from guys who are busy when you do actually visit the place they say so many want to see you lol. I don't get an attitude, I have an auto response. Have you any idea of how many bs, spam, and retarded emails a provider gets on a daily basis? If we spent time answering all the ones that never amount to anything we would be doing more typing than fkin.
1. I would think letting a provider know that there are some guys that want to see her would make it easier to decide where to go.
2. Most girls don't update their calenders.
3. You can actually tell alot about a girl from her reply.
If you get an attitude about a single email. It's probably not going to be the greatest session.
I have had many gents plan to be in my town to see me and some drive there, but they are few and far between. The guys who are truly serious about wanting to see a girl will flat out make it happen...the others, need not bother asking when she will be in town because it's simply of no relevance.
I normally get guys from 2 or 3 hours away driving in when I visit certain cities that are close to them. If I go to Memphis, I always get guys from Jackson and Arkansas driving in, and the same with Panama City and Pensacola.
... to expand the menu
If there was a woman that you really wanted to see.
Would you drive from Cincy to Cbus or vice verse?
Would you be willing to share her airfare & hotel expense?
in general. So many guys send random emails asking "When will you be in such and such" and it really would not matter when we are there because I can guarantee 99 percent of the guys asking would be "busy, out of town, or broke" when we decided to show up. It's a pointless question unless the guy is willing to fly you there to see only him, and that of course rarely happens.
I have had many gents plan to be in my town to see me and some drive there, but they are few and far between. The guys who are truly serious about wanting to see a girl will flat out make it happen...the others, need not bother asking when she will be in town because it's simply of no relevance.
I normally get guys from 2 or 3 hours away driving in when I visit certain cities that are close to them. If I go to Memphis, I always get guys from Jackson and Arkansas driving in, and the same with Panama City and Pensacola.
I agree, expand your horizons. (guys)
Ohio is a large state, with plenty of sexy ladies!!
There are plenty of areas where I consider any drive under 4 hours to be "commuting distance" to see a lady I want to see. I know some guys who think anything over 15 minutes is too much effort--they certainly limit their selection by thinking that way. Cincinnati to Cleveland really isn't that far to see the right lady. I've done DC to NYC at times and other similar distances. Several times when I lady found out I drove that far just to see a lady she decided to ensure I drove back thinking the effort was worthwhile.
London, I will disagree with one part of what you said: since I do not always control where I travel to, I do ask some of my favorite dates to let me know when they will be traveling so I can see if I will be close enough to see them. Our travels do not often intersect, but when they do it is a very pleasant present for me.
visit lol. That's the difference. I am talking about random guys I know nothing about simply emaiiling out of the blue to ask me when I will be in Cali lol. Can you imagine if we had to answer all those pointless emails? We have a schedule, a calendar, ads, etc. that very well let guys know where we will be and when...reading goes a long way.
If my calendar says I am in TN and some guy who has not even bothered to look emails me asking if I "might happen to be in St. Louis" that week, wtf, where on earth would he even get the bloody notion that I just might happen to be there if there is no ad placed and it is clearly stated I am in TN...grrr. The way I see it, is if a guy can't read such a simple thing, I doubt he read the important things like what I will and will not do.
You expect me to READ!?!
Next thing I know you will want me to COUNT as well! If we do that we will not have an excuse for shortchanging the fee.
This is getting out of hand. If we do not stop this foolishness you will expect us to tell time, remember how to wash our face, and stop thinking of McDonalds as fancy dinner date location.
Unreasonable I tell you! Completely unreasonable! 
If my calendar says I am in TN and some guy who has not even bothered to look emails me asking if I "might happen to be in St. Louis" that week, wtf, where on earth would he even get the bloody notion that I just might happen to be there if there is no ad placed and it is clearly stated I am in TN...grrr. The way I see it, is if a guy can't read such a simple thing, I doubt he read the important things like what I will and will not do.
Guilty as charged. If I see someone that intrigues me, I will send an email to ask if a girl would consider coming to Columbus and mention that I know a couple of other guys who will also take an appt. If a provider has a calender and it's completely full I don't bother. But here is why I do it.
1. I would think letting a provider know that there are some guys that want to see her would make it easier to decide where to go.
2. Most girls don't update their calenders.
3. You can actually tell alot about a girl from her reply.
If you get an attitude about a single email. It's probably not going to be the greatest session.
I have had many gents plan to be in my town to see me and some drive there, but they are few and far between. The guys who are truly serious about wanting to see a girl will flat out make it happen...the others, need not bother asking when she will be in town because it's simply of no relevance.
I normally get guys from 2 or 3 hours away driving in when I visit certain cities that are close to them. If I go to Memphis, I always get guys from Jackson and Arkansas driving in, and the same with Panama City and Pensacola.
Yep, attitude is everything to me.
Besides, why would ya wanna, cut off the hand that feeds you?
Sooner or later, if ya got a bad Tude, the word is gonna spread....not so good for biz!! IMHO.
from guys who are busy when you do actually visit the place they say so many want to see you lol. I don't get an attitude, I have an auto response. Have you any idea of how many bs, spam, and retarded emails a provider gets on a daily basis? If we spent time answering all the ones that never amount to anything we would be doing more typing than fkin.
1. I would think letting a provider know that there are some guys that want to see her would make it easier to decide where to go.
2. Most girls don't update their calenders.
3. You can actually tell alot about a girl from her reply.
If you get an attitude about a single email. It's probably not going to be the greatest session.
I have had many gents plan to be in my town to see me and some drive there, but they are few and far between. The guys who are truly serious about wanting to see a girl will flat out make it happen...the others, need not bother asking when she will be in town because it's simply of no relevance.
I normally get guys from 2 or 3 hours away driving in when I visit certain cities that are close to them. If I go to Memphis, I always get guys from Jackson and Arkansas driving in, and the same with Panama City and Pensacola.
Seduce,
I agree with you 100%!
That's why after a few no so pleasant experiences (attitude-wise) from out of town providers that have come through the Columbus area, I have stopped seeing any non-Columbus ladies.
You mentioned "attitude", yes, I have gotten those kinds of responses over the years from those out of town providers who think that others are supposed to give them a silver platter when they arrive at their own town.
There are plenty of wonderful Columbus area ladies that I see to the point that I don't bother seeing any ads for out of town providers.
Just my 3 cents...
Serpius
1. I would think letting a provider know that there are some guys that want to see her would make it easier to decide where to go.
2. Most girls don't update their calenders.
3. You can actually tell alot about a girl from her reply.
If you get an attitude about a single email. It's probably not going to be the greatest session.
There are more quality ladies in the area that you guys just don't give a chance. So many times I see guys on this board complaining about the lack of quality ladies there are here, but when I look at their reviews all of the ladies they see fit a very similar description (i.e. race, weight, age, price, etc.). Some of you might find that the talent that you are looking for is right under your nose, just in a different package.
Eve,
Completely agree with you. If I wanted to see the same kind of lady over and over I would probably just see the same lady over and over. There are many lovely women out there, though all cities ebb and flow.
O-T
Some of us are perfectly comfortable "sticking with" 1 provider or a smaller number. I "started" in all of this after a failed marriage and a particular dry spot in my dating life. I can across an absolutely gorgeous young redhead here in Columbus and have seen her nearly 100 times over is the past 2+ years and don't think I care to see anyone else as Nikki is more than enough for me. Besides the "comfort" that exists between us I certainly NEVER worry about LE either.
So when Eva says what she does I have to agree; with her and several of the other women available with the reviews I have read here, there are 5-6 top flight women here in Columbus, present company included. I don't believe Ohio is devoid of good women, as I see plenty if I were more adventurous.
So Why do I see my favorite redhead so much???? And why just her??? Because she is a doll and THAT good and Because I figure if she is busy here, she's less likely to want to tour and stay here in Columbus. Lol
In no way was I saying anything against having a single special lady. I have known my ATF for over a decade and lost count long, long ago how manytimes I've seen her. I can very much empathize with your decision--I was trying to say (poorly) that if a guy is looking to meet someoen new and he keeps his mind open to tall/short/20-something/30-something/blondes/brunettes/etc he has a better chance of success than if he only sees one 5'6" 134 lb 28.3 y/o bald ldy after another. I agree with you, when you find someone you are extatic about being with there is little reason to look elsewhere.
And that is the way I took you; no worries. I think my point is that when I see guys griping about ''poor selection'' esp here in Cols I just shake my head. Besides Eva (who started this part of the string), there is Jane Monterrey, Summer Daze(?sp) Natasha Ryan, and of course Nikki Haven.
I ''know'' of these bc of the reviews put in by others. And that confirms Eva's point; there are plenty of fine women in the CMH area. And all 5 score well; and Nikki is a TER top 100, here in Cols.
I see her for reasons already stated and because she is so good to me in a way no ''new person'' can be and the familiarity makes it great. And I find myself ''monogamous'' again and loving it. lol
Thank you for the shout out! 
Jane no thanks necessary; we've never met but anyone that can read can figure out what I said. Just pointing out the obvious.... I am going to get a mega millions ticket, I want to win so IO can see if I can tie up one of your friends for a long time.... lol
Good for you man, glad you enjoy her!
If it's the Nikki i'm thinking of, wise choice, she is beautiful.
I have pretty much come to the realization that things around here, especially Cincinnati and Dayton are what they are as far as lack of big city selection as far as looks and performance and that nothing is going to make it better in the long term. The efforts of a few I have observed might make things better for a weekend but that's about it.
Take a couple weeks away from the fruitless search for something good at the end of the tunnel (i.e. browsing though the same lackluster selection) and you will be surprised how much it won't even come to mind except now and then. Get lost in your work and just bank the $$$ until the rare occasion when a good prospect comes around.
I am definatly interested in seeing a high profile PS if one ever comes around here - the lack of selection and the benefit that has made on my expendable bankroll would make it to where dropping 2K on Briana Banks would not be an issue anymore. One would say, well you could have all kinds of fun 4 or 5 times over with that - yeah right, you only see 4 or 5 girls come through here over a six month period..lol
Regular hobbying in this area went the way of the dodo when Miami Companions got shut down, I was hobbying once or twice a week back then.