We should have a section under the reviews for "no-shows" had two dates set with Chassy, she was a no show both times.
I thoroughly agree with you. as I stated in the Anna thread below, I tried to post no-show reports on two different providers and was shut down. I feel there should be a way to warn others of this habbit. It is frustrating, to say the least, to be sitting in a motel room (you paid for) waiting for a provider that you really want to see. Then she does not show up at the appointed time. she does not call you, she does not return your calls.
This has happened to me more than I want to recount. This is why I prefer incall. (However, Anna did incall and left me waiting by the 7-11 for an hour after she knew I was there and said she was on her way to get me. She said her car had been stolen.)
What you are out; TIME from work. The COST of the Motel room. Emotional time spent in anticipatiion. A missed date can cost almost as much in wasted time as the date would have been. AND you are still horny.
No-shows really put a damper on a person's mood, both on the client side when a provider doesn't show and on the provider side if a client does the same.
I'm sure there are valid reasons for no-shows, but if a provider or client shows a pattern of no-shows, there really should be a way to make it known so that future clients or providers have that information when they make decisions to see someone.
For me, I've decided that the best way to minimize the impact of a provider no-show is to go primarily with incall providers. And if a provider is willing to do incall to a hotel, then I always ask that the provider get the room. I realize that they may feel that they are risking a no-show by me, but I hope that they've done enough reference checking on me or know me well enough that if I have a provider get a room, only an extreme emergency would prevent me from showing up. And I'd show the courtesy to call them to let them know.
I know this isn't perfect, but at least I've been able to avoid the disappointment of no-shows for the most part.
BKMan
These threads indicate that information on provider "no-shows" is valuable and should be available to all TER participants, preferably in the searchable database.
I think how reliable a provider is, is as needed as the type of service provided, providers who provide good customer service are a plus, to me good service begins with keeping the date/time arranged.
You think that by going to an incall would minimize being stood up. I got stood up by Anna three times. All on incalls. I got to the 7-11. Waited. Waited. Called. No calls from Anna.
I thought the first time was just an aberration. The second time, I was pissed but stil shit could happen to anyone and she was in a bind and could not call. I gave Anna the benefit of the doubt. But to screw someone like that for the third time. On an incall, supposedly only a block away? I just don't understand. Even then I left a polite message on her VM saying that she should call in the event of an emergency/no-show.
She never called even to apologize. Ever. That, is no manners.
I agree. I wish there was an avenue of alert other hobbysts of a pattern of flakiness by providers. I always call if I can't make it or if I'm running late. It is not that hard to do.
Anna no-showed me twice, once with no explanation and another with a lame one. If she wasn't so f***ing hot I would never have gone back. But, she is and I did for a great time. I don't know if I'll try again with so many other reliable great providers out there especially up in LA. On the other hand if she becomes reliable she could own SD.
The number of hobbyists coming out of the woodwork now with stories of no-show problems with Anna is amazing. How long has this been going on? How come no one said a word about it until very recently. And in answer to a previous comment that a hobbyists only kept trying after a couple of no-shows just because Anna is so hot, how hot can a no-show provider be? You're there waiting all by yourself and she's nowhere in site. That's not even close to my idea of a hot time.
I first heard of Anna through a fellow hobbyist who found her in a yahoo ad. She was charging $.5 at the time. She was very new to the business. This friend set me up with other unknowns and was very reliable with his information. He said that Anna had stood him up as well but to keep trying. Through his insistance I persued her again and again. After being with her I knew what he meant. She was one in a lifetime. I saw her twice after that with no problems.
So to answer your questions. 1) This has been going on with her for as long as she has been in the business. 2) No one said anything because they thought they were an icolated case. 3) I explained my persistance in the above statement. She is "one in a lifetime". If you ever saw her you would know what I am saying.
Their the same guys that will stay the night with a provider that has fallen asleep while he DATY, then while she's still passed out the next morning, takes his money and leaves. Then the other brilliant Hobbyists jump down his throat for taking the money and tell him he should have left instead of spending the night and called another time for an appointment when she was fully coherent....!!!Or the guys who write reviews stating " Her pussy smelled so bad I couldn't eat her for very long." Amazing, abso-F***ing-lutely, Amazing.!!!
I know that we don't need another "second" to this motion, but want to add my two cents on how good an idea this really is ... an idea whose time as cum, so to speak.
I am the victim of three recent no-shows. By the third time, I was so irritated that I got into a real online hissy fit to vent my anger. Wasn't the smartest, most professional or gentlemanly thing to do. A "no show" board - with a flag for repeat offenders - would be a priceless service addition.
hello all it is me chassy i am very sorry to the gentle man whom i did not show up at but i asure you all i am not a flake i do not make a point to do that to people because i have had plenty more than one no show and i totaly know how it ruins the mood and your whole day for that fact of the matter. plaese take me up on my offer to make it up to you, you know who you are so please give me a call so you can have a much better story to tell once agin i am very sorry please give me a call so we may correct the problem
xoxo Chassy
I wasn't the one stood up by you but if I were the one, I would come running back to you...with an apology like yours...Now, that is service!
Chassy and I talked today, we agreed to a new date, so far so good, will keep all informed. I do think she means it when she said she was sick. I'll report back next week after the date.
In my meeting with Chassy, she came across as a nice, sincere gal, so I believe she is genuinely trying to make things right. Kudos to her for responding promptly.
BKMan
Clearly, we all know that stuff happens. All I ever ask for is the courtesy of the other party in apologizing, and some assurance that it won't happen again. The added promise of offerring to go out of one's way to make up for it is certain to get my attention and cause me to give the lady the benefit of the doubt and arrange again to meet her.
The problem is when some ladies get into a general habit of doing this, and they make it clear that they don't value your time anywhere near the degree that they value their own. I absolutely believe that there should be a place for No-shows to be noted. Maybe TER could set-up a database, and whenever some lady started to get reported as having frequent or MULTIPLE no-shows from different potential clients, they could include the info in the lady's review profile.