I love 69, but for the best oral experience, especially for the lady, it's best to let her relax so you can explore all her erogenous zones. Let her connect with her body and RECEIVE.
Since the hobby is about the guys experience, for the most part, it is our fantasy, it's not a huge issue. I like he to lay back, relax, and allow me to explore her as she feels comfortable with.While lurking on another forum recently, I came across a discussion about sixty-nine, and was surprised to read that so many women dislike it. And other women said it was just okay, but they generally didn't orgasm because it was too distracting.
So I thought about my own experience with 69, and realized that I've never come in that position. The woman's tongue is generally working on the less sensitive side of my johnson. And whichever one of us is on top is eventually dealing with the uncomfortable blood rush to the head. I've never tried 69 while we lie on our sides, but maybe that would be better.
Anyway, what do you folks think about 69?
I also find it too distracting to really get anywhere with it.
I'm pretty tall, so it's mechanically hard to do unless a lady is fairly tall herself.
For those that don't know how to do it correctly.
I agree Coeur ,
I find 69 one of my favorite position as is
DATY.
I can munch on pussy for entire hour and not get tired
69 just gives me the extra bonus for the girl to suck on my rod.
Quite honestly I dont know how women feel about
Daty or 69 ( i hope they are having as much fun as me ) , but since Im the paying client .... I like it , so thats what Counts 
He who pays the piper names the tune. Same with providers. Your dime, your menu.
Ok, fair enough, difficult at times to orgasm because instead of concentrating on how good it feels I'm concentrating on eating pussy. I get where y'all are coming from, and you have my sympathy.
But alas, you're focusing on reaching a destination. Try instead to enjoy the journey!
I'm w/FreeBore on this, but, maybe LionHeart can send us a how-to YouTube of how he does it!
What say you LionHeart?!
Yes I think the general consensus is that we aren't too crazy about it. It is distracting and can strain your upper body strength.
it's the best possible way to DATY while getting a BJ (or vice-versa). You can't say it's overrated for that purpose.
I don't know whether it's overrated generally, because I really don't know how highly people rate it. It doesn't appear to me to be above most of the common acts in the sex act hierarchy.
Double tasking gets harder as I age.
"The woman's tongue is generally working on the less sensitive side of my johnson."
And I find I'm not ideally positioned to explore her juicy bits either. That could be just lack of practice with 69, I suppose--as it happens I haven't done it much.
I really prefer to concentrate on the lady and not be distracted by her actions and many ladies i have been with feel the same--both ways.
It's not the destination, at least for me. So to answer your question, no, it's not overrated.
...never too much distraction and our heights are usually close enough as to not strain anyone's neck
Some ladies are too distracted by it and lose their concentration on the cock sucking end. And that's fine, just move on to other pleasures.
And a couple I know get really into it and get wild with a tongue on their clit and a cock DT down their throat as they cum.
My pleasure level jumps as hers does.
Thank goodness for variety.
To ride or be ridden..that is the question?..
It's like getting and giving a massage at the same time. It's gonna be half assed.
But in a modified sideways position using the edge of your bed. then no. But then this position isn't really 69, more like a 4...lol....Use your imagination....Oh, and you have to be somewhat nimble.
I too find 69'ing to be clumbsy and awkward. And I have quite a lot of practice/experience/skill. My pussy is very sensitive and when someone is only halfway paying attention to what they are doing it just ends up being painful for me 95% of the time. Plus there's that issue with my tongue being on the wrong side of the guy's cock, which means I can't really do my "best work" and I personally don't like half-assing my cock-sucking either. Best case scenario I'm bored during 69 and worst case scenario I'm literally in pain because the guy can't focus on doing his end properly.
Now *69, on the other hand, is just a dream in my opinion. What is *69, you ask? Why mutual ass-eating, of course. Requires much more of a particular height match to achieve successfully, but assholes are perfectly round and I find even when completely zoned out into bliss, most people can continue to eat ass decently. I know I can! So I love eating a guy's ass at the same time that he eats mine. Wow we can just both get into a super blissed-out state like that and stay there for quite a while. What a fucking treat! 
How about a video demonstration?
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Wow that sounds so hot, I'm going to suggest that on my next session.
Thanks Zoey
I love a 68. That is when you do me, and I owe you one.
I prefer a good 68. She does me, and I owe her 1.
Like most others have said, I find it distracting to try and please her while she is sucking my dick, I would rather focus on her pussy and give it my full attention.
You do me and I'll owe you one!
I've found that my orgasms in that position are really strong and I'm more turned on because the guy is enjoying himself too. And then when I come, he's turned on and goes at it harder I love that cycle. I like being licked/pentrated from behind the best so maybe that's why I enjoy 69 so much.
Wow, I have to admit that I am surprised by all the comments about distraction, multi-tasking, etc... I'm with you Chloe; I love it too. It's like the ultimate shared experience and while I don't think my concentrative powers are better than anyone else's I have never had a problem with doing something fun while receiving something fun.
Are you talking about spooning or 69? 69 is not "from behind".
I hear that there's a place where they are 8 before they're 7.
Very much YMMV, depending on how play goes. Only once did I ever cum during this, as part of extremely hot interracial play at a Super Bowl sex party about a half dozen years ago. Otherwise, it depends on how play goes.
As for positioning, I prefer to be looking up at her pussy and ass, and licking both. The view is spectacular...
I much prefer eating out the gal first, having her xum a bunch of times (if possible) then afterwards getting a bbbjcimnqns. Then back to cunnilingus (if she wants) until I can get it up again for round 2. (Preferrably begun with bbbj and finished in pussy). If there is time I will always entertain giving and getting more oral. Just not at the same time. It distracts from doing a good job (for either of us). She deserves my full attention just as I deserve hers. Plus its easier on the neck muscles.
I love 69, but for the best oral experience, especially for the lady, it's best to let her relax so you can explore all her erogenous zones. Let her connect with her body and RECEIVE.
Since the hobby is about the guys experience, for the most part, it is our fantasy, it's not a huge issue. I like he to lay back, relax, and allow me to explore her as she feels comfortable with.
It's been awhile since I have done it. I like others like to fully concentrate on the girl or her on me. I never thought about sideways. Going to have to give it a go. Though I have many times in the past not once did my partner or me reach orgasm.
hums softly with your dick in her mouth. The sound makes vibrations which you can feel. Stick your finger in your mouth and hum and you'll see what I mean. I know you think I'm fucking with you, but THIS time, I'm on the level. Lol
THAT hmmm is spelled lower case hmmm or Hmmm at the beginning of a sentence. I thought it was the abbreviation for some sort of foursome: Hermaphrodite - Male - Male - Male.
I adore 69 with the right partner. The fit between us has to be good. I find at least for me it's better with someone at least 8 inches shorter than I am. She is where she needs to be and that's far enough forward that I have a comfortable go at her goods with a good neck angle not stuck between her knees looking straight up. It's just distracting enough giving at the same time as receiving that it prolongs my build to orgasm for a LONG time. In 69 it take about as long for me to orgasm as it takes me to get her off. Much of this i think is because my brain is busy doing other things rather than thinking of how good that BBJ feels which gets that close to orgasm tingle there fairly quick and allows it to linger for a LONG time without actually going too far. So for me it feels better for longer and causes longer lasting effects later on. I usually stop her before I cum in 69 cuz I like to fuck and I'm usually a one and done unless we have three hours. But I also find after the session where there was a good 69 session like I described above I still have that tingle for several hours sometime even until I go to sleep than night. Without that 69 session I NEVER get that and in 3 hours I have no lingering tingles. So with the right partner YES!!! but with the wrong partner I can desire getting out of 69 inside of two minutes knowing this isn't going to be one of THOSE 69's
69 was something kids did because they are always short on time in someone else's house
To be frank, any time I am using my mouth I am very excited. DATY, DATO, with face sitting, 69, me kneeling are all always exciting to me. If the lady is also excited, that makes the whole experience wonderful, I am not a good judge because whenever my mouth is giving a lady pleasure I am excited so I need to disqualify my self from voting on this one.