Guys this is a very newbie mistake I'm sure as I've just made it. Getting into the hobby was first so scary but yet exciting. I was fortunately smart enough to join TER Vip and read, read and read everything on the newbie FAQ and everything.

I picked a very well reviewed local lady, emailed her and explained she would be my 1st and I pleaded for the chance to meet her. I gave her plenty of personal info (very scary, but knew it had to be done) and she agreed to meet me at an outcall location. I did everything by the letter, had a great time and now hooked (no pun intended..he..he).

I visted the regional board looking for my next lady but not that many travel to my area. I got restless and started looking at CL and backpage. Most of these ladies have no reviews and stay under the TER radar. Well, I saw one lady that looked so hot, she had a website and it showed more pics (very hot). I tried to see if she was on TER but she wasn't. Well, the little head was thinking and the big head had no say in the matter. I gave her a call. We had a day scheduled but on that day when I called to confirm and get her location she wouldn't pick up. It pissed me off and I thought...dummy you should know better. Well, later that day she did call with a big excuse of a family emergency. So we rescheduled for later in the week. When that day game she told me what area to come to and then call. I did and called and she says, "sorry sweetie, I will be a few minutes late". Well, 45 min. later she calls and gives me the motel and room number. I forgave all sins from her with the anticipation of seeing this hot sweet young lady. Well, you guessed it, she was about 10 years older than pics and easily 80 lbs heavier. Like most of us I had went to so much trouble and her rate was low (should've also been a sign) that I went ahead and did the deed. I was miserable the whole time and got out of there quick. It took me weeks to get her body out of my head and then the thought that I would be with something like that.

So lesson here, be patient and only go with the well reviewed ladies. Don't make the newbie mistake that I made (and I'm sure others here as well!!).

There is a reason these gals don't advertise here on TER and they stay under the radar. Remember to let the Big head make the right decision so the little head will like the final result!!