their verification service and for their "newbie friendly" search ability.

It is generally true that more mature providers (30 or so and up) are better at providing a GFE experience, especially for newbies. However I have enjoyed great sessions with providers in their 20's and even one great session with a girl who was 19 (I was 54 at the time).

So long as your envelope is correct and you practice good hygiene and treat the provider with respect, you will have a great time in this candy land.

Another advantage of P411 is that you can search for providers that are "senior friendly," though P411 defines seniors as 65+ years of age.

Some providers, especially those who are young and also new to the profession, may not appreciate an older client. Fortunately, most providers with some experience actually prefer older clients, as the younger clients can be more difficult.

I have been with both mature and younger providers, and each have their merits. Mature providers tend to have better skills, which is especially useful for handling an unreliable erection or going for a second or even third shot on the goal. Mature providers are also often better conversationalists. Younger providers are usually easier on the eyes, and seem less jaded about their job.

and I think of 25 year old providers as "older" I have ZERO issues being with women 40 years younger than me, and apparently they have no issues being with me.  

 
To tell the truth, you are right in the "sweet spot" as a client, but if it bothers you and you feel self conscious about it, perhaps you could see a woman slightly older than her early twenties to help you get over your "first time" jitters.

 
I know a lot of "old guys" think that the older providers provide them with a better experience, but I feel the exact opposite, I am rarely turned on by any women much older than their mid 30's and I don't see why in the world I would pay to be with a woman that doesn't turn me on. I feel VERY comfortable with the younger girls and they seem to be very comfortable with me. Most of them have no issue even being seen out in public with me.  

 
I would advise, if your "little head" is telling you to see younger provider, your "big head" should listen. lol

for a male. Although I'm a bit bias. Go with a very old stage 5 hooker for the first time at age 60 and work your way down to the younger stage one, two, three or possibly stage four hookers within a month or two. Go all out.

(Make sure they have a minimum of twenty reviews for the very first time with a couple from seasoned mongers).

Have fun old timer 😎

you are only as old as you feel, or as Groucho Marx once said:  the woman you feel.  8o)

 
I'm not sure if a lot of 20 something gals will refuse to see guys in their 60s, but I know a lot will.   There is much more (justified) resistance to seeing guys in their 20s, for example.

 
As long as your health is good, and you have the cash, you will be fine.

It’s in the general boards drop down. Lots of geezers posting on it, including myself.

I had similar thoughts when transitioning into pay for play.  We're still in the dating mindset where we evaluate our own qualities and compatibilities as well as our prospective date's.     But that's really not necessary.   A sex worker is going to be attracted to whatever type she is attracted to, young or old.  Beyond that she is happy for the business if the client is pleasant and clean.  Be pleasant and clean and she'll invite you back for more.  If she won't accept older gents she just won't book the date.  If she books, you're golden.

For me..I adore older gentlemen. Let's face it, usually more attentive lovers, generous and don't have hang ups.. I think the same goes for older providers but that's just my humble opinion. I know for a fact I am way more confident and a better lover now than I was at 21.  As for the provider...I think that is based off the reviews. I do believe there are plenty of great younger women who would love a date with you.  

Just relax and have fun and don't be to nervous.

...with providers from age 27 to age 43. The 27-year old was not on my radar but we met at a local Meet & Greet and just hit it off -- had 3 sessions over the next few months. I generally keep my radar tuned to mid-30s and up, but I keep an open mind and a dick willing to be convinced

The woman at age 43 is simply the best combination of hot MILF-type PSE that I have encountered in 25+ years of (off & on) p4p play -- we've spent 15+ hours together this year and I'm simply amazed at how good it is. There's something to be said for experience and enthusiasm, especially on behalf of both parties involved.

...the simplest way to handle this is to state your age in your intro e mail.  I do this every time, and get ignored maybe 1 out of 10 times.  The best way to avoid being seen as a pathetic old dude, is to to not think of yourself that way.  And for sure not to act like one.  I have not once been made to feel pathetic, so if that is how I am viewed, and I don’t know it, then all is good.  

While the more experienced women in general provide a better experience in my case, there are all kinds of exceptions in the 21-25 crowd.   I would stop worrying about it, and just go for it.