Hello everybody,

I need some advice on a session that I had today with one of our phoenix providers.  I am using an alias as I don't want anybody to know who I am just yet (I may use my real name later), and don't want to use her name yet either.  She is a local provider with 8 current reviews mostly with 9's (one 8) for performance and 8-10's for Appearance.

The first 20 min of our session I would rate right in with the other reviews.  She was very sweet, Beautiful, great body, and did all the normal stuff quite well.  After I cleaned up, the next 40 min was just us laying there kissing every once in a while, talking the rest of the time.  I suggested a couple of times that we should go for round 2, but she did not seem interested and kept talking about us not having enough time.  As this was a $$$ session, I guess I expect more.  Am I expecting too much?  After all, she did deliver what was expected, just not as many times as I had hoped for.  She also had booked another appointment immediatly following mine (In fact, she asked me to move mine up a half an hour, which I did).

I feel that I did everything that I could to make the session as good as I could.  I simply feel that after round 1 she was "done".  Other reviews suggest that multiple times are normal.

So, my question is, is it normal for a session to be over in the first 20 min and spend the rest of the time just talking?  Sorry about the long post.

did you see if the provider only allow's one pop, form what you wrote you did most of your homework on her. it happened though & i would submit a review on her telling what you just posted in a review. so other brother TER member will know just by reading your review. maybe she took you, but it is too late now. move on with well know provider such as brook, sedona & sky. for you get what you pay for!!

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I think she thought you recieved what you paid for.  What you pay is not always an indicator or what you recieve.  If you want e mail me at [email protected].  I think you can do better.  I certainly know some ladies who might do better. Donna of course jumps right out at you.  But if you are a youngster under 30 a lot of ladies will not see you.  Happy Hunting.

Rick777, he said he got 20 min.  I hear you only need 10 max.

Actually Donna is one of my absolute favorites.  Part of my problem is that I have now seen two providers that charge $$$ and both of them were less than satisfying.  Every provider that I have seen that charges less than $$$ has been great.  I guess one of the things that I am trying to figure out is if other people are seeing the same thing, or if I have just picked the wrong two people.  I REALLY want to see SkySilverman, but am a bit scared to.......

Sounds like this was specific to your experience with this provider.

Obviously it is not normal for the session to be over in  20 minutes when you pay for an hour.  But you were there for an hour.  When you say other reviews suggest multiple pops, were they for this provider?

I am a little older so I usually take more than 30 minutes to finish which sometimes makes getting a second go around hard but it can be done if both parties want to.  You obviously did but she didn't.  Sometimes the second is just a HJ or BJ, did you indicate you would be happy with that?  Also if you start DATY in a 69 position, that tends to indicate you are expecting something in return. LOL

Phoenix has so many wonderful providers, I would think your best bet is to just move on.  BTW if you reviewed her, I would have a hard time with less than a 7 since you were happy with the first go around.
Just my .02

I have not reviewed her yet, but plan to.  Part of my delima is what to use for the performance number.  As I said in my initial post, the first half hour would easily rate a 9.  The second half hour more like a 3.  She seemed to be very concerned about the second appointment that she had right after mine.  Don't know if this had anything to do with it or not, but she seemed to be really watching the clock (Other reviews of her seem to indicate that she is NOT a clock watcher.

And yes, the other reviews that I was talking about are for this provider.

I want to be fair but honest about what happened.  I guess I sorta feel a little jipped by the whole thing.  Had she even made an attempt, everything would have been fine.

I understand your feelings.If your experience was not what it should have been then you should review it the way it happened.I myself do not book back to back and do not like to feel rushed.Every experience should make you feel like jello in the knees when you leave and  you should be leaving with a smile from ear to ear.To many other providers to play with ummm i mean meet.
   xoxo
  jordan kay

hello Seeker of truth...it sounds like you may have seen me yesterday. But we did not spent the intire time talking..if this is YOU...I massaged you the intire time we where together, asking you if this is what you wanted after we had our fun .I don't even have a clock in my in-call location.
After  we showered together you got excited again... I somewhat time myself  by my massages..and I knew our scheduled time was over by then. I could not meet with you any earlier then we did on short notice..and I suggested maybe we should schedule a 90 minute session,  next time because I really do like to take my time. If clients don't request a massage I would be more then happy to accomadate more then once within the hour...I am sorry I dissapointed you...maybe I can make it up to you another time.You seemed so happy when you left, even said you love to see me again??? In the future whenever you see someone, you may want to voice in adance that you are a super stud muffin and cut out the massage. Starina

If you feel shortchanged in your session then you were, don't over analyze things or try to turn yourself into the bad guy.
You wanted multiple pops, you should have been upfront when booking that you expected multiple pops, but if there was 40 minutes left in an hr session i think she could have been flexible enough to be accomadating to that. I would average the first half and the second half together and give her a 6.

This is getting to be a habit.  I agree with Moe.  If you felt that you did not recieve what you paid for than that is not good.  The average idea is very good.  I think you should as a miminum recieve the ladies full attention for the alloted time especially at the $ you paid.

Slo I mean badpuppy you are bad.  Hell if you read my posts on the national board I would love to take ten minutes.  That would be so cool.  Instead it is hard work.  The ladies usually break out into a sweat and thats before we have sex.  Just the size of my monster makes some of them start to sweat and whine like a badpuppy.

I HAVE SEEN STARINA, SHE IS A VERY NICE PERSON AND AN EXCELLANT PROVIDER AND IF YOU REALLY DID SIT AROUND FOR 40 MINUTES AND TALK IS IT POSSIBLE YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANOTHER POP LEFT IN YOU. FROM EXPERIENCE ALL YOU HAD TO DO IS ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANTED. I DO UNDERSTAND YOU DID GET A MASSAGE SO THERE IS 30 OF YOUR 40 MINUTES AND THE REMAINING 10 IS YOUR BULLSHIT.

I think sometimes guys do not know what they want.  I rarely know and the first time just try to go with the flow.  I know nothing about Starina or Seeker except what I just read.  I think you guys should get togather and try it again.  Since he now knows what he wants and so do you, it should have a happy ending.  But it certainlly sounds like the second half of the session was not the same for Starina as it was for Seeker.  Why?

Hello R.....J...I will never hide...reflecting on our time together and rereading your posts...All that comes to mind and spirit is.."You must be so unhappy and frustrated with some things in your life that you would actually take the time tell lies to hurt another"...All I have to say now is..."Always speak your truth.."TRUTH SEEKER" and you will never be hurt!!! I truly wish you all the best...If you feel you have to tell lies to hurt another go right ahead....cannot stop you..actually I am learning alot from you. Thank you!! Hope your business will florish very soon...remember to be honest and people will be drawn to you always!! Starina

Thank you Rick...your comment made me feel good! I aim to please.. Never just sat there talking until we where already dressed and the hour was way over, I advertise for my massage and that is what I did, after we did...lol...!!!! . Cannot win them all...jeezzzzzzzzz and he seemed so nice and I really liked him..thought there was so much chemistry..oh well, I was wrong!!!!

at $$$ an hr your paying the top end (except for brook, but that lady is in a class alone no one else can command her rates)you shouldn't feel as if you didn't get your money's worth. It may be ymmv here but i get the impression it wasn't and i hope you do post a public review so we can know exactly who we are discussing.

RICK, HOW DO YOU KNOW SO MUCH WHEN THE TER LIST SHOW'S THAT YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ONLY SEVEN PROVIDER'S?? NONE OF THE HIGH RATED PROVIDER'S SUCH AS BROOKE, SEDONA, & SKY!!

Starina, sorry about all this.  I know you are a good and very sexy person and please don't think this is what Phoenix is all about.  It happens from time to time but most of us are much more respectful.  Best of Luck.

SlowStart

why are you attacking a hobbyist with an alias? if your going to flame someone be honest and proclaim who you are.

how dare you imply some elses opinion is less worthy than one from your "lofty" height of twenty reviews? What exactly has rick, I, or anyone else done to incur your invective? from where i sit, your just another internet dictator trying to quell someone elses opinion that you don't agree with. In other words quit screaming (all caps is just tacky imo)

GOaT

Foxy, I have seen you, and that is pretty much how I left!

I will be posting a review as soon as I have a chance to.  The provider that I am talking about is Ashley (I think that she is currently on page 4 of PHX reviews).  I thank everybody for the advice and will need to process it for a couple of days.  I want to be fair but as accurate as possible.

Thanks everybody!

Wow 20 reviews you are the man.  This may surprise you but the women I have seen I have really liked.  Everyone has thier own opnion on women and I suppose we just might have diffrent tastes.  This make come as a surprise to you but I have seen a few women I can't review because they don't have a picture posted on the internet.  Thanks Moe I am just a regular guy and I just see regular girls.  Oh chgodude if you call the ones I have posted they all know me by this handle.  I wonder how many of yours know you?

rick 777,
keep an eye on the next post to the 20. which does not include all the provider's i have seen also. un-like you sometime's you have to try on a bunch of shoe's before you find the one's that fit's!!
keep a eye out for my review of jodie moore. jodie & i keep in touch with each other almost every week. she is one of the sweetest women i have ever met!! if you think this is b.s. just ask "stunning sky"!!