Hello Ms Julia,
It’s probably pointless to try to reply to you because this is now the second time that you’ve misquoted me and assigned beliefs or convictions to me that I don’t share. Did you not read what I said at the end of my last post?
“…As parents, we want the best for our children. I completely agree that I wouldn't actively encourage my daughter to become an escort…” EVER, Julia, NOT JUST AFTER AGE 25 like you—but EVER, for all of the reasons you cited and more. But while I would dissuade her, that doesn’t give me the right to JUDGE her—or you—for exercising her or your free will in an individual decision once she’s become an adult and, unfortunately for you, that’s at the age of 18, not at 25 when you decree that it’s OK.
BL: If your daughter wants to provide at 18, there’s not a damn thing you can do to stop it. She could access porn at the age of 6 online, get birth control through the Middle School nurse WITHOUT your permission at 13, and access to multiple abortions soon thereafter—and you’d have been none the wiser. ALL of those events (and drug use, molestation by an uncle, rape by a boyfriend, yada-yada) can “change her chances at ‘normal’ dating”, Julia. Welcome to the “liberation” of women, sweetheart, and to the The Age of Promiscuity for which your chosen profession—“hooker” you said?—is nearly the Pinnacle Achievement, second only to teenage porn star. Before you demean others no worse than you, perhaps you’d like to take some time away from polishing your Mother-of-the-Year tiara to own your part of the problem? Because even though you serve filet mignon beforehand, you’re still “sucking old dick for Benjamins”—as you so eloquently put it—for dessert, and that’s still illegal.
There is one OTHER thing we can agree on: The number of 40, 50, and 60-something teenagers out there, looking to have sex with someone their daughter’s age. But that’s not the only side of it. There are also plenty of dishonest, diseased, and drug-addicted “ladies” out there—of ALL ages—who are blackmailing those same juvenile “old men” into perpetual housing, money, cars, etc., and just like those naïve 20-something female “victims”, these morons have no one to blame but themselves. NEITHER gender has the market cornered on dishonesty, immaturity, or dysfunction, Julia, and just because you do it "with class" doesn’t mean that it isn’t fraught with inherent dangers for BOTH parties.
I WASN’T AGREEING WITH PACO—I was merely defending his right to parent as his conscience dictates—without your holier-than-thou shame, ridicule, “kicked-in-the-balls” judgments, and endearingly lady-like expletives heaped upon him. The man’s daughter is 20, and has presumably survived her parent’s oversight without your help this far. Go tend to your own daughter and leave our children to the rest of us.
All the best to you,
BigGQinAZ P.S.: …And just for the record, I’ve never called anybody a “hooker”, taken “advantage” of anyone under 25, and the last 4 courtesans I’ve seen were the ages of 36, 41, 32, and 42