So I booked a session with a very well reviewed, top rated provider in one of the major cities. A few suspicious thing before the session, she didn't ask for my reference, says will see me right away, and we just set the time of appointment and all that.
We were exchanging text messages prior to our meeting, she seemed a little weird here and there, answering questions I didn't ask and stuff like that. I didn't think too much of it. I meet her in the hotel lobby, she seemed a little drunk, again, I didn't think too much of it, whatever, let's head upstairs. 10 mins into the session, we went straight into business. It was at this time I saw that she has gum stuck to her feet, and is clearly intoxicated. A few minutes later, she says she doesn't want to do this any more and stood up. Saying I'm acting weird and being mean to her. After some back and forth, she agreed to cut the donation in half and left the room. Saying I would never hear from her again. Now, I don't really care about the blue ball and the money, I am a little worried that she is clearly not happy with something during the session, very intoxicated, and might even be mentally unstable. I cannot afford any harassment, potential lawsuits, or anything like that, but I am worried. At the end of the day, I hooked up with a very drunk chick (not knowing how intoxicated she is) in a hotel full of cameras and she stormed out, there is chance she will retaliate and I don't know what to do. Any advice will help!about lawsuits (never heard of one - not impossible) etcetera, I would say call it a mistake and let it go.
Not every session warrants a review IMHO.
Best of luck for your next encounter.
Based solely on what you've described, I would just let it go and do nothing. She's human and maybe she was just having a really bad day; perhaps an event in her personal life created a situation that we don't have control resulted in her behavior that particular day.
Speaking for myself, I have only had to deal once with a situation where a lady showed up and she shouldn't have. Her demeanor was off and I knew it. She tried to be professional about it, but I could tell something was amiss. For a number or ladies, they have no one to talk to because it's a lifestyle that they keep secret. She needed to unload what was on her mind and I listened. It's a difficult thing to see a lady breakdown, but she needed someone to talk to and that's what we did. I gave her the donation anyway and my conscience was clear. I never heard from her again, she vanished. I can only hope that the problems she was dealing with resolved themselves.
Wait about 3 months, then change a few of the details to throw her off.
With any luck, she won't be able to tie you to the review.
Behavior like that ought to be exposed.
Wait "about" a few extra days and the review won't be accepted. As to the rest, I agree.
The guy has no reviews and this would be a very delicate thing to review, especially given the "well reviewed provider" bit. He should take it as learning experience and review all the warning signs he ignored so he doesn't find himself in the same situation in the future.
For all we know he was being mean to her because he doesn't understand the rules yet. Granted that's not how he comes off here but that doesn't mean all that much.
Other guys need to know what they might be getting into, just as her reviews gave you some idea of what she at least used to be like.
You could also pass on mentioning her being drunk, but make a reference to a problem, which would prompt guys to PM you for details. There you could give them the full skinny. It would also keep from applying a "drunk" label to her that would stick even if she goes sober.
Better man than me, I would of opposed to even giving her half the donation if any at all. Maybe this has happened to someone else before? Does she have negative reviews? Perhaps not because their seem to be too many sympathizers out there that chalk it up to "having a bad day." Sure this is a hobby, but the money spent is real. Whatever her donation was, whether it was 400/500 or more at least requires that she perform when she agrees to do a session.
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not a regular occurrence for this provider. Since she is very well reviewed and a top rated provider. I doubt she has gum on her feet on a daily basis. At least it wasn't in her hair.
Showing up drunk is disturbing though. I like the idea of writing the review under an alias with some time in-between. I would be pissed off if some girl showed up drunk, accusatory and demanded a payment for services not delivered as promised!!! This type of behavior should be documented.
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