What percentage of your sessions
1) Does a client perform DATY
2) does the client ask for CBJ or BBBJ?
I'm with you....we must be seeing the same Gentlemen Hobbiests..LOL
90% yes for both
However, i do not provide bbbj anymore (I'm pregnant and dont want to face the risks) so CBJ is a must with me. Lol
There's risk from unprotected DATY also. Also, you probably want to forgo kissing clients too if you're concerned about risk.
Unless you were just kidding (ala "lol")?
According to her profile and some of her previous posts.
Thank you, kindly... You pay attention 
She has like 8 billion rules, requires deposits, has cancellation fees, no she doesn't kiss, BBBJ or do GFE(apparently makes her physically sick), but she offers to have her BF come in and do GFE with him while you get an inferior service.
I mean, WTF.
I never said a THING about cancellation fees, firstly. Just my deposit, which is never refundable unless I cancel.
Secondly. I mostly MOSTLY dont do GFE iut of respect for the person i AM doin gfe with.
And DATY-ers are required to use an oral rinse both before and after. And i wash up with Hydrogen Peroxide after a session.
It seems fair, i dont understand where the entitlement to put us at risk comes from. I don't understand wherw when one doesnt feel comfortable she's immediatley torn apart.
I only ever provided BBJ because i felt i HAD TO, and thats mainly why i felt nasty. But since i grind my teeth and have very sensirive gums- its easier for myself to be infected in general.
Come with me to the clinic and we'll tall about bbj
Also, we all seem to forget im allergic to latex, i have yet to see a non-latex dental dam readily available...
Lastly, my man is for show, you arent joining in, and clearly i wouldnt be uncomfortable doing anything with him bc im pregnant by him. Just makes sense.
Call me square, but im overly paranoid
hydrogen peroxide diluted with water is excellent to clean up with; safe as a mouth rinse for gums and safe for the vagina's ph. It kills bacteria on contact.
add oil of oregano to the list
I love spices and herbs. And i am LOVING this idea.
It just takes a quick snip to modify a non-latex condom into a non-latex dental dam. (Or so I learned in school!)
Yeah I'm not entitled to be serviced by you and you're allowed to make as many restrictions as you want in the name of protecting your family and your health, but by that same token you're not entitled to my cash and I'm allowed to decide what risks I want to take with a provider. For the price you're asking I can easily find other providers who'll provide DFK, GFE, and BBBJ, Hell, I met a provider who did all 3 and more like less than 3 hours ago. She even allowed me to stay for 2 hours even though I only paid for one; it was very lovely both on an emotional and physical level, and she didn't make me get an STD test just so she could feel safe swallowing my cum.
But the thing is, she wanted to be with me, 100%. She wanted the money sure, and she got paid her rate, but she liked being there, and she was happy to use her toys and suck my dick, laugh at my shit jokes and lie in bed with me talking about random topics. Sure, it's a fantasy, but it was a fantasy she was happy to partake in. You sound like you can't stomach any of that, because you were forced into a profession you had no business being a part of at a very young age. It wasn't your choice to be a provider, you're a rape victim, and that clearly hurt your life and negatively influenced your decision making for years, even after the pimps were out of your life. You hate GFE because of what people did to you back when you were being pimped out, and you forced yourself to be comfortable being with people you'd rather not be with because you had no choice if you wanted to survive. It's not a good position to put yourself in, and quite frankly, I would feel gross about the idea that I may be engaging in sex with someone who doesn't want to there but has to for the money.
You talk about putting your family first, well, maybe that means you really should give up a life you were forced into now rather than later, and focus on other ways of earning money. Stripping might be a good idea, or camgirl work. But escorting? Retiring as soon as possible seems like the best choice to make for your family, your happiness, and maybe even your sanity.
Thats the most ive ever seen you write. You're over bearing. Funny story my first pimp and kidnapper wouldnt let me do GFE, because he didn't want to catch anything either. MOST REAL PIMPS wont allow GFE. Just because they have the same qualms.
The person that made me do gfe was my ex boyfriend who was highly abusive and it wasnt too long ago.
If i werent pregnant this would still be my secret and my problem the fact i feel comfortable sharing it is special.
And no, canT dance i actually have a limp. Really bad knee thanks to aforementioned ex boyfriend.
Let mw get this straught. I LIKE SPENDING TIME WITH CLIENTS BUT IM NOT SWALLOWING ANYBODY CUM BUT MY BANY FATHER BECAUSE WHAT I EAT THE BABY EATS AND THAT BEYONG DISRESPECTFUL. I NEVER DID CIM I NEVEF WILL DO CIM IN FACT THE TASTE OF CUM OUT OF REFLEX MAKES ME GAG.
A NO I WONT CAM BECAUSE THAT LIVES FOREVER.
YES IM WORKING ON MYSELF AND MY LIFE BUT FOR THE PAST YEAR I CHOSE TO DO THIS. AND JUST A FEW MONTHS AGO I WAS HAPPY IN MY DECISION TO FOLLOW EDIE SEDGWICKS LIFESTYLE. BUT NO, AFTER I WAS TOLD I COULDNT HAVE CHILDREN I GOT PREGNANT.
interesting. You dont know me so dont ACT like you do. I just dont wanna give GFE to thw wrong person and get herpes or worse. Especially since i have a family. You aren't entitled to maling me feel dirty for being clean. I LOVE MY CAREER but ferl there is a roght and wrong way and im sorry girls here are just too open to risks. And i see aloy of MEN saying something about my choices.. But where are the other providers who get teated every 2 weeks because they dont even trust their clients. Cuz i see one already amongst the bullshit of this post. I shared my opinion. Thats all i ever do
Then it turns into a free for all about my work ethic.
It's an almost universal rejection of what you have to offer us in return for our money. The why's really aren't that important to most of us.
Quite frankly I would feel like a rapist if I ever were to see you and I see hookers to have fun, not to end up feeling guilty.
As I have said before you are free to conduct your business as you see fit, but I can't imagine any guy wanting to book time with you after reading your posts on this board. You are a prime example why many hookers should make their board posts under an alias.
Maybe its a jewish thing, maybe its my fucked up mentality from being pimped out as a kid *shrug* who know, honestly? I know i have daddy issues, i know i do have a certain level of respect for my man. Think about your wife/girlfriend ... Would you want some other guys raw meat in her mouth? Be realistic. Lol.
And i said if A CLIENT WOULD LIKE my man can join for vouyer purposes.
And yes the thought of bbj makes me a little queasy bc i dont know what risks im taking. And honestly since im jot doing BBJ many clients think its so deranged punishment not to eat me out 😂😂😂😂
Oh, & the very main reason i allow daty is bc my man doesnt do daty. *shrug* black men a strange on that note. 😜😏
someone sounds salty *sad violin*
when a woman is preggo. A woman's immune system is not as strong during pregnancy plus the cervix is more dilated than normal even in the first two trimesters.
Steph XO
at least no risk for me as the chances of me ever doing DATY on a preggo chick are about zero once she starts getting fat.
See, being a shallow pig does have it's own rewards. lol
And im about to hit 4 months. So yes, i AM showing, even if it is minimal. Lol.
I retire Dec 30th, so i wont need to deal with the insanity lmao & i can focus on my family.
It really doesn't sound like your heart is in this anymore, or if it ever was, but do you REALLY need the money that badly to keep doing something you clearly don't enjoy doing? This is not asked from the perspective of a whore monger that would never see you given your rules/menu/attitude etc., this is coming from the perspective of a guy who never wants to find himself naked with a woman who doesn't want to be there. I NEVER want to feel like a rapist or sexual abuser, spending time with you professionally would make me feel like both of the above.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but why wait until Dec 30th? Why not just retire now?
Over time, i have learned to enjoy the company of my clients and many have turned more into friends than anything else.
Secondly, my attitude as Brittney and my Attitude as myself are similar, but as myself my anxiety and depression have a tendency to take over.
It is a mental escape from my every day life and for that i thouroughly enjoy it; however, i have to keep other people's emotions in mind. Including my child. He will be proud of his mother, regardless of what ive done. That is my goal. But considering I am moving to Alaska, and trying to renew my life in a place where I am not known- i will have to be a single mother since i know my boyfriend isnt following me to Alaska.
I understand my choices are my own. But i feel as i become more pregnant I'll feel physically limited and that bothers me
I still allow Greek, and i do allow daty. If u wanna get paperwork for me - i may consider a BBJ. I have so much of a future ahead of me.
But you are correct in saying i truly DO need the money, i have a go fund me for that reason.
I can admit to that, but i dont think that fact changes based on which woman you consider- everybody NEEDS money.
Black daddy making another fatherless baby.
I haven't seen a single client.... And some sen dont to DATY because my lips scare them (my baby father included 😜
I make more money off my subscription snap chat and modeling than anything else
Which of course they ask for after they ate a retahd sandwich for lunch and then gave me a kiss...because that makes good sense right? Those 97%'s get a beautiful, sloppy, wet blow job
I simply head on down and get to it; if someone does NOT want a BJ, he has to tell me so!
As for DATY? The majority of my dates do this, but in touring I've noticed it can be a regional thing. In certain cities or states, the percentage is much much lower than in most.
And no, I'm not going to share which geographical locations seem to have fewer oral-givers lol.
A lady on a mission!! Gotta love it
Probably 60-70% like to do DATY
no one ever has to ask me for BBBJ (I don’t do CBJ, but would if asked?)... I’ve just always done it. Maybe only 2-3 session where someone didn’t want a BBBJ. And during one of those, we didn’t do anything intimate. He just wanted company
I am trying to think right now of a client that did not do DATY.....none are popping up in my head. I cannot think of anyone yet asking me for a CBJ. Sometimes during the deed I will suck a bit with the cover on, but that is more just because it is easier than taking it off and then putting a new one on. I do not do short sessions and am GFE, so that gives us time to explore all the bases.
+/- 80% DATY and only about 10% CBJ.
100% DATY & BBBJ
never once been asked for CBJ
I think it is around 50% on DATY and most of it is BBBJ. There are at times some CBJ.
Definitely upwards of 90% maybe 100% DATY . I think because I'm a squirter, that part keeps it interesting. However I've NEVER had a client ask for CBJ
sometimes they want 90% daty and some want 90% bbbj. It really just depends what the man likes most . Only about two men since I've been doing this has asked for Cbj.