I am going onto 22 and have only gotten a hand job or blow job. I want to know how people feel about losing their virginity with an escort. And are their any recommendations??
If you ARE thinking of losing your virginity with a Provider, It should be a woman or girl (what ever you desire) who is genuine, real, and very touchable, not a clock watcher, someone you can feel at home and comfortable with, and to find such a person, i suggest you look very carefully at the reviews, pictures and see what rec's you can get from these very smart Hobbyists out there!
I hope your 1st. time is all you hoped it too be!
Good Luck on your search babe.
Jay
should i go with an older provider that can take over or do younger escorts also take over?
i think you should take the advice in the above post, everyone is different breaking it down by age probably isn't the criteria you should be using i would think
Age is only one factor in finding the girl or woman you desire. Why don't you do this...
sit down and think of what you like, blond, brunette, redhead, big boobs, little boobs, short, tall, model material, or girl next door, only YOU can come up with what turns you on hon, Age is only one factor..If your into MILF's there are alot of us on here to take the lead if thats your fantasy. But really think about who and what turns you on...then take the dive!
Jay
Go to The Erotic Highway board and do a search. You'll find several good posts that may help answer your questions and provide you some food for thought
To get to started here's one I found for you...
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=20&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=virginity&SearchType=1&DayFrom=300&DayTo=0&ViewAll=1&MessageID=7934&frmSearch=1
Welcome and Good Luck....
C_K
I see nothing wrong with losing your virginity to a provider. Of course, the *best* way to lose it is to someone you love, but since nice guys usually finish last, that can be a very difficult option. Your first time is just that: first time having sex; like a lot of firsts, it won't be a world-class experience. Think of your first car: you probably didn't care whether or not it was a Lexus. A Ford Escort (pun intended) that didn't break down all the time was probably enough to make you happy.
Make sure that you do a lot of research. You need to find a provider with a friendly, accommodating personality who won't be bothered by your awkwardness and will know how to calm down a nervous client. Agencies are a great starting point for young hobbyists, since a lot of independents are reluctant to see clients less than 30 years old. If you're in the Midwest, I have great recommendations from the Chicago area. Good luck on your first venture.
With all that said, it's *very* important to control your emotions. Remember that while you may walk out with a big goofy grin on your face, the hobby is a business, albeit an enjoyable one. And don't be surprised if your first time isn't all explosions and fireworks. Just focus on making it an enjoyable time for both of you.
If you are only 22, you might want to stay with the civie lifestye for a while. Many ladies will not see guys as young as you.
However, depending on where you live, there may be a good agency that can steer you towards a lady who is especially good at "breaking in" a new guy.
What ever happened to the tradition of an older male family member taking the young gentleman to a "whore house" (they used to call them in Colonial Days) for deflowering.
The only problem is it is habit forming.
If you really don't ant to wait, I suggest finding a MILF... just a bit older & who's willing to teach you. I regret that as a younger man, I was much more into my own pleasure.
Now, as a mature man, I have learned that a good (striving to be great) lover wants to give his partner as much or more than he gets. I've had a lady say "If you do that again, I'll have to pay You!" (If she's reading this, she knows who she is.)
It should be romantic, passionate... not less than 1 hour... preferably 2.
Maybe you would post on your regional board to the left. See what proposals you get.
However great it is. And it will be... Keep a tight hold on your emotions. It's very easy to fall for a lady when you are Balls Deep in her.
skb
So I just got a response from the Escort saying that she is open on friday or next week. Do I tell her I am a 21 yr old virgin now or after we set up an appointment?