Unproductive? What the hell does he do? Has he cured cancer? Invented the next great thing? Clearly he just resents a woman earning $350 an hour and has to jump on the board to vent his frustration. Or is it that an escort can also be educated that bothers him?

I hear this all the time on my local board...disgruntled men bitching about how much hookers make and that they are losers. Yet they are there wanting their services. It must be a love hate relationship.

There are some providers who so hung up on themselves and conceited that I wouldn't fuck them for free. In the real world we have to tolerate them to a degree, but I sure as hell will not pay money to see them and I can barely tolerate their posts.

We have three different types of stuck up providers. We have the ones who regard themselves as 10's and can spot a mirror 100 yards away. They are not just "too good" for hobbyists, but also their fellow providers.
Then we have the providers who think they are smarter and more educated then everyone else who "grace" us on occasions with long winded posts that they think will impress everyone.
Then we have the delusioned providers who are neither a 10 (or even close), or educated, but think they are both. I can only fault them to a small degree for thinking they are model material, but to pass yourself off as smart and proceed to make stupid posts one after another can be comical.

I would much rather see a hot confident provider who exudes a real down to Earth personality and who does not have a better then thou attitude.

If you were really that intelligent I would be working for you

"Stuck up" is such a really childish way of trying to demean people most of time.

No one has a right to belittle others or attempt to make the person feel less than.

Who here has been made to feel that way by a provider or hobbyist?  I think we all have from time to time.

But I think that thread is less about people who are uppity or have to assert themselves as being better than the next person than just plain and simple professionalism.
Hanging up on someone is rude.  I've done it (because I was frightened) I've had others do it to me presumably because they didn't want to hear what I had to say about screening.  Its not something that I'm proud of and its not something that I ever want to do again.

But why does this have to become yet another battle about "if you were so smart why are you a hooker?"
There are some intelligent women in this business who love it and have thoughts and opinions.  I don't understand why we have to be vilified.

Bad attitudes ruin everything, I don't care how pretty or hot a girl is. If her attitude sucks, she's an ugly person.



-- Modified on 6/1/2012 8:29:04 PM

First of all, why take too seriously what anyone says here about themselves?  Does she have a Masters?  Maybe, maybe not.  Who cares?  Point being, just because she's a hooker doesn't mean she lying any more than it means she's telling the truth.  I don't give a shit.  Doesn't he know we're in FantasyLand here?  What I care about is if she looks like her pictures, performs like her reviews and I can afford to see her.  Everything else?  I could care less.

Similar to me, you could be a genuinely happy person but not have the best written communication skills, and no matter how many smileys or exclamation points you put in your post to illustrate your fun personality, if someone has it stuck in their mind that you are stuck up, they will read your post that way. Personally I am ok with that. My reviews talk about my sweet, jovial personality and I have met some cool providers that I get along with as well. So to me it is not worth stressing about those you have never met from a board that are willing to judge you solely based on written communication.

People will even think you are stuck up based on your ad copy. If you say you do not tour, some people will think you feel you are too good to tour, even if you do not tour because it is not financially feasible for you to do so. Oh, you are “low volume”? You must be stuck up because you are not willing to see several men a week. In reality, you cannot get away from babysitting your dying grandfather but a few times a month. And if you raise your rates, someone will read that as being stuck up too. lol

It’s just text on a hobbyist/provider board. Have fun!



-- Modified on 6/1/2012 11:57:29 PM

One thing I have discovered is it is extremely easy to get people to believe you have an attribute they would see as negative -- that you are dumb, illiterate, poor, whatever.

And stuckup people are even easier to fool that way than most.

I have gone through entire sessions with providers in my "Ah shucks, Ma'am I can barely read" persona and completely had providers buy it.

I used to do that a lot actually, mainly because I wasn't sure what motivations providers might have and I figured it was always safest to be as underestimated as possible. And, like I said, stuck up folks are the easiest to fool that way.

One provider I saw six times before it started to dawn on her that I might not be what I was portraying. LOL

Now to be serious for a moment -- a lot of providers look down on hobbyists and a lot of hobbyists look down on providers. BOTH are looked down upon by large segments of society.

But you know what? We all have to feel good about who and what we are when we look in the mirror in the morning, and that can be really hard when you are out on a margin somewhere. So I don't begrudge people their various ego protections.

There are many flavors of degrees and universities these days. Degrees that prepare you for real world work when you get out and degrees that allows you tell you have a Masters or Doctorate but can’t do a damn thing in real life.

Degrees have lost its value with all of this diploma mills on-line. Some degrees are not worth the paper it is printed.

I've always assumed (perhaps naively) that the ladies I've seen who share such information do so to show that they combine the physical standards so many guys expect with an ability to converse about something other than sex or the business.

I suppose it could also be simple marketing to appeal to a broader range of clients.

Bottom line - People who judge others so simply and harshly amuse me.