I had a crazy incident yesterday when I first arrived to your city. The client was completely given the "okay" by his references, I thoroughly background checked him nothing came up. He seemed completely - okay! So he arrives to my room and quickly starts groping and touching me all over.... Not even a hello, ugh!
So I of course never like to discuss the donation and explain on my website and also before arrival how I would like the donation to be received....
So I don't see him going about the process of placing it anywhere.... I waited what felt like forever and then just straight up said..."Did you put the donation down?"

Sorry you had to go through that in such a beautiful area and thanks for the safety tip

Send me the info please!  

And I have all of his information. Will email you and any other provider his picture, and all info needed since it looks like he likes to change aliases often.  

Thank you. I got the details.  
You are brave and strong.
xo

First it saddens me as a local that this guy actions happens in our city, it gives a bad taste that reflects on most of us here. But going back on topic, you mentioned that you've done your homework, verified his references, P411 okay's, White List and background check, etc and nothing suspicious came up.

Charging more helps .  using your gut instinct and being very picky help, but references will not save you.  Once again, I would never tell another how to run their business, but for me this reference system doesn't work.  I don't know these girls.  I don't know these site owners.  I would be very careful about not being lulled into a false sense of security.

She did what she needed to do but probably now she is much wiser and more careful. She handled the situation very well and now informed the community.  
Everyone is different and have different screening values. I am sure now hers got even stronger. For example, I don't accept agency references or ladies with lover screening values. There is more but it is not the point.
Among the well reviewed ladies with high standard screening values, I have not seen any jealousy. We do love to help one another. It is for the safety for both the ladies and the valued gentleman friends.  

Well I don't want to disagree with you Miss, You've taken the position speaking for the other ladies, which in my experience are not exactly the reality or the same values that you are describing. that's the reason I asked the questions about the screening process. everyone has badmouth or had some kind of opinions about a certain person. Also I can respect that you agree with the gentleman's Oldtimemonger's explanations but NOT me, about a references that was obtained from subpar sources, I don't know where OP lady obtains hers, okay's maybe P411 & TER Whitelist which you claim you don't accept and used and also bothers me when someone quick to judgements and displays an elites status/arrogant comments and designations, categorizing by low end and high end which is not really the issue, IMHO no one is better than anybody here. The question is how much degree of risk you factor in for your safety comes into play when deciding giving some guys a chance if you are already AWARE that a potential clients are BELOW YOUR STANDARDS. All you have to say is, NO WAY MAN I'M SORRY FIND ANOTHER LADY, I'M NOT SEEING YOU period and that's the end of it and everyone moves on.... That's my take...

I am far from being arrogant. I am being safe and want to keep my friends safe.  

OK, again being judgy is not cool dude. Not only the high end ladies has to run their business in a certain way to protect their safety. MY point is, isn't it the ladies JOB to find and verify a reliable references with their own personal STANDARDS and if they FAIL to do those things, they can not go around and BLAME, BLAME, BLAME the agencies, other providers that are NOT really forthcoming or even the freakin jerks like this guy. we are talking about and as far as I know everyone has at least a summarized profiles on record that gives you an indications of OK or REDFLAGS, like the ladies webpages, ads and reviews especially within P411, DateCheck or even TER WhiteList at least you can determined or have an idea to weed out which one you are willing to meet or NOT....

'm honestly not the type to debate back and fourth on these boards. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I'll let you guys have at it. But I figured I'd chime in since I went ghost.  
I personally agree with both Zayla and OTM on the topic discussed.  

Wow, that sucks, sorry to hear that.

I am happy to hear that you are safe and nothing further happened. This is a very unfortunate experience and terrifying indeed. My most sincere apologies that you had to experience this.

I wish I can use more of those devil emoji. OK here we go. I'm still pretty new at this world of social media and in this board, I realized how great it is to be part of this world. It took me a while to embrace this medium, I'm an old school. So wonderful to know though, that we have a community that allows everyone to freely express themselves. Great to be entertained by all these people that participates, but when a topic or a story of bad experiences comes up, that nobody can really vouch for it whether it's true or just made up to draw attention,(yes I'm implying, pls don't parse my word) seems to me everyone tend to trigger some kind of a nerve and most becomes transformed into their personality or close to it, within their handles. Looks like were not having too much sex,sex,sex in this board. Just my observations...he,he,he. starts like this....

I wonder which category you belong to now that you have posted here.
I also wonder why you are using an alias?  

...I'll even throw in an extra angry emoji for your benefit. Please don't specualate that a woman's obviously well intended warning to other Providers was anything but sincere. There's absolutely no reason to think that what she shared with us is BS yet, you feel you have a special insight into this woman in spite of the fact that you've never even met her. A gentleman will always show deference to a lady. You have no information to suggest that anything the OP related was anything less than truthful and, her post was directed toward other Providers so why are you responding to it?! Why am I wasting my time responding to an alias?! I think you should reveal your your TER board handle if you think you have any board credibility.

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I admire your sharp observation 2horsy, genius, I didn't see the humor in all of this, until I put myself in your prospective, now I see the amusements. I don't agree with your harsh characterization of everyone but that's your opinion, but I see your point that we might have been blinded and quick to react to a very sensitive story. And in your point, as you imply and in fairness, if this young lady's story was true. We all have sincerely empathized with her, and that's who we are here in SF, but if she just did it for fun and amusements to kill time, and probably laughing her ass off on her way home, thinking how gullible we are in this region, naming especially our city that no one really questions the validity of her story. How SHOCKING to all of us, that a guy from our city did such a thing. I'm always proud of my city, and its people & reputations, I'm not saying that everybody in the BA are gentlemen but most agree it's a FIRST for me to hear such a thing like this, and got us all involved in a debate and at each other. For her own amusements. Quote: 'I'll let you guys have at it. But I figured I'd chime in since I went ghost'.  

My friend and I had this exact same guy message us - he's blacklisted on several sites! He's a total creep. Thankfully I was able to avoid seeing him; she wasn't so lucky.

when I checked on those sites for him I didn't see his email but after the incident I looked again and saw the same number attached to a different email so yeah; he does this often.  -___-

I couldn't understand wth he was saying. I'm impressed that you could Z. Ha. ♡