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Re: Tough call..
crushgroove 1076 reads
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thanks for the advice.

i replied and will see where this takes me.

i did ask her to clarify the "$200 to see if we click" statement.  
As of right now, I assume she means $200 for 1 hour of her time at dinner/lunch and if the conversation goes well.....the next time we meet should be pleasant to say the least!

Hope she isn't planning on upselling me.  I am hip to the game via this forum and she won't get anywhere.


Thanks again.

crushgroove2278 reads

Wassup folks.

I was recently verified by date check...and decided to reach out to one particular escort via date check.

This escort has NO reviews on TER.....i know, i know.....the "experienced" hobbyist encourage newbies to stick with well reviewed escorts.
I read all the advice in these forums!!

Anyway.....she responds to my email and encourages me to reach out and set up an appt to see if there is "chemistry"...I guess that means a dinner date??  Hell...I dunno.
 She also states that she plans on exiting the business soon and is limiting new clients.
AND
she asked that I not list reviews of her on any website in the event we determine there is chemistry.

So.....what say you???  Gimme some advice.
This lady is HOT (to me at least).
Sound fishy???  Should I look elsewhere??


Thanks

The fact that she is on DateCheck, she is a verified provider, you can take that to the bank. Many providers are 'under the radar' and do not want any reviews posted anywhere, I would not worry about that part. If you just joined Datecheck you will soon learn the real value is to see some of the members there and have them 'verify you' which will show up in your profile. Many ladies there will not see you even though you are a member unless you have some provider oks.

If I were you I would play it out if you like her. Ask her exactly what does this intial appt. involve and go from there. Lots of luck, let us know how it goes..

crushgroove1077 reads

thanks for the advice.

i replied and will see where this takes me.

i did ask her to clarify the "$200 to see if we click" statement.  
As of right now, I assume she means $200 for 1 hour of her time at dinner/lunch and if the conversation goes well.....the next time we meet should be pleasant to say the least!

Hope she isn't planning on upselling me.  I am hip to the game via this forum and she won't get anywhere.


Thanks again.

Oops, you left the part out about '200 to see if we click' bit, that is why I asked you to clarify that. Maybe others will tell you different, but any provider telling me to fork over 200 just to see if maybe she will see me in a session, I would tell her real quick to go jump off the nearest tall bridge or building, LOL! That is what screening is all about, for her to decide if you are OK for her to do a session with or not.  

From what you just said, she did upsell you and has not even met you yet. Now she gets a free lunch and $200.00, for what? to see if she wants to take more of your money? Life is good for some, I suppose. LMAO! Don't fall for that, that is pure BS!  Just my .02 cents.

crushgroove1329 reads

I suspected/assumed that is what she was doing but I wanted to give her the beneift of the doubt and explain the "$200 if we click statement".
I am waiting on a clarification response from her.

Email can be a poor form of communication at times so if she meant something else and she wants to salvage the deal, she needs to restate her position.

Trust me.....I ain't gonna spend $200 AND cover lunch to talk for 60 mins.

We are on the same page Wild Turkey.

I guess I don't understand why you're seeing an unreviewed lady to begin with. Why take that chance?

shudaknownbetter1265 reads

An unreviewed lady is an unreviewed lady.  It amounts to TOFTT...  and she likes it that way!  It may be that she's happily UTR (Under The Radar).  It's a good story, you've been told but makes no differance.  It really depends on your tollerance for risk...
skb

If she wants you to pay to see if you "Click" I'll bet she finds a reason you don't (This is not you want to be F*** )
She's already starting the upsell if she says OK


Upsell - Extra charge for everything -

Be careful Cherry

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