When you leave a review anymore it's more of a pain in the butt. Providers or agency contact you to try and get you to change your score cause it's hurting providers tour. Well I've been in hobby for awhile. I leave a fair review if it's earned and good ones when earned. I've recently been contacted by 2 people I've seen that kinda try and get me to change my score higher. One of the scores left was not even that bad. If a lady advertisers full gfe and does not provide that service when you show up or not even like your pictures and you end a session 15 minutes early. What kinda score do you girls expect to be left? 8 and up? Not a chance. Does anyone else have these issues being contacted after reviews are left? Starting to not want to leave any and starting not to believe scores cause how do we know what ones are being true anymore to be system we have here at TER? Just down right frustrating I feel as a hobbyist I shouldn't have to answer to these things.
Ive seen some of the girls youve reviewed and dont agree with some of the reviews. As always ymmv but after reading more and more of your reviews you seem like a jerk that dont treat women with respect... cant blame a girl for cutting the date short on you...
Lol yeah after your comment we all are wondering who the real jerk off is.
ok boys lets keep it clean ... I have not had this happen to me but I have (no name mentionsed) providers refuse to see me because my reviews were not all 9 or 10 and if you want to know who pm me ok
First sorry it is getting tougher for you with the review process. Deep breathe and remember it is helpful for you in terms of making a safe choice prior to meeting someone new and an opportunity to flatter your previous date. Also to let other gents know if there were any glitches along the way. Do remember that sometimes it all boils down to chemistry. A consistent score record to some degree let's you know the openness of both parties and the desire to please and be pleased.
Some ladies get trapped in the numbers...why? Because the gents get stuck there too instead of really understanding that the performance and experience is not always well represented by the number. Certain areas of the country see the numbers in different ways- why do I know that? Because I speak with the ladies and they discuss it. I am cool with 7 and up. Less than that I need to take a look at what happened...check in with myself. Was I on my A-game or distracted by something in my world or with you? How could I have improved ? And yes, was the gent overly harsh...sought me out for the experience he thought he wanted and then preferred a 20something appearance with the wisdom and smoldering sexiness of a more mature woman? Did the scoring reflect something like that? ...I have no control over any of that stuff so no need to over think it.
The other thing that is going on is that the gents reviewing often do not go back to see what scores come up so they have no idea how it made the lady feel. So I do think some women may hit you back up to be assertive to ask you to take a look at your review and see if it reflected your true opinion. If it did, we'll be true to yourself and say that you feel ok with your review. If it does not, let her know that and see if you can adjust it. It is your call at the end of the day. No need to get overly emotional about that. Indeed there are circumstances that make a prosepective new friend get turned down due to consistent low scoring and general dissatisfaction displayed in reviews. Also if the description of the meeting is done in a manner that is not classy- whether good or bad- will influence the initial online attraction to accept or not accept a date with someone. This is life. We are fortunate to choose who we see...you want to make sure the fit has potential chemistry.
I don't see why you would see anyone you didn't view as a 9 or 10 in appearance.
As for performance and chemistry, I firmly believe that you look in the mirror every single time. What you put into a date is largely what you get out of it. I don't have dates below 8 performance or with poor chemistry.
So writing reviews for me is no issue with "low score" complaints. Moreover, I hate writing them and have more of an issue of being pressured into writing them.