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True GFE in Columbus? Confessions of a hobbyist....sad_smile
lothar33 2 Reviews 1925 reads
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I am an occasional hobbyist of almost 10 years, lately finding myself unfulfilled.  I think I can sum up what I am missing as a lack of "Lovin" with the "lovin" I am getting.  Is it wrong to expect a little connection to go with the mechanics?  To me, GFE means just that - to be my GF for an hour or two.  I want to be undressed and have the pleasure of undressing you - it builds anticipation and excitement (IMO).  I want the passionate kissing throughout our time together (even when we say goodbye and part ways).  Maybe I am not communicating my needs well enough, and expect you to just do it, but it kills the mood for me if I have to ask - how do I manage this dilemma?  I want to feel like you are into me and want me; I know I am not the man of your dreams, but not grotesque,  either.  

Am I being unrealistic?  Stupid?  Whiny :)  ?

I don't think you're being unrealistic. You're seeking a girlfriend experience, and although it varies provider to provider, the gist of it is the the feeling you're describing you want. If one is advertising as GFE, they should make you feel like they are indeed your loving girlfriend. Maybe you're just seeing the wrong people?

Unrealistic? Nope
Stupid? Nope
Whiny? Nope

Ya just haven't met the right one yet.  As long as your personal hygiene is great and your body is responsive to the touch, GFE is the very bare minimum you should be getting unless you've been visiting an over glorified glory hole at your local truck stop.  Research really is the key, maybe try a girl your attracted to with great reviews you normally wouldn't see - I think she may really surprise you in a girlfriend experience kind of way.

xoxo
Roxie

And no, your expectations are not unrealistic.

My best dates are those where we do establish a connection, and reading alot of reviews provides a framework of reasonable expectations.

Also ask other hobbyists questions about Ladies who have your interest.  They can give you info not posted in Reviews.

RocketMan

GFE is a different thing to diff guys. Just read the reviews to see that. Although I agree with your basic idea,  it is an illusive thing to achieve. Think about it: How difficult would it be to 'simulate' a GF relationship with a stranger? I've found a few that can make it seem so on a first date but realistically I think you need to build the relationship over several visits to get to that point. When you find it, cherish it!

And curl your toes with PSE....

Kali is my newest ATF.

She is a beautiful woman and an even better person.

I highly recommend you check her out.

She just posted an Ohio ad.

RocketMan

I agree with IrresistiblyIvy. GFE means something different for providers but only the right girl will give you a true GFE experience. There is also the personal comfort level that might throw things off. For me, I can be GFE with a guy who I feel safe with. If he is clean, sweet, and we laugh and giggle together I know that it's on. I shutdown if a guy rushes things or gets gropey without me feeling comfortable enough for him to be playful with me. The moment that I start feeling like a price of red meat to him I cut it off. That usually happens during the first few seconds of booking anyway which is good because I can choose not to see them. Then I don't have to worry about experiencing those awkward moments.

I completely agree with Sasha! She's right...a connection and that chemistry has to be there or there is no way it can be a completely amazing experience. If it doesn't exist then what's the point? It's just a waste of $ for the guy and time for both. Not worth doing if it's not done right! Now that's 1 smart girl who gets it! Ty Sasha for pointing out how it should be. 😄

Very well Said. I always wondered how can a girl can give GFE to all the guys she meet. Your explanation is the right answer and it depends on many factors.

You need such as I am  
It is why I am a 10 even if I am not a blond with DDD s
Love is all we need and I have plenty of that..  
Sex? Just sex? Just sex is nothing. Porno become boring in 30 min - after orgasm is reached  
Yet our souls our minds all our existence craving,craving for love as it is ONLY one way to keep soul and mind and body healthy happy and gives chemistry  
Love - ability to love - it is a talent  
Of course there is other talents here as anal oral etc. But those talents are not rare in adult world  
Yet so many nice nice nice gentlemen in states and out of states are "prisoners" of their families and style of life. Many just dying spiritually from unhappiness and not satisfaction their needs and physical and spiritual... coming here to this area @ 4 @.  
 And again are used  
So many women promised you to make you HAPPY while even not asking your real name and not looking in to your eyes keeping her own heart close from you not letting you even a bit to pick to who she is.. just leading you to her between legs..  
Making you a pig  
You are not pigs gentlemen by yourself  
It is someone makes you to be unhappy and feel sorry and control you and use you without giving you even chance to be a living human with all those feelings

You need a Russian woman as I am  
Not from new Russians.  
That is why I have been told I can be a billionaire  
But I am not hunting gold  
I am after life - I know - I will die with no love  
I gave it and I have it back  
You need russian woman  

 
 

Posted By: lothar33
I am an occasional hobbyist of almost 10 years, lately finding myself unfulfilled.  I think I can sum up what I am missing as a lack of "Lovin" with the "lovin" I am getting.  Is it wrong to expect a little connection to go with the mechanics?  To me, GFE means just that - to be my GF for an hour or two.  I want to be undressed and have the pleasure of undressing you - it builds anticipation and excitement (IMO).  I want the passionate kissing throughout our time together (even when we say goodbye and part ways).  Maybe I am not communicating my needs well enough, and expect you to just do it, but it kills the mood for me if I have to ask - how do I manage this dilemma?  I want to feel like you are into me and want me; I know I am not the man of your dreams, but not grotesque,  either.    
   
 Am I being unrealistic?  Stupid?  Whiny :)  ?

...and I am returning home to Ohio next week! Please feel free to look at my reviews and get in touch!

You are not being unrealistic or stupid, just haven't found a provider you've clicked with yet. If you have a VIP account, searching reviews for a "true GFE" might help you find what you want.

And I hate to toot my own horn, but that has been said about me, so I invite you to have a look at my website. Perhaps I could provide you with the experience you're looking for :)

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