FYI, this thankfully has never happened to me but I saw a TER review written for a local lady I had seen early in my hobby life. The fellow has written 3 TER reviews but must not have read many..lol.
Seems he had been "ripped" off by this provider. Said he saw her and had $800 in his wallet. After they had finished he took a shower. When he left the motel he looked in his wallet and the money was gone. Now this is one of those moments I have to wonder "what was he thinking????". Why would anyone be carrying that kind of cash especially in a strange motel with a lady he had never seen before. Although I feel like the ladies I visit I can totally trust, why would he do something that dumb??
I looked at his other two TER reviews and both of them he stated the lady had either ripped him off in time or when he was in Vegas, had given two girls over 3k for a party and they took the money and split.
So this got me thinking I should tip off the newbies (cause we know what head they will be thinking with, plus being nervous anyway). Here is what I always do. I take out my credit cards, all my cash but maybe a $20 and lock them into my trunk when I arrive to my destination (lady's incall).
This way she will not be tempted and it's one less thing to worry about!!
So guys use your head on your shoulders prior to using the little head!!!
And for all you sweet ladies that are honest I hope you will not take any offense to this warning post....
One of my first encounters had the "lady" telling me "sorry, but the agency doesn't allow me to have sex with clients, but for $$$ I can return on my own time. What, you don't have the cash? Just hand over this camera, this bar chair, and anything else I see of value to my driver!!! Here is my number, give me a call in a couple of hours!!!" Ok everyone knows that the number wasn't real, and I was left disappointed.
There are many honest providers out there, but there also those who are not!!!
Any guy who has only written three reviews (did I get that right?) and was ripped off all three times either only writes reviews when he is ripped off or something is wrong. In any event, it doesn't do much for his credibility.
MVR
Well, I admit I do remove credit cards & excess cash before first dates. My donation is not in my wallet anyway.
I wonder if he wrote all 3 reviews after 3 strikes. He sure didn't do his homework...
I wonder if he's checked to make sure he has all his credit cards... one scam I heard of involved stealing just 1 backup card that would not be missed immediately.
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That guy has a run of bad luck. My gosh, he sure knows how to pick them.
I feel really bad for gentlemen, who are ripped off. I have heard some horror stories. One client of mine told me he met a girl in her room. Once she took the money, she told him to 'get out'! He asked her what's going on, you have my money? She told him, get out or my boyfriend in the parking lot, will come in and kick your ass.
Of course he left, without his money. How awful. We providers have to be safe, but you guys have to also take caution when visit unknowns. But of course, you shouldn't have any problems with well reviewed TER ladies.
Mackenzi
Key point--"you shouldn't have any problems with well reviewed TER ladies."
How many times has it been said that when a guy sees a lady without reviews, he is rolling the dice. If a guy has VIP he can read the reviews of well reviewed ladies (5 or more reviews) and with those reviews by established reviewers (guys with at least 4 or 5 reviews).
It pays to do your homework.
Granted, it is also wise to take precautions as described above.
I remember being a newbie... and making mistakes. I'm sure it goes both ways. The purpose of TER is for this community to let both parties know what to expect & how to behave.
I've not had nearly the concerns when I occasionally meet a new lady, since I found TER VIP.
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I got ripped off by a streetwalker twenty years ago and learned my lesson-it was the most expensive fifty dollar CBJ I ever got!
If it's an out call to my hotel I lock everything but the donation and maybe an extra $20 to $40 in my room safe. On in calls I only carry the same as above into the room and leave all credit cards in my car.
I don't see many new ladies so I don't worry about any of this too often.
rip offs BS of any kind for the most part can be avioded and if this "dumbass" keeps making the same mistakes...what's his problem?
Research! Read reviews! And so on! It's really not that hard.
Funny, I always feel the opposite. In almost all my encounters, the provider never even mentions the donation and I practically have to bang her on the head to tell her it's in a white envelope right in front of ya (in the bathroom, usually).
I've had two who did about an hour with me, counted the money and realized I paid for two and came back for another round of happyness. I understand that they're not going to refund me, but that they stayed on and worked hard at it for another round is dedication and honesty.
I heard a story last week from a girl I know very well. She related an experience to me where the provider was ripped off.
Most of the ladies I have seen don't ask about the donation and never count it. Its a nice touch you often read in the reviews. They are placing a level of trust in me and taking a chance at times when they do that with new clients. After the first visit, of course, it is not that much of a chance that a known client will short them or leave an empty envelope.
Back to the story. Poor girl started doing her thing with the guy and when he was done he said he left the donation in the car...she agreed to let him go get it alone. You know the rest of the story....
She has been doing this for a year and I was amazed at her gullibility in this case. She was still seething when I saw her. Point is that providers get ripped off some times too. I'm sure the ladies on these boards could tell us a few stories where the clients are less than honest.
using TER, I have seen only ladies that I know I can trust. They are putting a great deal of trust in the simple fact that they are seing me, so I have to feel that same degree of trust. I've never been ripped off, but I did get my lessons in upselling early. A couple of expensive lessons brought me to TER, and it hasn't happened since.