I hobby occasionally and typically opt for new experiences. The ladies I have seen are iffy at best on returning texts/calls when others contact them as a reference. This has always held me back from seeing some of the ladies I am most interested in.

Hoping this helps

A p411 membership certainly helps. However, being accepted even there without seeing anyone recently may be a problem for u as well. U seem like such a genuine sweetheart!  
My suggestion is 2 see 1 of the many wonderful ladies here that are newbie friendly and ask her if she would be willing 2 b a reference for u.  
U may have 2 jump through some hoops, but it's all about safety 1st. So plz be patient with them. 😊

Best of luck 2 u and stay safe,

Kali Gail xo

You have to be "active" or you run the risk of climbing an uphill battle getting dates on P411. You will get a lot more no replies to requests sent out with an inconsistent and infrequent history. I have found that it's best to not let provider okay's on P411 go longer than 4 months. 3-4 months is fine if you don't hobby all the time, as long as you're consistent thru the year and see someone every 3-4 months. Girls can see your P411 profile (their view of it) and your provider okays. Many ladies that are highly reviewed require you have 2-3 okays to even see them, and if the provider okays are longer than 6 months old, even with 2-3 okays, it will definitely hurt your chances to see highly reviewed girls. You will end up starting over each time you want a date and will be limited to who will take a chance on you. I rarely (if ever) have problems anymore seeing anyone I reach out too since I had become consistent. If that isn't possible for you, its okay, you can still get dates, its just harder and you wont get the best girls. They just dont have to take the risks.

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Hello

I am newbie friendly as I am new to TER as well andneed better reviews :-$