Somehow, I have always had the idea that "a gentleman never tells." This inhibits me from writing a review because I feel it could be an insult to the lady. I've only done it once and I felt funny about it. But I wonder, do the ladies really mind or do they consider it a compliment?
If you want to compliment her, write an honest accurate review.
Much as the guys hate to think about it, we are not dating these ladies and they are not our girlfriends. They are businesses that live and die on word of mouth and reviews.
No reviews or bad reviews hurt business, good reviews and a steady flow of reviews helps the business...plain and simple.
Also, your legitimacy as a client is also enhanced by the ladies you have seen and reviewed.
Best of Luck and Happy Hobbying!
And in fact will ask that you not write a review, even a good one.
I beg to differ Terrev. I have been in business for 5 years and never had a review (because I don't allow them) and never had a problem getting or keeping business and have always had a steady flow of great gentlemen.
Despite all our illusions of passion and romance, its all business in the final analyssis. To NOT review a bad provider is doing the other gentlemen a disservice. To not review a GOOD provider is not helping the lady in her chosen profession.
MVR
write a review, good/bad or indifferent. The system is set up for us to read about providers, and providers to reach hobbyists through great reviews. I cannot express how frustrating it is to not be able to find a well-reviewed (or recently reviewed) provider in my searches. The more reviews, the more business a provider might get!
Some don't want them. Even though they are for entertainment purposes only as we all know, cops do use them as pseudo evidence against them at times.
For this reason, it can be wise (ironically) NOT to link to reviews on your website, or send them as links to un-verified gentlemen who ask (If they ask about TER reviews, you can always just say "yes" and leave it at that). Of course, it depends on your level of paranoia
If you found the lady here on TER and she has reviews I would say definitely write one for all of the reasons that others have mentioned.
If, for some reason she is UTR and does not want reviews than of course you should comply. When in doubt simply ask her.
Ask politely, see what the lady says. Read other reviews to possibly find a style of review you like. Then add your own style. You don't have to be so graphic it comes off like a sex manual.
I did not write a review on my first encounter with a provider, since the session did not go as well as I would have liked due to my newbie nervousness.
I have written reviews for the last three providers that I saw to document and preserve my memories and feelings of the sessions. The TER days are a bonus.
I had a great time on all three occasions, and I had no problems writing the reviews, complimenting and recommending the ladies who gave me so much pleasure.
Im assuming you chose to see the provider(s) based on what others have written in THEIR review.
So..lets say noone ever wrote a review on anyone. How often would you choose to see someone off blind knowledge??
I bet not that often.
Reviews are (I think) the main reason someone calls a provider. Without them...well, there wouldnt be a hobby probably.
Yes, Please do.
This is a very useful and positive way for us to build solid relationships.
~~Raquel