I have at least four SD "top rated" TER providers that didn't bother to show, or cancelled at the last minute, or bait and switched or were at least an hour late and then didn't show. All provided the most incredulously stupid excuses for doing this. There are many on that EROS and City Back Page website that don't even respond by phone call, text or e-mail.
Is this the norm? Do you want to know who these Providers are? I have eliminated the excuse of these Providers that it is due to her excess cash flow.In my years of hobbying in San Diego, I've met quite a few local Top 10 gals. Only one (no longer active so why bash her now) was of a flake when it came to cancelling for odd reasons.
I don't even window shop on EROS and that City Backpage website (???) is pretty useless without cross-referencing a review here.
One downside of the provider profiles is that you can't easily tell if she pulls NCNS or late cancellations on a regular basis. If you want to share your info, the boards are your only venue.
I had a provider flake on me today - not necessarily top 10 - but highly reviewed here. Some of the reviews note that she is "late" which I can somewhat deal with because stuff happens... but I drove 30+ miles to her incall, arrived on time and then the excuses began... 4pm appt turns to 4:30 and she'll text me when she's ready, then 5pm... radio silence. Text her that I'm leaving and immediately get text that she has been waiting for me... wait what?? you told me you would text when you are ready... then I get the "I'm sorry"... so frustrating!! -KM-
Sorry for your troubles but please post the names it might save the rest of us from wasting time.
Thanks....
"KM" = Kylie Monroe...
She did that to me twice. Very flakey
There are many factors in why a lady no shows. Excuses I have heard include my sister came to visit unexpectedly, I have a flat tire, (always luved that one), can't find my car keys, phone died or lost phone and fell asleep!! The most common often untold reason by the ladies for no shows is they got a better offer. If John A calls and wants an hour at 3 pm then 10 minutes later John B calls and wants two hours for the same time slot, guess who wins?! It's certainly very poor manners not to text John A with some excuse or even offer to make it up, but many ladies are not wired that way. They don't like conflict and would rather just no show. Keep in mind top performer s get many many calls a day and have the luxury to pick and choose. Very few are that well organized to juggle multiple guys in a day. Curious to know who these ladies are and how the date was confirmed for each.
Totally agree. The greedy will do as you Mentioned. The responsible and business minded will make sure she keeps thier appoitmentv/word.
Perhaps their over booked? Which means Its a sign of being jaded. At this time in the game- i still get excited to meet someone new.
Why would they cancle? Perhaps they don't care. Or maybe it is a serious reason. We don't know what's going on in their world.
But, if you had the opportunity to ask. I'm sure it would be 50/50 that you'll get an honest answer.
Then asker her again in a couple weeks to see if her lie was the same.
Don't you just love psychology? I sure do.
On a positive note. The more I read, the more I appreciate the business men and those that are real...
It's nice to receive their first contact through email. To set up our meeting.
Verses a text at odd hours asking "
are you available"
See , for me that's what sets the men apart, and allows me to book like minded . Rather be safe, and know this man is also excited to meet with me. Verses being a last min choice.
I don't know what or how you men identify if she's responsible, safe, or just doesn't take your time in consideration.
So if you have a list , then share it.
But, these providers don't understand that men talk. If they continue, their business will suffer.
happened to me way too many times. There should be an "accountability" rating on a review for timeliness. I dislike providers who are horrible communicators - I have notice an upward trend in poor communications/bad excuses. I simply do not understand it. Can you please PM these providers so I can spare myself some angst. Thank you.
As I have grown older I value your time as much as I do my own & maybe because this is more of a hobby of mine now. I do not get to play often, so when I do I really enjoy the time I share with my friends. I think when this is a providers everyday job it becomes a chore, and the thrill is gone. I am sure it is easy to get burnt out. Sharing is caring & that is why this is such a wonderful community. I am sure the gents here would love to hear you had no show on you. Sorry that happened to you. Integrity & professionalism is hard to find in any business.
Smile 4 me & make it a great day!
Your Highness:
I will look you up for my next birthday. You have an incredible portfolio plus I want to put you on my "bucket list" for consultation.
Your loyal subject,
C
only on your birthday? That's a novel idea. So the rest of the year, you're a DYI guy, or what? Also, be careful how you use the term "consultation." That's also hobby-speak for "time-waster."
Dee and Daa-bait and switchers
Kylie Monroe-incredulously stupid excuses for being late for the appointment and then canceling after I made her "answer" for her extreme lateness. I had made the appointment 2-3 weeks in advance for an hour and a half. I sent her a picture of the cash I had laid out on my counter for her to see.
Star-no show, no responses to texts and then incredulously juvenile responses to texts after no showing/being late.
Heather Harlow-cancelled at the last minute because of her daughter's dental excuse. I had made the appointment 2-3 weeks in advance.
I have been seeing Heather Harlow 2-3 times a month for the last 3 years, if she canceled on you it was for a legitimate reason!!! she is not a flake and if she says her daughter had a problem then her daughter had a problem! She is the most professional providers around she doesn't cancel just for nor good reason!!!
Dee dee daa daa bait and switch? How so?
I totally agree.
Love the words you used. Exactly , what I was trying to say in my post.
Nice to have you back!!!
Your looks....lol, actually just bad luck. I could give you 5 names right now who would see you sight un seen...but I am bored right now
Finally somebody having the balls to post the truth.
I recently went 0 for 3.
We need a regional MO forum. MO's get penetrated, but guys are more open there.
Donuts (aptly named), do some more reviews and join the Reviewers Only forum.
You have my sympathy. You book really far ahead. Maybe that is the problem. Many girls (or their management) don't want advance planning. They want a sure thing right now.
Good luck in your future hobbying.
I contemplated responding to this with my alias, but Nuts' good example, made me man up.
Also, I just read a very nice review of Ava Grant by Nuts. So stick with her. She delivered.
I know Heather very well for a number of years now. She does have a daughter, she is a mom first, and a great mom too! As she says, she is honest and truthful, she doesn't play games, and as rickr33, and others, have said Heather is one of the most professional woman I know. She works hard on her business, on her body to look absolutely stunning for us guys. It is frustrating to be cancelled on, and us guys do it to our providers at times too. If Heather cancels then it is absolutely for a very legit reason and not to be taken personally. Trust me to say, if you chose Heather initially you made a great choice. If there is a cancelation then simply reschedule and you WILL be very pleased that you did. I plan on seeing Heather as long as she is in this business.
Ugh, I'm having the same problem from the opposite side!!
Yes, we unfortunately have to stay guarded: I would be leery saying things like I'm a mom first for instance. But things like lame excuses, NCNS, doing this on either side for years and still being extremely rude, really makes me question how one could be seen as a "top" hobbyist OR provider.
This has gotten complicated. I can't remember what happened next. What happened after the cancellation? Did she offer to make amends?
> Did she offer to make amends?
There's no evidence in this thread of that happening. I think in the original post naming her it was pretty obvious that she had to cancel for a good reason, whereas the other two were seemingly just flaky.
Having never seen Heather outside of this message board, it seems like she's pretty solid. The biscuits guy is the first to have an issue that I've heard, so it's pretty safe to assume that she's good to go in my book.
Man, stay out of it, if you don't know her. Your white armor is showing.
How about you go through the rest of my board posts and decide if I'm a white night.
Let me know if you need any help removing the hoof from your mouth after you're done.
Big talk. You jumped in to defend her even though you said you didn't know her.
The essence of a WK.
You know I am right but won't pull back. Pathetic.
Plus four reviews in the last year and no white lists. You are a real player.
Well if we're going to have a pissing contest then let's have a fucking pissing contest then!
Yup, I've got 4 reviews, and 475 board posts in the last 10 months or so.
You've been at this for a decade and have barely eked out 250 posts. Also in that 10 years you've only managed 17 reviews.
That's 1.7 reviews a year to my 4 reviews in 10 months, and 25 posts a year to my 475 in 10 months.
Now, back to my original post.
You can think that Heather is as flaky as you'd like, but you've presented no evidence to the contrary. I said very clearly that I'd never met her, but what I've seen around the boards has been positive. I also said that there's nothing in this thread to suggest she tried to make amends.
The only reason I engaged you at all was that you were claiming things were "complicated" and couldn't figure out what the thread said.
Now, you've probably gotten confused by reading my super long post. I'm sorry that I didn't account for you reading at a 3rd grade level. Let me break it down for you:
You post small, I post big. You review small, I review big.
Phi68psi confuse easy and use big word to think smart. Noone think phi68psi smart.
Nah, I just really enjoy a pissing contest when I have a full bladder.
Sounds to me like she should have offered him another slot.
At a discount. 
Sorry to hear that. I would never flake and never "double book." Just want you to know there are some providers who value time being cared for; both yours and theirs.
Some of you guys get pretty sad over missing a roll in the hay. Sure it's a let down, but Jesus get over it. Cancellations will always be a part of this game. If you don't like it, then don't play. Even the most respectful ladies will cancel.
Would you rather her shit on your ego and say "I just got booked for a 5 hour appointment, so I must bail on your blue collar 1 hour booking?"