If a guy you've seen asks you nicely for a referral, you agree, then the other provider calls you, what do you say? How much information do you usually pass along?
For example, is it usually limited to something along the lines of "He was clean, respectful and the envelope was right", or do you into more detail? If so, typically what? Physical description? Sexual preferences?
I know the kinds of things guys write in reviews. How much of the equivalent information do you include or see as relevant?
Just wondering.
Thanks!
No answer is going to be the same -
This is a business and we all run it our own way-
Many provider dont even give referrals and will tell you - i dont know -
Some will -
Those girls are still probably going to screen you - some wont -
My response is always- hes kewl and safe - very sweet -
If I havent seen him in over a year- i will let the girl know that as well -
Many girls give tons of info - the above is all any girl needs to know -
I'm always happy to give a ref for a gent that I've seen. What the girl will get is pretty much the same as Ciara's response.
He was clean, safe.
The only time I will go into more detail is if there was something funky with him that she absolulty should be aware of.
I've asked for references before from some providers LOL that feel the need to give me a blow by blow (no pun intended) description of every minute of their session. Uh thanks but that's too much info!!!!!
you ladies talked at length about what stud I am. Thanks for bursting my bubble.
I already told you that I let all the ladies know about your 10 inch member......
Didn't you ever wonder at the look of surprise when your drop your drawers??? LOL
Kari
I assumed they were all trying to hold in the laughter. Now that the word is out, there will be some very disappointed ladies.
Now that is a great question. Thanks, I kind wanted to know that too.
I think I would say the same as the others unless something funky or stank (lol) happened.
In communicating with ladies who were new to me and had received direct references on my behalf, I have often been told that the new lady was really looking forward to meeting me because of something the referring provider said to them, that my reference said something especially nice about me, or that (teasingly) the lady knows what to watch out for with me, has been "warned". And I've also noted that some of my favorite things happen without my bidding in sessions with the new lady...... I suspect that there is often a good bit of information that is communicated in a referral....
If it's a good referral, I keep it short and sweet -- that he was fun, enjoyable company and I'd see him again. If there's anything about his preferences or personality I think she'd want to know ahead of time, I may include that -- depends on how important I think it is.
I've only had to give one bad referral, and I explained why I wouldn't see him again.
I have also had one client try to use me as a reference when we'd never met. I'm glad the lady contacted me to follow up! I hope he had me confused with someone else and wasn't as shady as he seemed.
Luckily I have never had to give a negative referral. When I call other providers for a referral, the information varies. Really, there is a little bit of everything out there. Usually the answer is: he is nice & fun, you will like him. & they were always right on!!
In my referrals, I am always dicreet with just enough basic information, such as, 'He is really nice, and clean, you'll have a good time'. All of the providers I've contacted always say the same. He's cool, He's nice, or perfect gentleman. The only time someone has gone into detail, which was once, was when there was something unsavory about the person.
Mackenzi
I always give referrels, i think it's a providers duty to the others out there to make sure we're all safe, and one of the ways in doing that is giving a referrel with info that she might need, not the color of your hair or the length of your dick..but i usually say, "he likes you to wear a thong" or something like that to insure that the Hobbyist is happy, and that the other provider have a tiny inside track to his likes OR dislikes for that matter...I never ever look at a referrel as taking business away from myself or anything stupid and silly like that, I'm Provider friendly and i hope they know i will always give a reference if needed.
Jay