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Why Not to Review
hljockey 2 Reviews 1009 reads
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Basically because it's hard to see anything good coming from it.

Last session I had was probably my worse since I've been hobbying. Nothing close to a rip-off but I really wasn't into the girl because she was move overweight than her pictures revealed and she seemed to be trying too hard to spend as little time in the bedroom as possible. Spent most of the time watching her favorite Youtube music videos.  

I wasn't thrilled with the session but I thought to myself that this is a young lady trying to make a living as best she can and she had mostly 9-10 reviews so should I really give her a negative review? To make matters worse we spoke about several other ladies I have seen who were listed on my P411 profile and I got to thinking if I give her a negative review and she says anything to them about it, what is going to happen the next time I arrange a date through P411 and she checks those references.

So I'm thinking to myself that at least 50% or more of hobbyist sessions are like this but they don't want to review for similar reasons.  

Just interested in what others think.

... that if posting misleading photos and spending most of the session time watching YouTube videos is doing her job "the best she can", prospective clients need to know about it.  

But... I understand that everyone can have a bad day.  Especially if this seems to be an exception, based on other reviews.  So you might consider letting her know you were disappointed, and why, in a tactful way.  And see what she says.  Based on her response, you might decide to write a review, or give her another chance, or whatever.  

Wait a month or so, and give her a fair review. She probably won't remember who exactly you are and you'll be fine.

 
Notice I say fair review as well. You're not giving her a "bad review" because that would imply that "bad" is not the review she deserves, which it sounds like it certainly is.

Also note that you should make a strong distinction from how she looked vs how she performed and give fair scores for each.

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The 9-10 reviews she has were written by guys she clicked with and probably gave a discount for the next session. I have never met a 9-10 rated girl that acted anything like the session you described. You should write an honest review so that other potential clients don't get burned.

2 months and then write the review using your alias.  

Other hobbyists deserve to know about this provider and her poor service.

"...this is a young lady trying to make a living as best she can..."

So are other providers, and many of them are providing better service. I think the providers who are really bad at this job are the ones who hate the work and would be happier doing something else. By posting an honest review, you are helping an unhappy provider who needs to do something else, as well as better providers who deserve the business.

A lot of clients don't write reviews on paid services because it's illegal business.Don't want to tell world paid professionals..Clients don't write reviews on unsatisfied paid service.

A couple of observations from the posts so far....

Posting under an alias in a couple of months thinking she won't remember sounds ridiculous. The review would have to be so vague to avoid triggering any kind of memory that it would be pointless.

Nobody addressed the issue of the impact on the provider network and future referrals.

She had a lot of 9-10 previous reviews so some customers were apparently well satisfied. Maybe I was an anomaly.  

Generally speaking I just feel like it's better to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative and move on. I was expecting some hobbyist response along those lines. Didn't get any but was suspecting that might be a  more common sentiment among the whore mongers than I've been reading.

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