Hi. A provider friend has asked me to post this thread anonymously. So much can go wrong online, and crafting an image is so important. She discusses things with me that sometimes I don't have answers for.  My thought was to put out a thread and see what this community thinks.

Here is her note:  
Hello all:  
I've had ideas for special events for many reasons.  I'd love to hear your (kind) thoughts.  
My concern is that so many of you seem so very "funny" about the idea that I see other clients...as if you are my one and only.   I don't wish to impact my image in a negative way.  

IDEAS FOR EVENTS:

1. A Meet-n-Greet at a bar near my location.  Many of you are skittish, worried if I'm real, if it's safe, etc. I thought to do an occasional "Happy Hour" at a local bar-restaurant that is discrete (no one knows me there) where a few of us can meet at a quiet side bar.  This offers the opportunity to at least meet me first and see that I'm real, experience my personality, and have an interaction. i'm outgoing, extroverted, and It sounds like fun!    
My concern: Will you guys have a problem if several potential clients are there to meet me as well? I will be offering this as a free social event.

2. A Casino Weekend:  My hours to be available are typically limited. I thought to take an entire weekend at a casino/resort and be available for those of you who wish late nights, early mornings, long or short stays, anything goes. I do have a "partner" in this business.  He is my webmaster, adviser, sometimes driver, and all around good company, plus security.  He is not my husband or boyfriend.  If I were to do a Casino Weekend, I want him there just for my peace of mind and safety.  My thoughts are to have a blast for a weekend!  Take calls while on the casino floor, "Hi!  Meet me at table 6!"  and/or to meet clients at a discrete table at a side bar with my friend.  After some small talk, I'll go up to the room, you can follow 5 minutes later.    
Again, my concern is that so many of you guys are so skittish if my driver is there downstairs with me. What do you think?  It sounds like so much fun, but I don't want to do it alone. Plus I'll be available for all of the midnight/2am people who want to meet me.

3.  A Football Party at my private incall location.  I have an idea for a party for five or so at a deeply discounted rate. I'll wear a French maid's outfit, serve beers on a tray, and serve up whatever each would like.    It sounds hot to me and fun!    
But once again, clients are soo skittish about other men. I don't get it. I can't tell you how many times I've been asked, "Am I your first of the day?" Umm...maybe.  But maybe not.  
 
What do you think?  Would any of you be interested?  Will I ruin my image if I post such an event on my website?

4.  Other Special nights: An outfit, a wet-T-shirt night, etc.

5. What thoughts do you have on Events?

Thanks!