Be objective in your reviews; think about what the typical guy would rate them. Reviews are meant to give potential clients an idea on how a lady looks in person. Rating someone a 9 or 10 in looks when they are actually a 4 or 5 does not help and leads to major disappointment. There have been a few times when I've seen ladies while they do their day to day things and I remember their rating here and think, 'there is no way see is as attractive as she is rated on TER'.
So again, be objective.Just know two things; beauty is subjective, and ladies will stop seeing you if you score other ladies lower than they think you should. They do not want those scores subjected onto them because it genuinely hurts their business. It is why I have, for the most part, stopped reviewing - I hate putting a number on a person.
I hear you, to a point. Everyone does have their own likes but beauty is not really that subjective. You may have a great time with a lady and that plus her personality makes her a 10, but if she's a 4 she's a four.
As I said, it's not being malicious (I've had very very cute chicks give me shit service; I still score looks appropriately) it's about setting an expectation.
So, what's a 4 to you? Can you share examples?
TER #s 193533 and 321539 come to mind
So, what's a 4 to you? Can you share examples?
I think that you are relying too much on scores and not doing enough of your own homework. Research the girl, try to connect with her, and see if you hit it off well. Reading a review of someone from an online forum means nothing. Reviews are based on personal perception and it doesn't mean that you will get the same results.
I also noticed that the examples you provided did not have good photos of themselves. If looks are important to you, go for providers who post multiple photos of themselves so that you get an accurate perception of their physical appearance.
Because that would send me over the edge
Is anyone going to come forth with examples? I wouldn't touch that for anything!!
Congo find your girls? You have a lot of ratings in the 4-6 range, couple sevens and a couple twos.
Maybe you need to start looking in other places. You have 50 reviews but do not seem very happy with your selections.
Yes I have some 9's and 10's (imho) but also some fives and less. I try to stick with what I know and only deviate when I "must?"
Peace
Everyone has their own opinions on looks what you may consider a 9/10 in someone else's eyes they are 4/5 & vise versa... i
Reviews are meant to be objective.
I think that you are missing her point. Objective on whose scale? This is not the Miss America pageant. I made the mistake that you are making right now in my past, and was informed as to what it does to the ladies in question. I was shocked to find out how some people really hinge a decision on these numbers. It is not right. I wish that I could go back and change my scores. One of the best times I have ever had was with a lady that will not see me because I scored low on looks. My loss, not hers. This is a business for these women. Hurting their business on a number that I truly think is arbitrary and subjective is not right. A physical description to find your correct fit is fine, but I wish TER would remove the number criteria. I learned my lesson and I am trying to help you not make the same mistake that I did.
If a female that you see stops seeing you because your were being honest, that's her problem not yours. You say it's a business; it goes both ways. The client, who is spending he hard earned money based on ratings provided by others, should know if he's really going to visit someone that is a actually a 7, 8, or (rarely) a 9 or 10 versus someone that is not even close. That's not being mean or arbitrary; that's being honest.
Don't rely on reviews to find what you want. I go through the same experience when shopping for high end clothing for myself. The product reviews are stellar but I face major disappointment when my package arrives. Why? I have a picky taste in style and I dislike fabrics that do not groove with my body type. What fits well and looks well for someone else is going to be different for me no matter how cashmere it is. Get it?