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NewbieOne 1797 reads
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Hey folks .. reading recent post about the annual (who knew such a thing existed) FBI program countrywide... feedback appreciated on...

Wanting to do everything right... contacted a well reviewed (20+ in the last 12 months) who is also a top 20 provider on the top 100... has web presence and SM but hasn't updated in a few months...

Messaged her through p411 over a week ago... made plans for outcall... she never asked for references however I know she checked my p411 profile where I have several OK's one from a provider she's knows....

Just cautious about her not specially asking for references ...

Thoughts appreciated on this being low LE risk

You will find P411 ladies that want additional references but many do not as OK's are references.  She likely made contact with one or more of your OK's.

You message her thru p411 and she didn't ask you for references?  
That IS what P411 is for...  A PLACE TO HOLD YOUR REFERENCES so we don't have to ask for them.  
We contact the references directly thru there.  

What I don't agreed is that she didn't ask for additional information about you..

Many of them now want you to have "OK"s from other providers, or will end up asking for some of the same info you gave P411 to be verified.  I've had this happen to me twice in the last few days with these so-called "Newbie Friendly" providers.  Had to give them a LinkedIN profile and an image of my drivers license, though edited to smudge out all but the name.  So it's both redundant to, but less than the P411 Client verification system.

And yes, that was exactly the problem that P411 is supposed to solve .....

Once you get used to it you will never want to book a session any other way.

 
Typically what happens when I contact a provider through P 411 is I first see that she got my message. (I reach out through PM not an "appointment request", but I don't advise this for others) then I will see that she checked my profile and then shortly thereafter I get a response back from the provider who is already secure in the knowledge that I am "ok" to see. I might add, when I send my initial contact to a P 411 provider, I actually suggest that she check out my profile and okays before getting back to me.

 
Don't worry about her, this is nothing unusual. Please don't listen to the vocal minority of TER providers here that will try to convince you that "most" other providers will still want you to jump through additional hoops even if you are an established P 411 member with several recent okays.  I am often given the green light in as short as just a few minutes.

I also usually contact via p411 and most do not even look at P411 profile.. but having 15+ OK"s that is shown in the message may be enough.. Provider will not know how recent those OKs are unless they see your profile and I am notified when someone reads my profile.

To type up emails with your reference info. That's the whole point and it almost always works great.  She saw your okays including at least one lady she's friends with. There's your reference check. It's not like she's not screening.

Hell, I had one lady agree to see me without ever looking at my profile. The number of okays is right there in the appointment request email, and that was good enough for her. (Well, I guess actually it wasn't. She said she'd love to meet me but asked for a selfie first. But that's a different topic. As far as references, knowing my number of okays was apparently enough.)

souls_harbor76 reads

Oddly, though I only book through P411, I've found that many providers agree to a session and yet don't bother to check my profile.   It never worried me.  I think it would be more of a worry for them.  

HappyChanges78 reads

already checked you out. Very rarely does a provider ask me for references when booking through 411. Even when her willing to see section says "with references".

NewbieOne76 reads

Not only did it work out but my mind is blown... their is a reason some of these ladies are top 20... holy shit is all I am going to say.. the bar is now ar a whole new level

Keep in mind the whole point of p411 is to prove that you are safe. By looking at the scope ,variety and amount of providers that you have seen it proves that she will be safe and one would have a handle on your demeanor behind closed doors.

Just bc you have a p411 act doesn't mean you are safe. There's plenty of unwanted people, blacklisted, those who have NCNS, and physical hurt ladies on p411.  

p411 is a great took to keep your references in one place & also great for advertising.

Thanks for all the responses. I'll join p411...  from what's been said and from what I can gather from other threads, that'll gain me access to at least a fair share of providers - which are plentiful in the nyc area. And for those who want more at first, it's their loss, haha. And no, I have no criminal background. If I did, I wouldn't have been granted acceptance to Global Entry.

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