEE best oral escapades this guy has ever experienced I’m sure! The way he was talking, moaning, groaning, and moving about-you’d think this was his first oral service ever!
Now...I am in NO WAY complaining, as this only turned me on more. HOOOOOWEVER, once I maneuvered my way down to the bottom of his jewels, this guy tooted his lower body in such a way that provided me access to his back side and kept trying to subtly push my head down to perform a rim job. My only problem with his was, I moved him TWICE in hopes that he’d realize this is not something I was willing to do with him, ESPECIALLY not as a first visitor. Honestly, I’m more tickled than upset. It didn’t make anything awkward nor did I put up a fuss about it. We even had a cuddle session after. I just want to know your thoughts on this, if this is something most of you guys and gals like, and if someone could provide some tips to the fellas on how to not be embarrassed to mention UPFRONT certain desires they have. I know some of us discuss things upfront and some do not, but any advice would be helpful. Thanks for reading, guys!
I guess to each its own. I personally don't mind a little tongue action down there. Start at the shaft, down to the balls and don't stop until you reach the jackpot. I never tend to force a provider down there, if shes up for it great and I'll enjoy it. It's something that I don't expect and is rather a plus should it occur.
Nice! May I ask about your first experience? I’m just curious to know if it is something you requested or if this was something she casually slid into the oral session?
My first time was with an ex. We never talked about it and it just happend. She was blowing me and started going down to my balls. Next thing you know she was in the space in between the balls and the A-hole. Thought to myself, where is this going. Next thing i know her tongue was licking my asshole and I liked it. It would happen from time to time. Never planned and never requested on my end. One day I ate her ass and she loved it.
So I test the water with providers before going in to see if they are ok with it. Most are and get quite aroused. The first time this was done to me with a provider was after I initiated with her she felt the need to return the favor. She was blowing me and from my balls in her mouth she licked my asshole and stayed down there for a good 2 minutes. Like i said i dont expect it and wouldnt request it, but should it happen I wont mind it either.
... is preferable to shoving one's a**hole close to the provider's face to give her a hint, IMO.
I've only had one rim job. It was from a provider who did it as one of her signature services. She was great at it, and she loved doing it. She loved the client to reciprocate also. But she made sure both parties were meticulously cleansed beforehand--no matter how clean you are going in, she did her own prep ritual. It was an interesting experience and I'm glad I did it with her, as she really got into it, but I don't feel the urge to do it again anytime soon.
Rimming is not very common, and I've never asked for it, but occasionally a gal will dive in and do it, especially at AMPs, but once in a while other providers will do it.
I like it, but it's not the end-all and be-all either.
You’re right, it absolutely isn’t too common right now, Mrfisher. However, I’m noticing it popping up in a lot of porn lately! Haha! O.o
Very understandable, and I totally agree! Thank you for your awesome response!
It's never been something I've asked for. I do make sure that I am immaculate before a session. In fact, if I'm the least bit suspicious that I am not fresh, I will ask to shower before anything. Even if I showered 30 minutes before.
And yes, I do sometimes enjoy it and sometimes, meh!
One of my regulars (retired) was excellent at it and she enjoyed being rimmed and loved anal sex.
Another regular loves to give and receive, but doesn't do anal fucking.
A third loves to receive but doesn't like to give, but also doesn't do greek.
Then there is one squirting, anal queen who is just built for it all......
Damn, I got all horny again.
Niiiice! Thank you for sharing ☺️
not my thing at all, but I have received a couple that were so good, I let the girl go and didn't try to stop her. A rim SHOT at the end of good punch line is more to my liking.
..I derive pleasure from. All the more fun when there is a reciprocal exchange as I love being on the receiving end as well. Caveat: I expect one to be as squeaky clean as I am.
In your case, it's important that your guest eventually respected your wishes not to perform a rim job at that time. Him asking first would have been more ideal.
Personally, I don't like to engage in very detailed back and forth about every single experience that can transpire during a session. If one were to read my reviews and enthusiastic responses to "in search of" posts that touch on some of my most favorite activities, they'd have a sense of what I enjoy.
But asking in the moment still doesn't hurt.
i never ask for a rim job unless her profile states that she rims..i would advise you to contact TER and change your rimming preferences to " Give-No and Receive-No" unless you enjoy your starfish stimulated..
May not be the best term.
You will not lick my ass.
You will not put a finger in my ass and say it's a prostrate massage
You will not put a dildo in my ass and claim it's what all the 'men' are doing these days.
I however,
Might lick your ass (probably not)
Will stick a finger in your ass
Definitely stick my dick in you ass
Ok. I'm old fashioned.
I've received. The first time it caught me by surprise and it was interesting. Pleasurable but not enough to be sought after.
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I do not want to be eating ass from a mouth I would rather be kissing and tonguing.
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There are way too many health hazards associated with the poop chute (and scat play). Anatomically, it is an exit, not an entrance. If it happens, I accept but try to deter it or cut it short. Given the choice, I will decline.
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If another part is a little deflated, I am MORE THAN HAPPY when she sets about to pump it up to make it hard and firm for the full excursion. If she can keep it up and up until it pops, that's better. And two pops is even better!
Rimming is totally my thing, love it and don't need pre-communication. but i think if anything is not within your comfort zone you should stop him and let him know. nothing to be embarrased about.
You better peal me off the ceiling for the tongue lashing you offer. Otherwise, I think I'd rather see the tongues hang out of the locals as I drive around town in a Maserati with a fine young Asian.
Lmao! Ok I could’ve chose a better word. HOOOOWEVER, with the way it happened with the position we were in I think I chose the perfect word now that I think about it. 😂
The guys best O spot is there....~!!!!!
Most are hung on about what it means. I do not know a guy who didn't like a rim job or fingers. Got t0 be carefully on how it is done, obviously.
I've had it over the years where 80% love that and TBH I get a thrill on it.
If you do not like... it is always up to you. I encourage them to expand their horizons. It's all about comfort and not judging.
I will not lie, I’ve never tried it. Will I? I mean..never say never! I’ll definitely follow the advice I’m seeing in this thread, though!
Well, you "sort of" know me and I absolutely do NOT like fingers or anything harder than a warm soft tongue anywhere near my butthole. I will concede I do "kind of" like being rimmed, but not enough that I would ever seek it out, and I much prefer DFK to being rimmed and having a tongue in my mouth that was just in my ass does create kind of an "ick factor" to me.
The last thing I'd even try on you Gambler is anything near your booty.
Ooooh the healthy chuckle I just got @ “and I much prefer DFK to being rimmed and having a tongue in my mouth..”
Nobody can follow up with a new topic after arse play is discussed.
Once you've been there you've licked it seems to apply here.
Preference for ass-play is one of the two questions I ask at the beginning of every first date. If the answer is yes, we clarify the specifics before proceeding. I've heard countless tales from gents who've been on the receiving end of an unwelcome finger in the butt!
Oh no! Whew! I’d definitely discuss first!
I specifically told the guy that although he showered right before he drove to me (and he smelled clean as could be) if he wanted me to rim him he needed to jump in the shower and make 100% sure to be clean there.
So he gave me a big ass smile and went to take a not so quick shower.... had him lay on his stomach and did some teasing all over his back and obviously went to do rimming. At no point did he say anything about not wanting it. He layed there enjoying it. Well, turns out he didn't want a rim job and reviewed me as such.
Um? When booking he made it known that he like ALL of what is stated on most of my reviews and then he specifically went into the shower for a rim job. It was all pretty clear and I don't get it, if a guy doesn't want that at any point, um just fucking saying something. Duh.
I always ask first (even on rimming) and at no point do I stick finger anywhere without asking and making sure he is ready at that moment. I am not going to let it be a surprise. I want the guy ready and relaxed, ready to enjoy.
On a related note, you'd be surprised not so much on how many guys attempt to stick their finger in our ass without asking. You can rim me but you are not sticking anything there. I've learned nice ways to deal with this (ever so often) issue.
I practice mutual consent on anything that happens during our time together.
I was with a young lady on our first date. She started with a BBBJ moved onto BLS, my taint and then spread my legs. I didn’t ask for it but I liked it. Since then, more ladies do it and ask for it. I won’t do it on a first date
I might have received it two or three times in all my years hobbying but only at AMPs. Never asked for it because while it is somewhat pleasurable it is rather low on my priorities.
In those instances it was alright but I would probably feel trepidation if an escort or civilian do it. It is because I wouldn't feel like kissing her mouth afterward. And I would rather partake in DFK than receiving rim job.
In your case I would gently but firmly nudge his hand/body away while saying "sorry can't do that hun".
...and was completely surprised and a little freaked out the first time. I always am showered, clean and fresh before a session and I guess the provider realized that. She went down on me while I was DATY for 69 but she just kept heading south as she pushed her clit onto my tongue. Her tongue licked my anus in rythm with whay I was doing to her clit. I was a little freaked out but let her go. It felt OK, just a strange and novel feeling. Thankfully no finger insertion, I am not and was not into that. She went back to the bbbj after she came and then we continued on to a full session. When I asked her later when we were catching our breath about the rim job, she replied that she only did that for "clean guys she liked". She saw providing as her sex life she said, her clients were her "boyfriends" and that she enjoyed doing it. I saw her 3 other occasions and she took the initiative twice more to rim me. Thats it, never asked for it. It was OK, but I never asked for it. It has an "ick" factor to it. While I love to DATY a gal even down to the perenium,but, I have never DATO'ed and probably won't nor ask it to be done to me. If freely offered I would probably accept, but its not a driving force nor necessary to a good session IMHO.
So I send you kids outside to play in the hot tub, then I come out to find you're swimming in the septic tank. My my what am I gonna do with you all.
Nope leave the lid on the septic tank Both yours and mine. I'll stay in the nice warm hot tub!!
Thirsty, butt not that thirsty!!
I do not personally do this unless I have gotten to know the client well. It is a personal preference to each provider if they offer it or not. I have done it before, but again knew the person very well.
Agreed! Knowing the person very well is definitely a great way to go!
yes it started when I saw Ayana4fun who literally took charge of the session, so she ask me to lay on my stomach and she literally lick me from top to bottom and right into my other end. After several session with her, she would just go straight into it, and I even lift my leg up so she can lick my shaft, my balls and give me rim job. She is the best of the best. However, before this all began, she does wash me thoroughly in the shower and make sure i was all clean.
Rimming is what I preferred but not necessary, because I know not all provider would like to do that. But it would be a plus.